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Jitterbug17
Nov 30, 2015, 10:39 PM
Let me break this down so I can get the input that would be most beneficial.

I have an incredible boyfriend of 2.5yrs. He makes a fantastic effort to keep up with me.
We have sex approx. twice a week. (Better than the average couple supposedly)

I have ALWAYS had a high libido, and nobody has ever been able to keep up entirely.
He has been the only person in my life to keep up (to a degree).

The fact that he isn't satisfying me 100% is making him feel bad, and I am trying to assure him it is totally me and not him!!


When do you know it is at a point you should seek medical help in LOWERING your libido?
I don't exhibit inappropriate behaviour, I don't cheat, I am not an addict.
It just takes a LOT to get me 100% finished.

Do I find a way to lower my libido or seek a way to match it ?

Any thoughts or advice from other people out there? Preferably other women like myself? I am 25.

pole_smoker
Dec 1, 2015, 1:10 AM
Find a person who has a high libido like you do, or just get used to masturbating? That's what a guy I know who has a high libido does while his wife has a very low libido.

Neonaught
Dec 1, 2015, 11:59 AM
Where have you been all my life? LOL

On a more serious note, as a man that shares your problem there are limited options. For me it comes down (pun unintended) to masturbation or seeking additional partners. Fortunately I have a very understanding wife of many years.

lizard-lix
Dec 1, 2015, 1:39 PM
For many years it was masturbation, then porn and masturbation, then cybersex and masturbation and finally we are opening the marriage so I will find some additional partners. Like Neonaught, I am very lucky to also have an understanding wife of many years.

Christopher South
Dec 1, 2015, 2:27 PM
I'm a 2x per week type of guy. With that I may masturbate 1-2 times a week. If I get 1x per week, I'll masturbate 3-4 times per week. If I get nothing it's 5-6 times per week. But after a few weeks of nothing even every day doesn't cut it. You just don't get the physical release from masturbating that you get from a sensual, physical encounter with another person.

Finally
Dec 1, 2015, 3:25 PM
I need to find a person like you.! I would like sex daily so far no luck. So like everyone else masturbate a lot

darkeyes
Dec 1, 2015, 3:41 PM
I have several ways of dealing with it.. my wife has a powerful libido herself and we have an open relationship. These things serpently help. As do Rog, Sybina, Billy Bullet and me fingies all of which keep me ver happy tyvm.. :impleased

pepperjack
Dec 1, 2015, 9:34 PM
Find a person who has a high libido like you do, or just get used to masturbating? That's what a guy I know who has a high libido does while his wife has a very low libido.

LMAO ;) :rolleyes: you don't know any guy like that because you're a confirmed liar/troll LMAO;):rolleyes:

pole_smoker
Dec 1, 2015, 9:49 PM
LMAO ;) :rolleyes: you don't know any guy like that because you're a confirmed liar/troll LMAO;):rolleyes:
LMAO!!! Says who? YOU? LMAO you're a confirmed and verified phony/troll/liar/closet queen from a small town in flyover country who I do not have to prove anything to. :rolleyes:

Anyway, I do know that guy, he's gay and I dated him and his BF at the same time decades ago when we were in college and they had an open relationship. He later wound up marrying a different gay man who is pretty much one step above being asexual who he cheats on, and I found this out since one day decades later he contacted me out of nowhere before I was married wanting me to help him cheat on his husband who has a low libido.

I said no, and emailed his husband our email exchange along with full nude pics of the guy. ;) :rolleyes:


I have several ways of dealing with it.. my wife has a powerful libido herself and we have an open relationship. These things serpently help. As do Rog, Sybina, Billy Bullet and me fingies all of which keep me ver happy tyvm..

Don't forget fists! ;) https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BRlAGGoCUAEt7FN.jpg

http://media.analarea.com/5512/5512073/5361125ed610b5273d1bb86900ee972c.gif

Realist
Dec 1, 2015, 10:01 PM
Jitterbug.

My 1st wife also had a very powerful libido. She was also bisexual. I was in the Air Force, when we married and I worked after hours for a contractor. As you might imagine, military folks didn't and don't make decent salaries, so, when possible, we'd get outside jobs to help meet financial obligations. A problem arose, when I was too worn out by the time I got home, to do anything but grab a bite, take a shower, and go got sleep. After a bout a year of us only getting sated on weekends, she approached me with the possibility of her having a GF. I never was a jealous person and realized her needs weren't getting met. She knew another woman who was interested, but she was good enough not to go behind my back. I agreed......she ended up in a discreet/rewarding relationship with the other woman and her disposition improved exponentially! She was happier and I never was slighted, when we had an opportunity to be make up for lost time. I was never asked to join her and her GF; I didn't have time for it, anyway.

No advice, just saying what worked for us.

Good luck.

pole_smoker
Dec 1, 2015, 10:07 PM
Jitterbug.

My 1st wife also had a very powerful libido. She was also bisexual. I was in the Air Force, when we married and I worked after hours for a contractor. As you might imagine, military folks didn't and don't make decent salaries, so, when possible, we'd get outside jobs to help meet financial obligations. A problem arose, when I was too worn out by the time I got home, to do anything but grab a bite, take a shower, and go got sleep. After a bout a year of us only getting sated on weekends, she approached me with the possibility of her having a GF. I never was a jealous person and realized her needs weren't getting met. She knew another woman who was interested, but she was good enough not to go behind my back. I agreed......she ended up in a discreet/rewarding relationship with the other woman and her disposition improved exponentially! She was happier and I never was slighted, when we had an opportunity to be make up for lost time. I was never asked to join her and her GF; I didn't have time for it, anyway.

No advice, just saying what worked for us.

Good luck.
LMAO realist that's the "wife" you wound up cheating on, and who cares about her needs since you were not man enough to eat her cunt and fuck her. :rolleys: Anyway all of your "wives" and your wannabe "girlfriend" are all whores. :rolleyes: ;)

Jitterbug17
Dec 3, 2015, 3:14 AM
Thanks for the responses from those honestly trying to give their thoughts.

We have discussed threesomes. I do not believe he could cope with a 2nd lady even if I was helping lol

I do not have time to find a gf anyways. I am bi but prefer men.

Masturbation is not a good option for me cause it takes WAY too much work and time and I cannot reach the same levels as physical contact with someone I love.

I know I cannot change my bf's sex drive, but how can I possibly stay in this relationship when sex matters to me and not as much to him.
A for effort on his part but honestly... lol

cuttin2dachase
Dec 3, 2015, 6:04 PM
My 1st wife and I were swingers. My libido was high but not quite as high as hers. 3 to 4 times per week was the norm for us, plus we played with other couples and men as often as we could. Still I knew that she would have sex with me or other men every day if she could !

I travelled for my company 6-8 times per year. I was away from her anywhere from 4 days to 2 weeks. She would tell me how she literally climbed the walls needing sex while I was away. We discussed the matter and worked out a "hall pass" agreement. I had no problem with her playing with other men since I'd loved watching her do just that many times already. But I was concerned with her physical safety and with STDs. I didn't want her picking up strange men. We agreed that she could play, but only with men or couples we had played with together. She had several favorites that we had met on more than one occasion who she just couldn't get enough of, so I told her she could invite any of them when I was away. I didn't demand that she tell me beforehand, but she'd still call or email me all flushed and excited and tell me anyway about who she was going to be with that day or night. Sometimes she would even call me while they were having sex. When I returned, I always enjoyed her telling me in detail about the naughty things she'd done. She even videoed several of her trysts. It made our lovemaking even hotter.

I know your situation is different than mine was, in that you and your bf are not swingers and are not used to sharing each other sexually with other people. Just be open and honest with your bf. Tell him exactly what you have told the readers of your post here. From what you said it sounds like he thinks that he is in some way deficient or not good enough for you and does not see the difference in loving someone and having sex with someone. It's just a matter of convincing him to understand that your sexual desires are a part of you and that he should support and embrace it and that it will not affect your love for him. He could very well be open to letting you play on your own with other men and women or couples. It's also possible he'd want to watch you with other people and join you on occasion in swinging sex. You'll never know unless you suggest to him alternate avenues or outlets for your high sex drive. He could very well surprise you and indulge you in your desires. I am not a moralist. I neither condone or condemn infidelity, but if that is the only satisfactory resolution for you, then you should consider it as an alternative and not feel guilt or shame.

pepperjack
Dec 3, 2015, 6:14 PM
LMAO realist that's the "wife" you wound up cheating on, and who cares about her needs since you were not man enough to eat her cunt and fuck her. :rolleys: Anyway all of your "wives" and your wannabe "girlfriend" are all whores. :rolleyes: ;)

And you're an absolutely worthless piece of shit !

pole_smoker
Dec 3, 2015, 7:41 PM
My 1st wife and I were swingers. My libido was high but not quite as high as hers. 3 to 4 times per week was the norm for us, plus we played with other couples and men as often as we could. Still I knew that she would have sex with me or other men every day if she could !

I travelled for my company 6-8 times per year. I was away from her anywhere from 4 days to 2 weeks. She would tell me how she literally climbed the walls needing sex while I was away. We discussed the matter and worked out a "hall pass" agreement. I had no problem with her playing with other men since I'd loved watching her do just that many times already. But I was concerned with her physical safety and with STDs. I didn't want her picking up strange men. We agreed that she could play, but only with men or couples we had played with together. She had several favorites that we had met on more than one occasion who she just couldn't get enough of, so I told her she could invite any of them when I was away. I didn't demand that she tell me beforehand, but she'd still call or email me all flushed and excited and tell me anyway about who she was going to be with that day or night. Sometimes she would even call me while they were having sex. When I returned, I always enjoyed her telling me in detail about the naughty things she'd done. She even videoed several of her trysts. It made our lovemaking even hotter.

I know your situation is different than mine was, in that you and your bf are not swingers and are not used to sharing each other sexually with other people. Just be open and honest with your bf. Tell him exactly what you have told the readers of your post here. From what you said it sounds like he thinks that he is in some way deficient or not good enough for you and does not see the difference in loving someone and having sex with someone. It's just a matter of convincing him to understand that your sexual desires are a part of you and that he should support and embrace it and that it will not affect your love for him. He could very well be open to letting you play on your own with other men and women or couples. It's also possible he'd want to watch you with other people and join you on occasion in swinging sex. You'll never know unless you suggest to him alternate avenues or outlets for your high sex drive. He could very well surprise you and indulge you in your desires. I am not a moralist. I neither condone or condemn infidelity, but if that is the only satisfactory resolution for you, then you should consider it as an alternative and not feel guilt or shame.
LMAO!!! yet this troll cuttin2dachase doesn't tell you how he cheated on all of his "wives" with men, and how he lives in his mom's spare bedroom and thinks nobody in his personal life can tell he's bisexual when they all know he is and suspect he's gay...and people who cheat have the morals of a sewer rat. :rolleyes:

Don't want to hear the facts or be 'judged'? Then keep your cunt, dick, or ass in your pants. :rolleyes:

pepperjack
Dec 3, 2015, 8:10 PM
LMAO!!! yet this troll cuttin2dachase doesn't tell you how he cheated on all of his "wives" with men, and how he lives in his mom's spare bedroom and thinks nobody in his personal life can tell he's bisexual when they all know he is and suspect he's gay...and people who cheat have the morals of a sewer rat. :rolleyes:

Don't want to hear the facts or be 'judged'? Then keep your cunt, dick, or ass in your pants. :rolleyes:

LMAO! If anyone knows the habits of sewer rats, it's u ! :rolleyes: u have to look up to see the gutter ! :smilies15

njfresh
Dec 5, 2015, 10:07 AM
Bump. There is some value to this thread.

cslutt
Dec 5, 2015, 11:04 AM
When I was in my teens, I masturbated every chance I got, same in my 20's, but by then I was working (physical jobs) and married. Wife and I had totally the opposite views on sex; her view was once every two weeks, mine was every day and twice on Sunday. So, I jerked off a lot, sometimes her helping me. By my 40's, ED started happening. I could get it up but couldn't finish. 50's, more of the same, jerking off once or twice a week, sex once a month. Had other medical problems, now in my 60's, haven't cum in months, have had 5 strokes. Your body will self-regulate your libido, just be glad you're alive!

pole_smoker
Dec 5, 2015, 12:45 PM
LMAO! If anyone knows the habits of sewer rats, it's u ! :rolleyes: u have to look up to see the gutter ! :smilies15
I'm not a sewer rat or anything like that but you certainly are but you're an illiterate closet queen in flyover country. ;) :rolleyes:

cuttin2dachase
Dec 5, 2015, 6:39 PM
I see that my previous post evoked a response from small_poker. He's on my ignore list and I don't read any of his egomaniacal, self righteous, sociopathic rants. I can pretty much guess that his short fuse was lit by my suggesting that sex with other people is a viable alternative to being sexually unfulfilled with a partner who is either unable or unwilling to satisfy your sexual needs and desires. Life is too short to go through it without enjoying a fulfilling sex life.

I may start a thread about cheating experiences with the hope that dick_head will blow up the computer trying to keep up with the responses. Then the warden or head psychiatrist at whichever institution in which he's confined might not give him a new computer. I wonder if he's institutionalized because he murdered a cheating lover.

pole_smoker
Dec 5, 2015, 7:47 PM
I see that my previous post evoked a response from small_poker. He's on my ignore list and I don't read any of his egomaniacal, self righteous, sociopathic rants. I can pretty much guess that his short fuse was lit by my suggesting that sex with other people is a viable alternative to being sexually unfulfilled with a partner who is either unable or unwilling to satisfy your sexual needs and desires. Life is too short to go through it without enjoying a fulfilling sex life.

I may start a thread about cheating experiences with the hope that dick_head will blow up the computer trying to keep up with the responses. Then the warden or head psychiatrist at whichever institution in which he's confined might not give him a new computer. I wonder if he's institutionalized because he murdered a cheating lover.
LMAO!!! :rolleyes: I've never hurt anyone, and I'm not in any sort of mental institution or prison, and never have been in any place like that either, and neither has my husband. However, more than a few people here have been in them including you, Pepperjack, and void. ;) :rolleyes: Darkeyes has also been in a mental institution but that should not surprise anyone. ;) :rolleyes: Pepperjack was a turned out prison bitch but again this should not surprise anyone here. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

If you want to read megalomaniac, self-absorbed, self-righteous, and sociopathic rants read your own posts. It's no surprise why no woman or man wants you and why you are living alone in your mom's spare bedroom, are deeply closeted yet your family members think you're gay, and just why you obsess over me...but "people" you and pepperjack have no morals and give all bisexual men and LGBT people a bad name. ;) :rolleyes:

The original poster Jitterbug is an elaborate scenario troll/EST.

pepperjack
Dec 5, 2015, 8:29 PM
Damn did you ever expose a raw nerve, Cuttin' :smilies15

cuttin2dachase
Dec 5, 2015, 10:40 PM
@ pepperjack...if small_poker is true to form, he replied to my post with his usual elementary school mentality didn't he? You know how it was when you or another 3rd grade classmate told off another classmate who was being a complete turd. He'd be called 'stupid' or "jerk" or "shithead". He'd loudly say "NO I'M NOT, YOU ARE !!" and smugly walk away thinking he'd gotten the best of the exchange instead of realizing that he was indeed being a complete turd. That's small-poker in a nutshell. Most people would correct their behavior and even apologize for it, but not him He never outgrew it. He is so predictably moronic and sophomoric and he's in complete denial that he is is a sick sociopath.

pole_smoker
Dec 5, 2015, 10:56 PM
Damn did you ever expose a raw nerve, Cuttin' :smilies15

Nope, I am just simply refuting his BS lies and slander. :rolleyes: :smilies15

pole_smoker
Dec 5, 2015, 10:59 PM
@ pepperjack...if small_poker is true to form, he replied to my post with his usual elementary school mentality didn't he? You know how it was when you or another 3rd grade classmate told off another classmate who was being a complete turd. He'd be called 'stupid' or "jerk" or "shithead". He'd loudly say "NO I'M NOT, YOU ARE !!" and smugly walk away thinking he'd gotten the best of the exchange instead of realizing that he was indeed being a complete turd. That's small-poker in a nutshell. Most people would correct their behavior and even apologize for it, but not him He never outgrew it. He is so predictably moronic and sophomoric and he's in complete denial that he is is a sick sociopath.

LMAO and where are your degrees, and qualifications? Oh wait, you are a deeply closeted troll posting from your mom's house in her spare room LMAO. Run along now the adults are talking. :rolleyes:

darkeyes
Dec 6, 2015, 6:38 AM
LMAO!!! :rolleyes: I've never hurt anyone, and I'm not in any sort of mental institution or prison, and never have been in any place like that either, and neither has my husband. However, more than a few people here have been in them including you, Pepperjack, and void. ;) :rolleyes: Darkeyes has also been in a mental institution but that should not surprise anyone. ;) :rolleyes: Pepperjack was a turned out prison bitch but again this should not surprise anyone here. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

If you want to read megalomaniac, self-absorbed, self-righteous, and sociopathic rants read your own posts. It's no surprise why no woman or man wants you and why you are living alone in your mom's spare bedroom, are deeply closeted yet your family members think you're gay, and just why you obsess over me...but "people" you and pepperjack have no morals and give all bisexual men and LGBT people a bad name. ;) :rolleyes:
The original poster Jitterbug is an elaborate scenario troll/EST.
First of all, darkeyes has never been in a mental institution.. she has been affected on a number of occasions by clinical depression which can last months and for some people years.. some even top themselves in the most extreme cases. Darkeyes has had occasional therapy in the past but never found it helpful so endured and fought the illness herself with the love and support of those closest to her.. and should it occur again she will attack the illness in the same manner..

Really dimwit!! Is there no end to your dislike of the lgbti in particular and humanity in general? U know so little about the individuals u slag off save what they have themselves told u that u have to make things up, but that does give most of us a good giggle..some however, sadly, u do hurt (contrary to what u have said, u do hurt people and hurt quite nastily, deliberately and calculatingly), and some u drive away. Some u prevent from joining this site . These are but some of ur offences against the bisexual community and prove ur biphobia. Ur biphobia is instanced by ur vendetta against this site, its (late??) owner, bisexuals individually and collectively.. a similar argument exists in respect of ur attitudes to gay and transgendered people, not to mention other groups of human beings for any reason and no reason which might take ur fancy.

..and I have no gripe against those who have been in the prison system.. one of the great problems of our world is the downer so many have on those who have been through that nightmare! I prefer to deal with people as I find them not because of their personal history. U dimwit, are a particularly bad example of the worst of both our societies, and an example of kind of person who prevents us making progress towards a better and more humane world. Sadly, wankers like u wont be gone from our world anytime soon...

void()
Dec 7, 2015, 9:49 AM
LMAO!!! :rolleyes: I've never hurt anyone, and I'm not in any sort of mental institution or prison, and never have been in any place like that either, and neither has my husband. However, more than a few people here have been in them including you, Pepperjack, and void. ;) :rolleyes: Darkeyes has also been in a mental institution but that should not surprise anyone.

I have not been in any mental institution. Yes, I attend therapy
sessions. No, I have never been committed either involuntarily or
voluntarily to any mental institution.

I have not been offended by your allegedly risque posts
regarding sexuality. I am offended by your choice to act
immaturely, to libel and slander others. I am offended
you presume authority to control how others are to feel,
think.

You genuinely command no such authority no matter
how much education you think at your disposal. You are
in no way superior to anyone for any reason. You
continually attempt demeaning others in your actions here.

Now, you are harming others. You are writing libel and slander. You
choose to act in this way. I would expect you're ready to accept
responsibilities.

Thank you & good day.

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 9:59 AM
First of all, darkeyes has never been in a mental institution..
Riiiiiight, :rolleyes: the fact that you are writing about yourself in the third person makes me and everyone else totally believe you! ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 10:02 AM
Now, you are harming others. You are writing libel and slander. You
choose to act in this way. I would expect you're ready to accept
responsibilities.
:rolleyes: ;) nobody seems to care when other trolls here write libel and slander about my husband and I...:rolleyes:

NjbiGuy01
Dec 7, 2015, 11:12 AM
It should be blatantly obvious that this class-clown ass_pole_smoker is a deeply disturbed person with little else in his life to occupy his time or his deeply demented mind.

One look at the amount of posts he makes, how rapidly he posts them, the filthy disgusting pictures he's found the time to download and archive and how everyone but him is "a diseased troll, in prison, a prison bitch, mentally unstable"...it becomes quickly clear what kind of sociopath we're dealing with here. Whether you engage him in a discussion or not, he'll make sure you know what HE THINKS and what HE THINKS OF YOU (whether you want to know it or not). While this place wasn't perfect before he got here, it was certainly not dominated by one ass-wipe with such fervor.

I've said it before: It's all about him. If you don't pay attention he makes sure you know he's out there by pissing on every thread here. Truly an equal opportunity offender. I would tell you to ignore him but he basically attacks you or your thread whether you like it or not....truly sad. It's really a 2nd grade mentality. Cuttin2dachase hit it right on the head. He's that creepy weird kid in school who yelled back trash when you told him to take a hike because you didn't want to play with him.....imagine an entire life spent living this way.

If his life was so great, he'd be using these degree's he claims to have for something constructive, maybe spend time with his "wonderful husband", and he would have better things than come here as often as he does and do the things he does when here. Whenever you hit things on the head, he goes on a posting rampage, so sit back and watch his hissie fit folks...we all know it's coming.

The site is hopefully being sold and perhaps a moderator will be put in place to ban this piece of trash.

by~his~side
Dec 7, 2015, 11:19 AM
Pepperjack, darkeyes, void.........why do you insist on responding to his posts with a quote box????
You are a trio who seemingly have been blessed with enough intelligence to understand what the IGNORE feature is for and why dozens....DOZENS.....of other members choose to use it. Yet......time after time you respond to his comments with a quote box.

And while I'm on the subject of him and his one man campaign to churn this site into swill-
Obviously there are some members (albeit just a few) who seem to relate to his threads, comments, pictures, and polls. In a very small way I have sympathy for them.....they must be very lonely, sexually frustrated, socially awkward people who have nothing in life except this site. Sad. I've counted....there are roughly 10-12 members who are loyal responders to him. 10-12. That's all.
If the members who have had enough of the garbage stop trying to debate with him, I'd bet we'd see much less of him.

You want to keep debating with him- g'head. It's your headache.
But...Please....PLEASE....stop responding with a quote box. That saves the rest of us from having to see those fucking ridiculous sarcastic smiley faces.

Dee

darkeyes
Dec 7, 2015, 12:01 PM
Whether, arsewipe, I write in the first or third person doesn't alter the truth.. I have never been in a mental institution.. not even as visitor.. what u care to believe is ur affair.

...slander btw is oral defamation.. libel is defamation other than by the spoken word.. This isn't a criticism. Merely pointing out the difference.. many confuse the 2..

As for the alleged defaming of dimwit or his *coff:eek2:* husband in whatever form, considering his regular vituperative postings to all and sundry, invariably untrue from a viscious and poisoned imagination, should anyone?

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 2:55 PM
Look mommy I can be a troll on the internet!!1

LMAO!!! :rolleyes: As if I'm supposed to take any of the bullshit you post seriously NJBiGuy01. You have multiple STDs, you're married and lie and cheat on your "wife" who you do not love or care for :rolleyes: and you're a phony.

Nope I was not picked on in school and I had lots of friends all through elementary school, all the way through graduate, doctoral, and post-doctorate work. :rolleyes: However, I know that you and whoever else is claiming this had this happen as you're simply projecting your own issues onto me, as you know fuckall about me. :rolleyes: ;) :smilies15

FYI, I do use my degrees to help people, and my husband and I have a wonderful loving relationship together-which is something you and my other haters do not have ;) :rolleyes:, and we spend lots of time together. However, I do not post a lot of personal information about us on here as you will simply just use it against us, and stalk us the way some of you have. ;)

LOL no moderator or admin is going to take over this site. Drew made sure of that as he was greedy/power hungry, a shitty administrator/webmaster, and his so called "brother" is going to try to get as much money for this site as he can but being a fool runs in their family. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

:rolleyes:Dee, I can't hear you. ;Your mouth is full and it's rude to talk while you're eating. ;) :rolleyes:http://imagehost.thasnasty.com/dm/YXTO/dicksuckF.jpg

pepperjack
Dec 7, 2015, 3:39 PM
Funny how your style of self-expression doesn't appear to be indicative of someone with multiple degrees. :rolleyes: Also, Fresia informed us that there was a very cold vibe going on between you and your so-called "husband." That pretty well debunks the bs " loving relationship " claim. :shades:

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 4:47 PM
Funny how your style of self-expression doesn't appear to be indicative of someone with multiple degrees. :rolleyes: Also, Fresia informed us that there was a very cold vibe going on between you and your so-called "husband." That pretty well debunks the bs " loving relationship " claim. :shades:
:rolleyes: This is the internet and I have people like you and others who are trolls stalking/harassing me in juvenile and petty ways, and it's not an academic site. :rolleyes: I respond in the way trolls like you with zero education do, when you start stalking/flaming me. :rolleyes:

Fresia is a troll, liar, and full of BS as she has never met me, or my husband, and we would never consider meeting her, nor did we ever exchange emails or communicate. If you have been paying attention she wrote that post about Drew and his ex. :rolleyes: I'm not surprised a closet queen illiterate bottom feeder like you is horrible at reading comprehension and does not understand what other people like Fresia who are just as phony as you are post. ;) :shades::smilies15

NjbiGuy01
Dec 7, 2015, 5:09 PM
Ass_pole_smoker: For a guy who claims to be so smart and hold multiple degrees, who's in such a "great relationship" you sure have shit-tons of time to come here and act like a dysfunctional tool. For a guy this high and mighty and perfect, you sure show a shit-ton of anger. Your willing to lie about everyone here exactly the same way "troll, diseased, liar, bS,"...interesting you "know" all this about everyone....when you actually know nothing.

stfu

pepperjack
Dec 7, 2015, 5:40 PM
pole_shit, you don't even have the simple intelligence to use an emoticon accurately.

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 6:07 PM
pole_shit, you don't even have the simple intelligence to use an emoticon accurately.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Is that supposed to be an insult? :rolleyes: ;) :smilies15:shades::sleep:

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 6:10 PM
Ass_pole_smoker: For a guy who claims to be so smart and hold multiple degrees, who's in such a "great relationship" you sure have shit-tons of time to come here and act like a dysfunctional tool. For a guy this high and mighty and perfect, you sure show a shit-ton of anger. Your willing to lie about everyone here exactly the same way "troll, diseased, liar, bS,"...interesting you "know" all this about everyone....
:rolleyes: I'm not angry, and in my personal life, and to my friends here I'm actually a very kind and considerate person...but I'm not this way to trolls like you. It's easy to know many things about people when it's all pretty obvious. ;) :rolleyes:

pepperjack
Dec 7, 2015, 6:35 PM
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Is that supposed to be an insult? :rolleyes: ;) :smilies15:shades::sleep:

You also don't know how to use an exclamation mark accurately. You come across as someone with a grade school education at best.

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 6:57 PM
You also don't know how to use an exclamation mark accurately. You come across as someone with a grade school education at best.
:rolleyes: Clearly you cannot read, or comprehend what you're reading; but you've got shit for brains. :smilies15 :rolleyes: This is the internet. I'm not writing academic articles, or writing to people here who are actually educated...since this is an amateur porn/sex site for bisexual adults. :rolleyes:

http://i.imgur.com/ppxcWvc.jpg

pepperjack
Dec 7, 2015, 7:36 PM
How often are you going to remind someone on here that " this is the internet " captain obvious ? :rolleyes: But then, that's exactly why you're here isn't it, because you can hide here & spew your garbage with impunity. You're the epitome of cowardice; not to mention " the pot calling the kettle black !" If this is a site for " bisexual adults " as you claim, why don't you start acting like one instead of a raving, foaming-at the-mouth, brat misanthrope ?

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 10:32 PM
How often are you going to remind someone on here that " this is the internet " captain obvious ? :rolleyes: But then, that's exactly why you're here isn't it, because you can hide here & spew your garbage with impunity. You're the epitome of cowardice; not to mention " the pot calling the kettle black !" If this is a site for " bisexual adults " as you claim, why don't you start acting like one instead of a raving, foaming-at the-mouth, brat misanthrope ?
:rolleyes: Start following your own advice first, as you spew tons of nonsense and garbage, throw temper tantrums, are a misanthrope, and a total phony cowardly closet queen. ;) :smilies15:shades: :rolleyes:

void()
Dec 7, 2015, 10:49 PM
It's easy to know many things about people when it's all pretty obvious.


Indeed. Your use of cliches tells all.

pole_smoker
Dec 7, 2015, 11:49 PM
Indeed. Your use of cliches tells all.
*yawn* I'm sorry did you say something? You don't know anything about me, and you're off your meds, and stalking/obsessing about me again. :rolleyes: ;) :smilies15:shades::suave:

void()
Dec 8, 2015, 12:18 AM
*yawn* I'm sorry did you say something? You don't know anything about me, and you're off your meds, and stalking/obsessing about me again.

Not stalking in the slightest to choose to read what someone chooses posting
in a public forum. Not stalking in choosing to comment upon the poster's use
of cliches, either. I know all I desire knowing about you. You do not know what
I do, or do not know about you. You will never know that, unless I choose to let
you know that.

I have not caused the conflict and drama you present here. You have chose
doing that.

I cannot fix the problem of the conflict and drama you present here. You could
choose to do that yet do not.

I am no longer truly invested with concern about the drama and conflict you
present. The drama and conflict is all of your control. You are debasing
yourself only. No one else chooses playing your game.

Your behavior is your own and only you are responsible for it.

You choose acting in a way that is immature.This course of action
seems ineffectual for any context.Others have discussed this choice of
action/s with you, observed it being ineffectual, told you the same.

You could choose acting maturely. Acting maturely may behoove all
involved and even be beneficial for you. This is a choice only you may
choose, no one else may do it.

I am not required to feel the way you want me to feel over it.

You may presume I will feel angered, saddened, overjoyed by your
actions. Those presumptions though, are that alone, presumptions. I
am not required to feel anything you want me feeling. I am free to
choose feeling as I want.

Your actions being ineffectual cannot and do not affect me, or how I
feel, desire feeling. This response is what is often called a canned, or
form response.This is an informative statement of facts, only.

I am going to enjoy feeling happy, and not having concern over it.

I will admit, engaging you was a mistake. I also admit, I am not my
mistakes. I am finished and have learned. So, excuse me. A life of
feeling as I want to feel is awaiting. If you think you have any control
over me choosing to live that life, you may desire reconsidering. I
offer you best wishes and hope you make better choices
for yourself.

Good day.

pole_smoker
Dec 8, 2015, 12:27 AM
.....
You've proven over and over again on here that you are nothing more than a troll. You have zero credibility with anyone on here. No one takes you seriously.

void()
Dec 8, 2015, 12:38 AM
You've proven over and over again on here that you are nothing more than a troll. You have zero credibility with anyone on here. No one takes you seriously.

Well, it is obvious you do. You seem keen enough to reply to me. Fairly clear you do consider me, seriously.

And I am only stating the obvious, right back at you. Enjoy.

pole_smoker
Dec 8, 2015, 1:22 AM
.....
:rolleyes: Just because I reply to you does not mean I take any of the nonsense you and the other trolls here post seriously. You all need to get out more. ;) :rolleyes: :shades:

void()
Dec 8, 2015, 1:48 AM
Just because I reply to you does not mean I take any of the nonsense you and the other trolls here post seriously. You all need to get out more.

Ah, you enjoy keeping insomniacs company merely as a form of masochistic pleasure then? But no, that is not serious? Get out more? Why, I had a lovely supper in town today, Chinese in fact. I had three plates off a lovely buffet, even had sushi. It was all tasty. You may consider museum visits at 2 AM instead of setting with insomniacs such as myself. What suits the goose, fits the gander as well.

But you choose being here, still. Clear it is serious for you.

69to77
Dec 8, 2015, 9:33 AM
Pole Shitter, usually your contributions to our community are about as useful as cat litter droppings. And I do the same thing to your comments as a cat does with its shit. Bury it and forget about it.
But that picture you posted! 😀
Dee, looking good baby!!
Good Lord that picture makes me hard!

pole_smoker
Dec 8, 2015, 1:11 PM
Pole Shitter, usually your contributions to our community are about as useful as cat litter droppings. And I do the same thing to your comments as a cat does with its shit. Bury it and forget about it.
But that picture you posted! 
Dee, looking good baby!!
Good Lord that picture makes me hard!
LMAO!!!!! Just who are you? You've been here for over a decade yet you only have 5 posts, and are not active on this site at all. :rolleyes: You have horrible taste in women if you get hard at thinking about a fat woman from NJ sucking dick. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

69luvr
Dec 8, 2015, 2:46 PM
LMAO!!! Says who? YOU? LMAO you're a confirmed and verified phony/troll/liar/closet queen from a small town in flyover country who I do not have to prove anything to. :rolleyes:

Anyway, I do know that guy, he's gay and I dated him and his BF at the same time decades ago when we were in college and they had an open relationship. He later wound up marrying a different gay man who is pretty much one step above being asexual who he cheats on, and I found this out since one day decades later he contacted me out of nowhere before I was married wanting me to help him cheat on his husband who has a low libido.

I said no, and emailed his husband our email exchange along with full nude pics of the guy. ;) :rolleyes:



[/COLOR]Don't forget fists! ;) https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BRlAGGoCUAEt7FN.jpg

http://media.analarea.com/5512/5512073/5361125ed610b5273d1bb86900ee972c.gif


Id luvto taste these women

Jitterbug17
Feb 29, 2016, 1:11 AM
thanks for this :)
Bump. There is some value to this thread.