View Full Version : have you had more guys or girls?
cheil77
Oct 3, 2015, 7:09 PM
I have had way more girls than guys, I just started fuckin guys about a year ago( got head once or twice before that) but now that I have a couple dudes under my belt I've realized that I like guys better. I like sucking cock and fuckin ass. And I plan on getting fucked again really soon.lol just wanna know what everyone else thinks
sysper
Oct 3, 2015, 7:30 PM
I have had way more girls than guys, I just started fuckin guys about a year ago( got head once or twice before that) but now that I have a couple dudes under my belt I've realized that I like guys better. I like sucking cock and fuckin ass. And I plan on getting fucked again really soon.lol just wanna know what everyone else thinks
if u really liked it & u can find a guy u feel comfortable with go for it, but practice safe sex
cheil77
Oct 3, 2015, 7:46 PM
Always man.....idk I still like pussy but sucking cock just turns me on more than eating pussy
olmizzou42
Oct 3, 2015, 8:06 PM
14 men, 10 women and enjoyed them all! Can't say that I prefer one more than the other, that's just the way it has worked out over 60 years of sexual activity.
cornholejoe
Oct 3, 2015, 8:35 PM
i have HAD MORE WOMEN than men but enjoy them both
Franz007
Oct 4, 2015, 8:46 AM
I had a lot more men, since it is around 1'000'000 easier to have spontaneous sex (like darkrooms etc.) with them without having to date them a few times before. I only had around 6-7 women but more than 150 men :-)
In a gay-club or something similar we can easily have 7-10 men or even more in one evening. With women it's much much compliacte and we have to invest a lot more. I guess that's biological :-)
sommer
Oct 4, 2015, 9:16 AM
More women.
sysper
Oct 4, 2015, 10:32 AM
0 men for me so technically women is the answer though i'm interested in changing that 0 i don't care to make that number that much bigger.
fredtyg
Oct 4, 2015, 11:24 AM
Years ago I wondered about this and came to the conclusion it was equal- 16 men and 16 women, but I might well be forgetting one or two of either side. Prefer men now but, as I've probably written here before, I find very few men sexually attractive.
darkeyes
Oct 4, 2015, 11:34 AM
0 men for me so technically women is the answer though i'm interested in changing that 0 i don't care to make that number that much bigger.
This thread wos the catalyst for me to consult all me journals of the last 20 plus years.. had 2 do wee bit of counting, but whereas when me 1st marriage broke up over 10 years ago, and the ratio wos almost 4 guys 2 each girl, since that break up over a decade ago the ratio is now 7 guys 2 every 6 girls... not ver gud for a gay girl is it:eek2:? Girls r catching up but still more guys than girls...work 2 do.. must try harder...:eek2:!!! Tho I did have gud few years of monogamous living wiv the luffly Katherine just as I did wiv Brian...
Numbers? I actually know now... so does Kate.. but fact that we know is private 'tween us... u will just have 2 whistle and wonder. :impleased
playtoy70
Oct 4, 2015, 12:38 PM
More gilrs then guys I like pussy better but like to trade blow jobs now and then or just get mine sucked off while fucking my ass with my dildo.
Neonaught
Oct 4, 2015, 1:19 PM
More guys than girls but I was married at 24 and that took the ladies off the table until recently.
Oztrich
Oct 4, 2015, 3:24 PM
For me women far outnumber the men. I used to be very uncomfortable with men, but this wore off a long time ago. I am extremely comfortable with women, and always have been. I much prefer sexually aggressive women, who know precisely what they want and are not afraid to say so. I like a lot of give and take in men, but am not into having multiple men or women for that matter.
pole_smoker
Oct 5, 2015, 3:12 AM
if u really liked it & u can find a guy u feel comfortable with go for it, but practice safe sex
Yeah, like he's really going to suck a man's cock that has a condom on it. :rolleyes:
rockhard123
Oct 5, 2015, 5:14 AM
more men of corse only a f females
KevsBi
Oct 5, 2015, 2:19 PM
Way more women. I started messing around with other boys in my late teens on the low and I still keep it low.
Marriedbi58
Oct 5, 2015, 4:37 PM
Since I was a teenager and young adult in the 60's and 70's and when I got married my wife was bi like me, we became very active swingers for 30 years. So the numbers adore quite high for both. I would say over a hundred for both. Now days it is much easier to get guys at my age so they are getting a "head"
tsac2k3
Oct 5, 2015, 5:16 PM
lots of cock but just 1 woman
sysper
Oct 5, 2015, 9:03 PM
lots of cock but just 1 womanis she "the" women for u? :)
kandt40
Oct 6, 2015, 12:53 AM
8 girls, and I have been had by 6 guys.
silvio
Oct 6, 2015, 12:57 AM
80% females, 20% males out of maybe 100 sexual partners over the years..
void()
Oct 6, 2015, 7:04 PM
I'll say maybe eh, esh, * does the figuring on his fingers * four, maybe five gals. I say maybe on one gal because she said we did. The time of what was alleged to happen, I'm a bit fuzzy about for various reasons and yes one may have been booze. And five, maybe six guys. Again the maybe for similar reason/s. Have generally remained equal not intentionally but more due to 'just how things have gone'. I genuinely lack preference, as to tell anyone I like guys over gals or gals over guys. I like/love both. *shrugs* Um, gee ... * points to big neon flashing sign overhead reading "Bisexual" *. *grins*
naztypanty
Oct 6, 2015, 8:26 PM
I've had more long-term girlfriends, about a dozen. Lived with several. So I've licked and fucked pussy thousands of times. But I've had lots more casual, one-time male playmates. The count of the cocks I've played with is in the many dozens. Only one long-term gay lover.
ohbimale
Oct 7, 2015, 4:12 AM
I have had relationships with 4 women and 8 men. This does not count all the one time encounters I had sucking cock about 20 years ago. I still like cock best but enjoy both.
Niacountyny
Oct 7, 2015, 4:16 PM
6 women, no guys...yet. :tongue:
elmwood7
Oct 8, 2015, 6:55 AM
More guys than girls... and a few couples.
Grub Worm
Oct 8, 2015, 7:51 AM
around 5 to 1 guys
SilkyHoseLover
Oct 8, 2015, 5:55 PM
When I married long ago, I'd only been with my wife, and had no bisexual thoughts or feelings -- therefore no men! About 7 years ago, we started experimenting with swinging, so I had some experiences with a few other women. As I've told this story on other threads, I won't elaborate here, but a guy with whom we were having a MFM 3-way unexpectedly started to suck my cock. I was intrigued by the experience and tried it, myself. I was hooked by the physical and psychological aspects of it and it's changed my entire self-image. I recognize and accept that I'm BI and would love to have many more experiences sucking, and being fucked by, other men.
Our swinging days are over, which also rules out further experimentation, as my wife deserves my fidelity. She's given me tepid approval to be with another man, but I'm not sure that she means it and fear that it would hurt her if I actually did. I don't want that.
The irony is -- I was always shy about making intimate contact with women. Now that I'm much older, I find that it would be very easy for me to find men to play with, if I were only able to. (Guess guys are less selective... :oh:)
wudlyk2
Oct 9, 2015, 6:53 AM
You know we live close to each other and we can change it for you to 1 guy....
a2smith09
Nov 27, 2015, 3:47 PM
I had a lot more men, since it is around 1'000'000 easier to have spontaneous sex (like darkrooms etc.) with them without having to date them a few times before. I only had around 6-7 women but more than 150 men :-)
In a gay-club or something similar we can easily have 7-10 men or even more in one evening. With women it's much much compliacte and we have to invest a lot more. I guess that's biological :-)
LOL pretty much the same here. men are just way easier to have sex with then women.
Bedtime
Nov 28, 2015, 12:29 PM
More guys. I sucked my first dick when I was 15, got fucked the first time when I was 18. I wanted it a lot sooner just didn't have anyone to do it with. I've been with about a 100 men and about 30 women. I've been in relationships with women but never with a man.
sisboy
Nov 28, 2015, 3:15 PM
Still have had more women than men but I am trying to play catch up.Only up to a little over 20 men and over 75 women.Started enjoying cock leter in life and did not know what I was missing.
4_oral_fun
Nov 28, 2015, 6:54 PM
Way more women than men, started later in life with guys. In high school a friend and I would jack off while watching the other, but as far as contact it wasn't until my 40's that I started playing with a friend and his wife. The guys I have been with I have known for some time and trusted
borntosuckcock
Nov 28, 2015, 8:37 PM
5 women before I got married, 3 women after I got married. 100 or so men before marriage and thousand or so after I got married. The female affairs were early in my marriage and I finally stopped chasing woman, but I could never stop sucking cocks. 99% of my life is all about loving my wife, but 1% is about needing to suck cocks. I've never had a STD and my wife lost interest in sex years ago, so I'll carry my secret to my grave.
melbcuteboi
Dec 1, 2015, 12:27 AM
Up until a few years ago between my ex and my current wife, it was more girls than guys but in between its now a totally different story.
Ive probably been with 10-12 girls having had sex with all of them, Ive now probably been with 30+ guys from 8 previously and since trying anal for the first time a couple of years ago I have now been fucked by 5 guys and have tried fucking just the one.
WOW - Didnt see that coming... LOL
csreef
Sep 12, 2016, 4:53 PM
For me I've had more sex with men than women.
A year and a half ago I was was living with this woman, and she said "After being with me, you'll never look at another man, or want to have sex with one." She thought that her vagina had some kind of "magical Powers". WRONG !!!
Joboo
Sep 12, 2016, 5:33 PM
Way more girls, I didn't have my second guy until I was married. Still just those two.
mjohn
Sep 13, 2016, 12:42 AM
I have equal amounts. Sadly they were only two apiece. If I had more options that I would have chosen more guys.
Go fore it
Sep 13, 2016, 3:57 AM
Started sucking cock about 8 years ago. before that id only sucked my own back when i was a young teen, Damn i miss being able to do that to mine. have always been very very picky about females id have anything to do with as far as sex went. in the past 8 years id have to say guys & cock now.
Basin_Bouy
Sep 13, 2016, 7:39 AM
I've been with more men then women. Women ... maybe 12, Men ... 22-25. Quite honestly, I like Men more then women. I've been married 3 times, next time would be with a Man.
guywholikesboth
Sep 13, 2016, 10:19 AM
Been with more men than women started sucking at 13
borntosuckcock
Sep 13, 2016, 1:31 PM
Far more males than females. I do enjoy both, but more cock than pussy is available.
pole_smoker
Sep 13, 2016, 2:32 PM
This question is stupid and people like the OP (original poster) who ask it, don't understand bisexuality and are basically asking someone that's bisexual, "Are you more gay or heterosexual?" :rolleyes:
Nauti Rogue
Sep 13, 2016, 11:48 PM
Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual attraction to people of any sex or gender identity; this latter aspect is sometimes alternatively termed pansexuality.
Soooo... Someone asks a bisexual community if they've been intimate with more guys or more girls. If someone asks a group of people who are attracted to both men and women which they've been with more, how can you term this to be a "stupid" question? Bisexual people like both men and women. The definition doesn't require that they like men and women equally, and the question may or may not be asked to determine if the respondents are "more gay or bisexual" (however, that response seems to assume a response from males). Regardless, even if the goal of the question was to ask regarding degrees of bisexuality, what's wrong or stupid about that?
It is the question posed by the OP. Why would that be wrong?
And in response to the OP, my MM experiences have been, primarily as MMF experiences that have included my wife. As I am married, my experience has been very definitely skewed toward women and primarily my wife. We are bisexual swingers and we have both played with both men and women together with each other's full and complete knowledge and support. Since we've been married, she has played with both men and women with me and without me. I have played with men without her both before and after our marriage. Prior to our marriage, she had not explored her bisexual desires, but she had also not been in the lifestyle outside of multiple heterosexual affairs. Prior to our marriage, I was sexually active with mostly women, but also some bisexual experience with one male.
As a simple statement, both my wife and I have had more experience with hetero interactions; however, we have both enjoyed many bisexual experiences. If the question is to ask if we're "more gay or bisexual," our answer have to be that our experience is more on the heterosexual side, but we would both ideally enjoy more bisexual experience.
Ebonybifemme7
Sep 14, 2016, 3:17 PM
More men then women.
Ebonybifemme7
Sep 14, 2016, 3:38 PM
Far more males than females. I do enjoy both, but more cock than pussy is available.
100% bi female here and i couldnt agree more with this statement. Im lucky that ive had the experiences that ive had. But especially with women. Hard finding girl on girl sex.
OsoBlanco
Sep 16, 2016, 2:24 PM
My wife and I had been swinging with other couples and one time there were three men and two women, my wife and another woman
they each fucked the men, then women took turns in blowing three of us. When the evening ended, I sucked all of the juices from
my wife's dripping cunt and was the best turn on of my life. My wife later suggested to me to try and suck another man's cock as it tastes
so good. So far due to circumstances beyond my control, this hasn't happened yet and I'm hoping that sooner or later this will happen soon.
Help m out guys, I'm not looking for any 'big cocked stud' as I don't want to be ripped open, for beginner's a small o medium sized cock will do.
My wife can no longer swing due to a painful injury that left her in great pain, for the first time since our marriage I will be cheating on her but
not really because we have had an open marriage. Fuck first tell later.
OsoBlanco
Sep 16, 2016, 2:26 PM
My wife and I had been swinging with other couples and one time there were three men and two women, my wife and another woman,
they each fucked the men, then women took turns in blowing the three of us. When the evening ended, I sucked all of the juices from
my wife's dripping cunt and was the best turn on of my life. My wife later suggested to me to try and suck another man's cock as it tastes
so good. So far due to circumstances beyond my control, this hasn't happened yet and I'm hoping that sooner or later this will happen soon.
Help m out guys, I'm not looking for any 'big cocked stud' as I don't want to be ripped open, for beginner's a small o medium sized cock will do.
My wife can no longer swing due to a painful injury that left her in great pain, for the first time since our marriage I will be cheating on her but
not really because we have had an open marriage. Fuck first tell later.
man4girlgirl4man
Sep 18, 2016, 8:15 PM
Definitely more women for me. But my first real sex was with another boy. We bisexuals are truly lucky - we're able to enjoy sexual pleasure with both genders. Totally different experiences in every possible way and impossible to compare or pick one as being "better" than the other. That's true for me, at least. No regrets either except if I could do it all again I would fuck many more women and I would suck many more big black dicks and I would let more hot black men fuck me. But then again I don' think anyone believes he or she has had TOO MUCH sex..... :)
Riderinthestorm
Sep 18, 2016, 10:44 PM
I've had about as many women as men. My only problem with most of them is that they have tended to be short term flings. I've only had a couple of long-term male lovers, though, while having had more than a few long term female ones.
I think that what I really need is a bi female and bi male set of partners that want a poly relationship.
darkeyes
Sep 19, 2016, 10:16 PM
Still, after over a decade of lesbianism, guys.. but it is closing... wont be long now...:impleased
pepperjack
Sep 20, 2016, 10:48 PM
Still, after over a decade of lesbianism, guys.. but it is closing... wont be long now...:impleased
Damn, Dark ! Wish my sexual history was that prolific ! ;) :suave: :smilies15
darkeyes
Sep 21, 2016, 5:05 AM
Damn, Dark ! Wish my sexual history was that prolific ! ;) :suave: :smilies15 Prolific depends on one's view.... may have been only 2 guys and no women a decade or so ago... :tongue:;):eek2:. Tho so long as I have the bits I have there were ver few probs getting guys back then. Prob not now either if I chose to judging by demand and wandering hands:yikes2: in clubs..... (Got married at 20 (to a man) btw... overwhelmingly, guys other than me ex hubbie were in the 6 years previous 2 that... bit of a tart hey? Since, all of 2....) Bit easier for me than thee, luffly man, methinks:tongue:..
oldoralman
Sep 21, 2016, 3:48 PM
I've had far more men than women. I was married at 21 and stopped having other women. Had about a 30 year break from men then continuing up to this time with other men.
TDH47
Sep 26, 2016, 7:32 AM
About the same number, like receiving when it cums to men. More a sub/bottom
singlebimale41
Sep 26, 2016, 4:36 PM
I have no idea, I wasn't told to keep a ledger and I've yet to do and inventory of past sexual interactions.
Plus I don't think it really matters.
bobby63114
Sep 26, 2016, 8:45 PM
Guys by far, I am a cocksucker....
cuttin2dachase
Sep 27, 2016, 10:28 PM
Except for one homoerotic experience with a male neighborhood friend...all my fun was with women until I was 32. My junior and senior years of high school and then 4 years of college followed by two years of bachelorhood after college were by far my most pussy-prolific years. Until I met my 1st wife at age 25 I'd had sex with around 25 different women and had it multiple times with 5 or 6 of them. We became swingers and I had sex with about 16 other women up until I was 32. THEN it all changed LOL She coaxed me into trying oral sex with men in 4somes and 3somes. After trying it for her and discovering my lusty mm desires, we swung almost exclusively with bi men. She and I shared at least 20 men, several of them multiple times. We split up when I was 45 years old and I became a solo bi swinger. As another poster said, it's much easier to find casual FWB sex with men. So over the next 2 years until I remarried, I had a dozen or so men and 6 women, however 4 of those women and men were married couples looking for bi men. Then I had the misfortune to marry my 2nd wife for whom I gave up my bi, swinging ways for 8 LONG years. As soon as we split up, I reverted to my previous naughty ways. I was 53 years old at the time. I vowed then that I'd never ever again give up swinging and men for a woman. I'm 62 now and have lost count of the number of men I've been with. I'd estimate 35 to 40 since I left my 2nd wife. I'd love to have a female companion and lover and I do date women here and there, but haven't met another woman who'd accept my bi side. Of my dozen or so dates with women over the last 7 years or so, I only went to bed with 5 of them and it's been over 8 months since I've been with a woman. But I'm content meeting bi married men to satisfy me sexually. I'll continue to look for compatible women, but it's possible I could go the rest of my life having sex with men only if I don't meet such a woman.
OkieBoy
Sep 28, 2016, 10:11 AM
6 Girls.. only 1 Guy
Outdoorphanatic
Nov 10, 2016, 10:24 PM
Guys for sure! So much easier to find! Love bother genders, but men are far easier and more readily available. In the hundreds for men... the ladies.. around 100...
sysper
Nov 11, 2016, 12:16 AM
u love bother genders, i love to bother them too lmaoooooo.........but seriously it does seem men are more available sexually than women. i wonder how much that drives men to explore?
charles-smythe
Nov 11, 2016, 9:30 PM
A little over 500 different women…most more than once
Around 350 males…& I swallow
Asspussy302
Nov 17, 2016, 7:44 PM
Never thought about before, now that I do think about, I've been with more men than women.
man4girlgirl4man
Nov 17, 2016, 11:08 PM
girls for sure
foundpuppy
Nov 18, 2016, 12:25 AM
I don't know about numbers or how many i've had but I know more men have had me than me having them.
ncbymail
Nov 20, 2016, 2:41 PM
More men definitely but I married young and had very few sexual relationships with women before then. I've been sucking cock about 10-15 years and hardly fuck the wife anymore.