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Meliss
Dec 3, 2014, 9:18 AM
I usually do not remember my dreams.
Last night though I had one that was both satisfying an a little bothering.
The situation was I was apparently taking a class on how to stroke a man. There were perhaps a dozen men there and a handful of women. All were attractive to me and all were in reasonably good shape.
We were all rubbing the person to the left of us, and I was enjoying it as were the partners to the right and to the left of me. When we switched to the partner on the right my partner seemed to be enjoying it as show by his male members avid participation. That man abruptly stood up and walked away saying I can't do this.
I was embarrassed and was consoled by one of the women , likely a member here, after that happened. Then I woke up.
It was so satisfying to be sexual among an accepting group of people.
Melody Dean
Dec 3, 2014, 1:30 PM
I dream a lot and remember most of them. Sex is as much a part of my dreams as it is a part of my life. Although I usually don't have a 100% sexual dream, just sexual situations occur in dreams along with other things.
I've been having a lot of pregnancy dreams lately. The idea is stressful enough as it is because I don't want kids, but in the dreams, something else usually goes wrong too. But I did get lucky the other night and the conception was included!
I was on a trip, possibly business related, with a certain special friend. Our hotel room was actually in my late grandmother's house, but the bathroom was beautiful. I went in to take a shower and he joined me, but I never ended up in the shower. He was behind me, I had one knee up on the sink, and we were looking in the large mirror over the sink.
Afterwards, I was in the kitchen with family members and I told them I was pregnant. Somehow I just knew, and I knew who the father was, who strangely enough was not the friend from earlier.
cuttin2dachase
Dec 3, 2014, 8:29 PM
None of my dreams ever make sense to me, especially the sexual ones. I have a recurring dream about seducing or being seduced by various women and men. We meet in different public and private settings each time, sometimes indoors, sometimes outdoors, and are soon having passionate sex. In the dream, I always remember a previous dream lover and the details of the sex we had. Then, the lover I'm with in the current dream morphs into one of my former dream lovers, not necessarily the same one I was thinking about. We are all of a sudden in the place we had sex before. It's like I will be fucking a female lover or kissing/sucking a male lover, say on a rooftop, then she or he morphs into a previous lover of the opposite sex and we are in the same setting as the previous dream. Sometimes there are more morphs into different previous lovers. They are very pleasant dreams and I don't really need them to make sense ! LOL
sysper
Dec 3, 2014, 8:40 PM
i think about being with a guy alot, what's strange is i have had about 3 gay dreams that i can remember. definately have much more str8 dreams.
darkeyes
Dec 4, 2014, 6:44 AM
..like most I dream of sex and of sexuality but surprisingly little, really.. did waken up with a start the other morning because of dreaming I was being screwed by a guy I havent thought of in over a decade.. haven't seen him since I was19... bit of a cold sweat considering.. he has ver low marks in my journal....
..something must have brought him to mind and into me dream.. dunno wot... wish I knew cos I'd make sure it didn't happen again:eek2:.
Egoexcentric
Dec 4, 2014, 11:51 AM
thats funny... last night i had a dream i was at some sort of meeting/party for Camfuze participants. all were nude and oral sex was being freely given and received. i ended up talking to one of my real life friends, who is as str8 as they come and actually a bit homophobic and i admitted to him that i enjoyed viewing gay porn. to my surprise he said he did too.
Anyway, point is. dreams are weird and just the brains way of processing and purging extraneous data. i think thats why we forget them so fast.
wefco2315
Dec 5, 2014, 11:15 AM
I want to be in that classroom!! I typically only have hetero dreams...maybe tonight that will change
BiBedBud
Dec 5, 2014, 5:43 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0xueCCyZ5V8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qeMFqkcPYcg
Gearbox
Dec 11, 2014, 8:18 AM
I have recurring dreams about having fantastic sex with a Japanese woman that I'm obviously in love with. It's always bursting with passion and we can't get at each other fast enuf.
In reality, I don't know any Japanese women or even fantasize about any.
I also have dreams about sex with women I know, but are not attracted to.lol Last night I dreamed that I was wanking some bloke off. That doesn't interest me in my wake state.
Dreams are great for provoking a 'WTF is going on there?' morning.:tongue:
darkeyes
Dec 11, 2014, 8:54 AM
I have recurring dreams about having fantastic sex with a Japanese woman that I'm obviously in love with. It's always bursting with passion and we can't get at each other fast enuf.
In reality, I don't know any Japanese women or even fantasize about any.
I also have dreams about sex with women I know, but are not attracted to.lol Last night I dreamed that I was wanking some bloke off. That doesn't interest me in my wake state.
Dreams are great for provoking a 'WTF is going on there?' morning.:tongue:Wonder if it is same Japanese woman as in mine? I kno 'zactly who she is cos she lives in same road as me mum.....:impleased
Gearbox
Dec 11, 2014, 1:11 PM
Wonder if it is same Japanese woman as in mine? I kno 'zactly who she is cos she lives in same road as me mum.....:impleased
It's worth the trip just to find out. We could tag team her if yu like?:tongue:
Plumhead2
Dec 11, 2014, 3:15 PM
Meliss, since you are the dreamer, you are all parts of your dream. You are the one enjoying the stroking and you are the one walking away. And the consoling woman is that part of you that protects and comforts you. They are all parts of who you are. The best part was the end, that satisfying feeling to be among an accepting group of people. In your dream, you created a world in which you can find that satisfying feeling. Dreams can be just an escape or they can be the inspiration for creating a desired world in your waking state. Thank you for sharing your dream.
SilkyHoseLover
Dec 11, 2014, 8:29 PM
One sexual theme that seems to find its way into my dreams is that I have the ability to suck my own cock.
sysper
Dec 11, 2014, 9:26 PM
One sexual theme that seems to find its way into my dreams is that I have the ability to suck my own cock.omg me too! in my dreams i'm so surprised i can do it but then i wakeup & i'm disappointed when i realize i can't :(
AGuyIKnow
Dec 11, 2014, 11:47 PM
omg me too! in my dreams i'm so surprised i can do it but then i wakeup & i'm disappointed when i realize i can't :(
I use to be able to suck my own cock when I was younger. I wasn't nearly as interested in doing that then as I am now. Now I can't even tough it with my tounge.
SilkyHoseLover
Dec 12, 2014, 10:26 AM
in my dreams i'm so surprised i can do it but then i wakeup & i'm disappointed when i realize i can't :(
Don't think I have the surprise element, but I certainly have the disappointment!
Now that I think about it, I guess the real enjoyment I get in the dream is that I get to have a cock in my mouth, not so much that it feels good to be sucked. (although that part is good, too...)
Jorja
Dec 12, 2014, 9:15 PM
I have sex dreams quite often and actually come to full blown orgasm in my sleep sometimes. My doctor said it is rarer for woman than men to do that. I love waking up in the middle of it, realizing I am cumming hands free...sweet!
sysper
Dec 13, 2014, 12:13 AM
I have sex dreams quite often and actually come to full blown orgasm in my sleep sometimes. My doctor said it is rarer for woman than men to do that. I love waking up in the middle of it, realizing I am cumming hands free...sweet!
i don't even get that pleasure in my dreams nemore