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Shelby57
Oct 22, 2018, 9:51 PM
First, let me say that I am a male bottom so my point of view might be different that yours. There have been a few threads on how difficult it can be to find a partner so I am interested to know what you do when you can't find one. For me, I have had two 8" dildos for quite a while that I play with . I use one for oral and one for anal, frequently at the same time. Looking for a little more variety, I just ordered a sex machine on Amazon. It arrived today and I spent an hour and a half trying it out. I would have lasted longer but ran out of lube. Needless to say, it was a good purchase. When I went to the adult store to get more lube, I also picked up my first butt plug, which I am wearing right now and enjoying very much. Did I mention I was a bottom? :rolleyes:

So let us all know, what do you use for those lonely, rainy nights? Inquiring minds and all that...:confused:

LovingLingerie
Oct 23, 2018, 7:10 AM
I have several. I have a thin 6” one that’s is curved, veiny and fairly rigid.
The second is 9” and thick and softer. I have two double enders. One is 1.5” diameter
and 18” long. I use that one to deepthroat. I can get about 10” to 11” down my throat pretty easy now.
Once in a while I use it on my boi pussy. It takes a while but I work it all the way in. God it makes me drip so hard
when i see my stomach moving from it. Plus one cage and several different plugs.

oldoralman
Oct 23, 2018, 4:45 PM
I only have 1 dildo 8 inches long, but I sure love to give my ass a workout. Fortunately my wife will use it on me sometimes, I really enjoy it then. Unfortunately I only had a real cock once. That is the best.

Tight1-4u
Oct 24, 2018, 12:08 AM
First, let me say that I am a male bottom so my point of view might be different that yours. There have been a few threads on how difficult it can be to find a partner so I am interested to know what you do when you can't find one. For me, I have had two 8" dildos for quite a while that I play with . I use one for oral and one for anal, frequently at the same time. Looking for a little more variety, I just ordered a sex machine on Amazon. It arrived today and I spent an hour and a half trying it out. I would have lasted longer but ran out of lube. Needless to say, it was a good purchase. When I went to the adult store to get more lube, I also picked up my first butt plug, which I am wearing right now and enjoying very much. Did I mention I was a bottom? :rolleyes:

So let us all know, what do you use for those lonely, rainy nights? Inquiring minds and all that...:confused:


I have a few different plugs that I enjoy.. I have 4 different dildos I really enjoy.. from 7” to 12” I like the thick ones best!! Tonight my 10” one is balls deep in my pussy.. I have been riding it for a couple hours now and about to explode..

Fzmr9t
Oct 24, 2018, 1:19 AM
I had a nice thick dildo
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That I played with
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Butt I don’t have it any more, so I went to the grocery store and went au natural
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hung4you
Oct 24, 2018, 4:57 AM
When I travel I always take my 7.5 inch suction cup dildo with me. It’s vertisal as I can assume many position from standing, or on all fours and ride it hard as my cock leaks yummy precum.

Waylon
Oct 24, 2018, 10:21 AM
I have 2 very realistic dildos. White Daddy is 8inches and a long time favorite. The other is a very realistic black cock, 7 inches and a bit thicker with an ejaculation feature for a special treat. I call him Black Daddy. Whenever either one or both let me know they want a good blowjob, I am pleased to be of service anytime they want. It is a fun fantasy game but of course nothing beats the real thing.......

Neonaught
Oct 24, 2018, 10:53 AM
I have 5 different Fleshlights, a silcone wank glove and a few vibrating prostate toys I favor.

Bifun2009
Oct 25, 2018, 9:26 AM
First, let me say that I am a male bottom so my point of view might be different that yours. There have been a few threads on how difficult it can be to find a partner so I am interested to know what you do when you can't find one. For me, I have had two 8" dildos for quite a while that I play with . I use one for oral and one for anal, frequently at the same time. Looking for a little more variety, I just ordered a sex machine on Amazon. It arrived today and I spent an hour and a half trying it out. I would have lasted longer but ran out of lube. Needless to say, it was a good purchase. When I went to the adult store to get more lube, I also picked up my first butt plug, which I am wearing right now and enjoying very much. Did I mention I was a bottom? :rolleyes:

So let us all know, what do you use for those lonely, rainy nights? Inquiring minds and all that...:confused:


Shelby, how about sharing a link and some info on the sex machine that you bought off of Amazon? I'm a versatile top and discovered the joy of using dildos on my hole, a couple of years ago. I've been researching them lately and I'm curious to see which one you bought as well as your feedback and the cost, before I make a purchase.
Recently, a good friend/former fuck buddy of mine had reached out and is wanting to reconnect. I'm looking forward to being able to fuck him good but also, being able to flip for him and get my hole worked over by a real cock for the first time. He moved out of state 5 years ago but, has bought a place that is 3 hours away so, I am looking to buy a sex machine for the nights that I am alone and for possible , future play with him ;)

chongster
Oct 25, 2018, 10:27 AM
I'm a top but I do love ass play and like to sit on a vibrator while rubbing one out.

Asspussy302
Oct 25, 2018, 11:16 AM
I have a collection of butt plugs I really like, and 4 dildos. My wife has a strapon with a few dildos she like to fuck me with. I really love all of those too.

TXLonestarTX69
Oct 27, 2018, 5:37 AM
For me, I LOVE my stainless cockrings (for solo and partnered sex) the resulting orgasm is amazing. I have a few Fleshlights but use them rarely. I like feeling my cock in my hand and seeing the engorgement and color change as I get close. Also enjoy watching my cum shoot. I do have some anal beads that I use on occasion. Enjoy pulling them out as I'm cumming.

sysper
Oct 27, 2018, 8:18 PM
my delusions

cbb83
Oct 29, 2018, 12:17 PM
For bottoming purposes? An Aneros is always fun, but I have to say the Magic dildo from elypseart.com is amazing, and I highly recommend it for anyone whether they're a man or a woman. Although be warned that it is a bit of an unorthodox design to say the least. Don't knock it til you try it.

TXLonestarTX69
Oct 30, 2018, 8:17 AM
Yeah, that's unorthodox. LOL!! Woof!

cbb83
Oct 30, 2018, 12:02 PM
Woof indeed ;) If you can get past that it really is an amazing toy though!