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still_shy
Nov 1, 2016, 12:25 PM
Hello friends! I have missed this place. When I poked my head back in this morning, I did see a few familiar faces. Frannie, so glad to see you're still around causing trouble <3 I don't know if anyone else will remember me (it's been a long time) but I thought I'd take a minute to say hello to anyone who's left here from the old days!

pole_smoker
Nov 1, 2016, 12:32 PM
Who are you?

still_shy
Nov 1, 2016, 12:38 PM
Just a girl who used to be around a lot. I have some great memories of this place and the people here but I haven't been here in a couple of years.

still_shy
Nov 1, 2016, 12:41 PM
Querty, empty your messages. I tried to respond to you but your box is full!

darkeyes
Nov 1, 2016, 12:56 PM
Hello friends! I have missed this place. When I poked my head back in this morning, I did see a few familiar faces. Frannie, so glad to see you're still around causing trouble <3 I don't know if anyone else will remember me (it's been a long time) but I thought I'd take a minute to say hello to anyone who's left here from the old days!Huggles :love87:..... 'n stuff;)....

12voltyV2.0
Nov 1, 2016, 4:11 PM
Hello Still--long time no see. Not too many from the heyday of the site are still here--it is a wonder the site still is---Drew died a few years ago---if you did not know--the word was he killed himself.

The chat hasn't worked in ages and the site did go off earlier this year for a few months but did come back---don't know how long that will last.

Welcome back though.....

still_shy
Nov 1, 2016, 4:29 PM
I really hate that so many things have happened while I was away. I am so sad about drew and Duckie. Glad to see you and Fran and realist though <3

still_shy
Nov 1, 2016, 4:46 PM
I think I just always assumed that this place would remain unchanged and the people, still here whenever I decided to come back. It was a naive point of view to have.

sysper
Nov 1, 2016, 9:07 PM
hi.......i'm pretty recent here i don't remember u........but allways good to make a good friend....so....hi :)

tenni
Nov 1, 2016, 9:08 PM
Good to see you here again. :) As I recall, the last time that you may have posted was as you were settling in to a new area.

MtnMan
Nov 2, 2016, 12:43 AM
Hi Still,
Yes, I remember you. Welcome back! I just stop in occasionally, but it's nice to see some of the "nice" folks return!
Cheers,
Bill

mtenn
Nov 2, 2016, 4:37 AM
The "old" days chatting with folks on this site was fun. I miss that.

still_shy
Nov 2, 2016, 8:54 AM
Good to see you here again. :) As I recall, the last time that you may have posted was as you were settling in to a new area.

We moved across the country about six years ago. It was a huge adjustment to make but well worth it. About a month ago, my husband accepted a new position and we moved again lol This time it was just across the state but hopefully it'll be our last move for a very long time. :)

murano2641
Nov 2, 2016, 10:29 AM
Nice to see you've come back. I came across some of your older posts recently as we very intrigued. Hopefully you'll stay in touch.

Coastocoast
Nov 2, 2016, 1:13 PM
It has changed a lot here since Drew passed away. Many have left.

Kysquire
Nov 2, 2016, 3:14 PM
I enjoy the site, the stories, the sex, and the people. Hopefully more people will join.

csreef
Nov 2, 2016, 3:40 PM
Dear still_shy,

It is good to see you back again !

You are a member who has made a positive contribution to this site, and helped it to become a community.

Hopefully by you being back, your Positive Energy will bring more Positive People back to this site.

A.

still_shy
Nov 2, 2016, 4:50 PM
I intend to stick around this time. Thanks everyone for all of the kind words :)

cuttin2dachase
Nov 2, 2016, 5:30 PM
Welcome back :) Many things on this site have indeed changed. I think the disintegration of both the chatrooms and the personal/instant messaging functions served to drive many bisexual.com regulars away or to other sites, but the forums remain popular, informative and quite titillating/exciting, at least for me. This site still attracts new people who find it refreshing and open as well as creating new threads which are of interest. Many of them ask for advice from other men or women who've been in their shoes. I'm always glad when former regulars like you decide to drop by or come back into the fold :) I've always enjoyed reading other bi mens' and womens' experiences, feelings and opinions/advice as well as telling about my own experiences and expressing my feelings and opinions/advice. Unless and until this site goes dark (hopefully never), I will continue to visit here to read and contribute to various forum threads.

jem_is_bi
Nov 2, 2016, 9:42 PM
Welcome back, I wish some of the other wonderful women that use to be here would come back too.

Yoyome100
Nov 2, 2016, 10:35 PM
Welcome back still_shy!

DrBimind
Nov 3, 2016, 6:03 PM
Welcome back...moving is the worse!!!!...took us 2 years to get used to not moving just to be back where we started LOL...also just a Fyi for anyone and all...a bunch of us from here are also on Swing-Bi.com another FREE site that does have a working chat that's very under-used (guilty as charged too)...it's a good feeling to have a back up site that's independent as well...run by a couple out of Indy, very friendly, monitored for trollish and rudeness behavior, and the host are members here as well. So nice to have good, sane and polite peeps on any site...Happy trails...

querty
Nov 3, 2016, 8:32 PM
I too am on Swing-Bi - great site that i am hoping catches on more

still_shy
Nov 4, 2016, 9:03 AM
I joined Swing-bi as well (same username). Hope to see some of you around there:)

Meliss
Nov 4, 2016, 2:10 PM
I too miss the chatroom and friends here. Sigh.

sysper
Nov 4, 2016, 7:05 PM
there's also a few more webistes where people from here have gone, bisexuality.club & mysecretchoice.com but that 1 hasn't been up for awhile.

dutch0927
Nov 5, 2016, 7:24 AM
Near Wheeling WV

still_shy
Nov 6, 2016, 8:58 AM
there's also a few more webistes where people from here have gone, bisexuality.club & mysecretchoice.com but that 1 hasn't been up for awhile.
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i tried to go to bisexuality.club but the page that came up looked a little weird. Is it bisexuality.club.com?

sysper
Nov 6, 2016, 2:07 PM
nope it is actually just http://bisexuality.club. it doesn't get much use but who knows in the future.

cbj4162
Nov 7, 2016, 4:28 AM
Hello ..... I drop by and send a message to a friend but, I am not on here like the old days with chat rooms. :) :) Have a good one.

oldoralman
Nov 9, 2016, 4:01 PM
Some of us wer hear when you last were here. Glad to see that your bsck. Even married Bi males like to chat with a lady some time

BiBedBud
Nov 11, 2016, 1:13 PM
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i tried to go to bisexuality.club but the page that came up looked a little weird. Is it bisexuality.club.com?

Sorry about that. You probably typed-in the "www." before the address URL, and that brought-up a text only version of the site. I had noticed this before, but left it in place because it was useful for my purposes administering the site (it loaded instantly and saved bandwidth). But, I can appreciate how it might be off-putting, so I've done away with that (by setting up a server re-direct).

Now it doesn't matter, all roads lead to http://bisexuality.club (http://bisexualiy.club)

BTW I'd like to add a couple of points about The Bisexuality.Club (http://bisexuality.club)...

For a limited time only, anyone who joins will have their membership automatically upgraded to Premium, and will enjoy *PERPETUALLY FREE MEMBERSHIP*. Once may paywall goes-up, Premium membership will come at a modest annual cost. For the time-being, I am trying to monetize the site with garish ads, thereby monetizing your eyeballs (although, very thinly so -- just enough to keep it interesting, but not enough to pay for anything). Lucky for me, I have excess bandwidth and a reason to practice with the software. If the garish ads are entirely too off-putting for you, you can flip a switch in the software to view the site's "Low Ads Edition" when you are signed-in. This kills the garish ads in the page margins, though I'm afraid not the inline ones. This is a hard limit of the software and the way it serves webpages.

For you peeps who are weary of the dangers of the interwebs, one day soon I will install SSL in case that calms your concerns. In the meantime please consider that this site doesn't use SSL either; and there's plenty to make one wonder what kinds of shenanigans are going on around here.

Also, we have TWO WAYS TO CHAT

One is the stereo-typical chatroom you're all familiar with, which you can even enter and post-in as a 'Guest' by visiting here...
http://bisexuality.club/app.php/chat Please note that this chat room runs on my own rented server space, and does not employ any third-party infrastructure (unlike the 123 Flash Chat which always ran on this website).

There is also an innovative chat application running on the site which follows you around from one webpage to the next, and which allows direct person-to-person chatting in real time. NB: This chat installation (which appears in the lower right of the screens in The Bisexuality.Club) does indeed send traffic to servers in France and Italy, so don't use it for any kind of anti-French or anti-Italian sexy talk, or whatever. (I never could understand those peeps who dressed-up like Nazis for their sex play. That ain't Freaky, it's just Creepy!)

Everyone *EXCEPT* Pole_Smoker is welcome (I already kicked him out before.) I also kicked-out Charles_Smythe when he posted hateful anti-gay jokes the day of the Pulse Nightclub Massacre in Orlando, Florida. So, if you'd prefer a website experience with two ways to chat and not so much puerile BS as has cluttered this place, come on over (almost) all of you are welcome!