How to handle this.

[Sidsmith]

Ok I moved to Kentucky last year after my marriage ended after 25 years. I started to hang out with my next door neighbor drinking coffee every morning. He is a little older than me we are both retired. I caught him looking at my ass and even my balls but thought nothing of it. Lately my urge for cock is so strong and looking online for someone to help I saw a beautiful cock on a site and he had his full name on it. Now he has a girlfriend who works a 9-5 job so the days are just us talking or watching tv.. I started buying a size smaller thin gym shorts that left nothing to the imagination and know he is looking. He is a good friend now do I take a chance? He even replied back to a ad telling me what he likes and wants me to do to him. He has a beautiful cock that I want in my mouth just scared to act. This would my first as a adult.

[KDaddy23]

Well, if he's told you what he likes and wants from you, I'd say go for it... but only if you can get over being afraid to do it - and that's the hard part. I've seen many first time guys in differing degrees of being scared and many have, at one point, literally said, "Fuck it!" and went for it and some just couldn't. If he's game and you are, get your head right about it and do your best to stick your fear off in a corner somewhere then do what you gotta do.

[FullSpectrum]

Sounds to me like you are one very, very lucky guy. All signs point to GO! Let us know!

[csreef]

Fortune favors the Brave! Take the chance!

[GayGuy04]

Sounds like you two would hit it off as fwb good luck and let us know how it goes

[Tight1-4u]

​Full speed ahead!!!

[Sidsmith]

He didn’t know it was my ad. We have been chatting online for weeks and it’s getting hot. I just don’t want to ruin are friendship. His cock is just perfect and I get so hard just thinking about it.

[Bluespark69]

Has he indicated he has had any encounters while chatting online?
I'm thinking it doesn’t get any better than this. You see him checking you out, you’re talking online, you’re both interested in cock...
I’d say call him on it as a friend and have some fun! ��

[Sidsmith]

He said he gave two blowjobs to one guy last year. I just want his cock In my mouth so bad but I’m a chickenshit

[Happy Tongue]

There's actually nothing to worry about because the deck is already stacked-- you know he'd go for it. The key would be to bring up that since you broke up with your lady friend and moved, you've been just getting horny. He might suggest to you that a man could help you out (and maybe it could be him...) You could respond you never had done that but are so horny why not? So you'd be learning from him and I'm sure he'd be happy to oblige. And to have a regular buddy....

[Robtiti]

Go for it! I can just imagine the look on his face when he finds out it's you.

[travelingman5000]

Oh my god! You sound like the luckiest guy on earth. I wish I had a neighbor like this. I would go for it.

[Daviecurious]

Seems you are both on the same road; he just doesn't know that you know. Perhaps steer coffee and conversation toward m/m sex. Or talk about porn you like, what does he like? And let him know about being nervous, first time, how does one get started, ect. Maybe bring a DVD, after asking if you could. I have every confidence things will flow from there.

Hope this helps. Let us know how it goes. :-)

[new day]

You can move your morning conversations toward m/m sex as Davie suggested. Another way to go about it is to continue your online conversation and let him know online that you've already met. Then you can ask him if it would be ok to make a move the next time you are together. Give him some credit, he may have already figured out that you are his online pal or he may be as shy as you are about making the first move.

[bikurinpa]

Ok I moved to Kentucky last year after my marriage ended after 25 years. I started to hang out with my next door neighbor drinking coffee every morning. He is a little older than me we are both retired. I caught him looking at my ass and even my balls but thought nothing of it. Lately my urge for cock is so strong and looking online for someone to help I saw a beautiful cock on a site and he had his full name on it. Now he has a girlfriend who works a 9-5 job so the days are just us talking or watching tv.. I started buying a size smaller thin gym shorts that left nothing to the imagination and know he is looking. He is a good friend now do I take a chance? He even replied back to a ad telling me what he likes and wants me to do to him. He has a beautiful cock that I want in my mouth just scared to act. This would my first as a adult.
You are VERY damn lucky! I cant find anyone with in 100 miles!

[KDaddy23]

He didn’t know it was my ad. We have been chatting online for weeks and it’s getting hot. I just don’t want to ruin are friendship. His cock is just perfect and I get so hard just thinking about it.

Well, that changes things a bit, doesn't it? You have two choices: Tell him that he's been chatting with you all this time and see what happens or don't tell him and keep fiending for his dick. Some might say that you've already - and potentially - ruined the friendship because of this... deception on your part.

[cornholejoe]

go ahead tell him who you are

[DD788Snipe]

I say go for it. Let him know that it's you he's been talking to.

[Bluespark69]

He said he gave two blowjobs to one guy last year. I just want his cock In my mouth so bad but I’m a chickenshit

Hi, has there been any update to this story? You've got me hooked! LOL

[Opportunist]

One morning over coffee just blurt out, what's a guy got to do to get a blowjob around here. 90% certain he will volunteer.

[zbi73]

If he's prepared to be discreet take the plunge, you don't have to tell any one. The only issue I see is that you say he has a girlfriend? If so, is she in the dark about this or is he one of the lucky, accepting and approving of an encounter?

[SlowNEZ]

I am very curious to know how this situation turned out. Perfect scenario for the addage: “So near, and yet so far”.
Did you open up to the neighbor, and did he open up for you? Or were you left holding your own?

[SlowNEZ]

Ooops... I guess Sid is taking this year off.
Anyone want to complete the story for him, using your experiences and or desires?
I propose that the two guys were in the workshop together one day, applying Vaseline to some plumbing pipe threads.
Their lubed hands touched each other, their eyes met, and groping ensued. Unfortunately their slippery hands prevented the ability to unzip each others’ pants and gain access. However, the ice was broken. The workshop has become a bi-man cave.

[Kysquire]

Yeah I wanted this story to have a 'happy ending'.

[Mmpmm]

Here is my ending to this story based on my desires.
I responded to his profile/ad again one evening and we started chatting about our desires and experiences. After a lengthy chat that went very late and into the morning I told my friend I had to go to bed because I had to get up early for coffee with a friend. So we said good night. In the morning I woke up early and got in the shower made sure to wash with fragrant soap. Shaved my face but really spent time shaving my cock, balls and ads. I wanted to be very smooth. I cleaned out and prepared for every possibility. I am ready to explore my fantasies! I have supressed these desires for 25 years and need the experience. I am ready to face the fears that have been holding me back I know I just have to accept who I am and try this with my friend because he will be understanding. After the shower and extra time in front of the mirror I put on the outfit I think is sexy or I think a guy might think is sexy and I go to my neighbors for coffee.

[Mmpmm]

My ending continued.

As usual I let my self in and met my friend in the kitchen. He immediately noticed that I was dressed nicely and smelled good. He said you look nice do you have a date? I said yes. As he looked at my crotch probably noticing my bulge as I was semi hard, He asked if I would be staying for coffee. Oh I have plenty of time to hang out and have coffee and watch tv or chat. So we went into the family room and he sat on the sofa and turned on ESPN. they were interviewing some swimmers. As I sat down next to him on the sofa closer than guys normally sit, I commented that swimmers had really nice bodies and I wish I was toned like that. He said he thought I had a nice build. I said thanks for noticing you do too. You know we have been neighbors for a while but we don't workout together we should do that. I was thinking if today is not the day well then we can be workout buds and hit the sauna, or hot tub afterward. After a couple cups of coffee and watching ESPN it seemed my advances were not being recognized. But I had set the stage to spend more time with less clothing. Then he said don't you have to go to meet your date. I said I already met my date. He oh really so this is not a first meeting. I said no but I hope it progresses because we have been exchanging some racey emails. We chatted online last night until about 1am. He said yeah I was online latte too. I asked what he was looking at online and I let my hand touch his thigh acting like it was a mistake but leaving it there. He just said I was just looking around at stuff you know. I said what kind of stuff? I look at stuff that would surprise people who know me. He clearly was not going to say but I knew because he was chatting with me I knew he wanted to have sex with an in shape clean shaved guy like the swimmers on the tv. He Said you are a pretty normal conservative southern guy and not that wild so I cannot imagine being surprised by your Internet. As I moved my hand up his thigh this time making it obvious, I said you know the date I have today? He said yeah, it's with you. We were chatting together. With that I grabbed his cock and gently kissed him on the lips and now I know you want a nice submissive man to seriously service your 7" cock and then spread his legs for you. With that I knelt on the floor in front of him and pulled out his gorgeous cock. I licked the tip and shaft until he was fully erect. He was still in shock and all he could do is moan. I made out with that mushroom tip for a long time. I had only had a couple of experiences giving head and I wanted to make sure I did this right. I sucked the tip and licked it as my hand grabbed the shaft. I opened up and swallowed as deep as I could without gagging. I tightened my grip on his shaft right next to my lips. I started to move up and down slowly and then faster and stronger grip. I know this is what I like. I can tell by his moaning that he likes it too. My cock is hard and I can feel that tingling. Every time I have given head I com in my pants hands free. I can feel it happening and I suck his cock more enthusiastically. I came in my pants but this time I have not lost my desire I want his cum, I want him to shoot his load on my face I want to be that submissive slut he emailed me about. It didn't take long and he said I'm gonna cum as the first shot hit the back of my throat I opened my mouth and kept jerking him off as he covered my face with cum. Then I came up and kissed him again on the lips and asked now are you surprised? We spent the rest of the day touching eachother playing with toys and experimenting. As I left just before his girlfriend came home that evening, he told me he wanted to top me tomorrow. Whispered in his ear we will meet for coffee tomorrow. Now I know the that a woman has over her man.

[Mmpmm]

I'm surprised SlowNez's idea to finish the story didn't catch on.

[Oborokybiman]

Where in Kentucky are you!? I’m crazy about cock! I’d really enjoy a 3 way male encounter....cum one come all!

[69luvr]

I would advise you to take the chance and suck his cock until he cums in your mouth. Then suck him again. Do not waste a chance of sucking a cock you want!