Surprise third

[Christopher South]

I was talking to an on-line buddy of mine and he mentioned an experience he had. I had this happen twice. We had different reactions to what happened probably because our situations are different... he's an openly gay single guy and I'm a closeted married bi guy. Putting aside your reactions to erotic stories and fantasies about being in this situation, what's your take?

First situation was I was meeting a buddy of mine. I have met this guy several times before. He had blown me to completion and I had just finished blowing him to completion when there was a knock at the door. While I'm still sitting on the floor naked he answers the door, says hi and lets a guy in. The guy walks into the bedroom, gets undressed and stretches out on the bed. Meanwhile my friend starts getting dressed. Since I had just cum and had to get going, I got dressed, said good bye and left. The guy was good looking and in any other situation I'd probably hook up with him.

The second situation was I visited another buddy (my third time visiting him). Got to his place and knocked on the door and I hear "Come in". Walk in and he's standing in front of a guy getting his cock sucked by another guy. Didn't know the other guy was going to be there. My buddy invited me over to get my cock sucked, which I did, but the surprise of seeing someone else there made it less than enjoyable so I just left. The guy was younger, handsome and jerking a nice cock as he sucked my buddy. In another situation, I would have been attracted to him.

The first situation was in my town. The second was in the town I work. Being in the closet and wanting/expecting discretion I always make sure I don't personally know a guy I'm going to hook up with. But in these two cases I had no choice (other than to leave.) I could have ended up meeting a neighbor or coworker.

So... is it OK to get surprised by a third guy joining you?

[Flypaper]

I was talking to an on-line buddy of mine and he mentioned an experience he had. I had this happen twice. We had different reactions to what happened probably because our situations are different... he's an openly gay single guy and I'm a closeted married bi guy. Putting aside your reactions to erotic stories and fantasies about being in this situation, what's your take?

First situation was I was meeting a buddy of mine. I have met this guy several times before. He had blown me to completion and I had just finished blowing him to completion when there was a knock at the door. While I'm still sitting on the floor naked he answers the door, says hi and lets a guy in. The guy walks into the bedroom, gets undressed and stretches out on the bed. Meanwhile my friend starts getting dressed. Since I had just cum and had to get going, I got dressed, said good bye and left. The guy was good looking and in any other situation I'd probably hook up with him.

The second situation was I visited another buddy (my third time visiting him). Got to his place and knocked on the door and I hear "Come in". Walk in and he's standing in front of a guy getting his cock sucked by another guy. Didn't know the other guy was going to be there. My buddy invited me over to get my cock sucked, which I did, but the surprise of seeing someone else there made it less than enjoyable so I just left. The guy was younger, handsome and jerking a nice cock as he sucked my buddy. In another situation, I would have been attracted to him.

The first situation was in my town. The second was in the town I work. Being in the closet and wanting/expecting discretion I always make sure I don't personally know a guy I'm going to hook up with. But in these two cases I had no choice (other than to leave.) I could have ended up meeting a neighbor or coworker.

So... is it OK to get surprised by a third guy joining you?

Its a purely hypothetical situation for me, as I don’t have a close friend I’ve hooked up with several times. But if I did - and I too am married closeted bi - and I was already naked and sated and another guy walked in? I’d go with it. In fact, once the door is closed and my clothes are off, anything goes...

[SilkyHoseLover]

While it may be hot to think of a third, I believe that it's common courtesy to be notified IN ADVANCE that there was the possibility or probability that someone else may be present, whether or not he or she was to be a participant. I wouldn't spring that on someone else as a surprise, unless we'd discussed it and he stated that it would be a turn-on for him.

[KDaddy23]

Usually common courtesy to know that someone else will be joining; some folks don't like being surprised and getting their vibe all fucked up.

[cornholejoe]

i like to know a head of time if its going to be a 3some dont like surprizes but have had a few in the past now only met with men i know

[NjbiGuy01]

I had two occasions like this in my life. One night I was invited over to a regular male play partner's house. We'd played before as a duo, but this time he and a male friend were watching TV in the livingroom when I got there. He introduced his friend and said "I hope you don't mind if he joins ?"...I was a little taken back, but I said, sure ! I had played with two men years before on a cruise (I worked as a musician for years on ships). We had a nice time, he had an awesome cock and we played in many combinations, the best being 69-ing with him (his cock was huge) while my friend fucked me from behind....

Another time, I was on a cruise ship and met a woman in the bar late at night. We strolled the deck, had a few drinks, and she invited me back to her cabin. We began playing when the door opened and her husband walked in...I got all flustered and she said "It's okay honey we're swingers and we love more than two in our bed". Wow...he was straight, but let me suck his cock and eat his wife while he fucked her from behind as we 69'ed. What a wild night. We played a few times during the cruise and really had fun ! Nothing beat fucking outside their cabin on their private deck in the cool evening breezes of the Caribbean !

[Waylon]

Just the other night a feeder I had only seen once was scheduled to stop by my place after he got off work. I was really looking forward to servicing him again. When he got to my front door, there was another guy with him. He asked if it was ok for his buddy to come in too. I said sure. At first he said his buddy just wanted to watch but when I started giving my feeder a blowjob, he came over to my chair with his cock in hand so I could service them both, which I was actually quite pleased to be able to do. I went at my feeder for a while, then switched to his buddy for a while as they both commented what a great cocksucker I was and decided among themselves which guy was going to cum first. His buddy erupted a nice load in my mouth and I saved it to show them both before I gulped. And then my feeder finished deep in my throat when I had him balls deep with my hands pulling his buttocks deep into my mouth. They both were very pleased and we made a date for another threesome soon.

[19biman61]

While common courtesy would call for being informed that a third person would be joining in I would not object to it. If the third turned out to be a neighbor or co-worker then that would be even better as long as they are discreet. If they are engaged in gay or Bi sex play and you haven't heard about it then they probably are discreet. If you are a married, closeted Bi or your wife knows but doesn't want to join in the fun then having a neighbor or co-worker to play with could work out nicely. It could appear that you are simply visiting with a friendly neighbor or co-worker. Nobody else needs to know the details of the visit.

[stonebow]

I've never been surprised with an impromptu three-way....but I MAY have been the surprise third. Met at a coffee shop with this guy I'd been with a couple times before. He said he couldn't stay long as he had to meet somebody. Didn't realize he meant he had to hook up with someone. I don't recall if he contacted the guy first or not but eventually he told me what the "meeting' was for and asked me if I'd like to join them I said sure...if he was sure it'd be OK with his friend. He said it was cool. I still don't know if the other guy was surprised or not but he took it in stride and we had a great time. So glad I didn't turn down the chance....that was the first time I ever came from being fucked!

[sysper]

well i wouldn't wanna be surprised by any male friend of mine, that would be too weird for me. i'd be more forgiving being surprised by any female friend of mine but depending on the friend that could be weird too. definately don't wanna be surprised by anyone related to me!
aside from that i guess it depends on the kinda relationship i would have with someone i'm having sex with. if it was just an fwb chances are, it would be a welcome surprise! if i was closer with someone than fwb i'd still be open to having more people but i would tend to wanna be 1 on 1 with such a person. so unless it was discussed before whether i'd be open to opening the bedroom for the nite or such a person picked up on a vibe i'd be open, i'd rather not.

[Neonaught]

Over the years I have developed a small circle of regular partners, all married closets bi men. To a man they have always be open to group play and I have managed to arrange small groups as big as 5 now and then.