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BiCuriousVAN
May 17, 2014, 1:26 PM
I have never experienced anal sex, but not through lack of trying to find someone. However, I have played with butt plugs and dildos, which I enjoyed. I am keen to try anal and would like to try both giving and receiving. I suspect I will enjoy receiving more and look forward to the feeling a cock in my a**.

So, my question is: what is your preference:

Give
Receive
Both
Not interested
Haven't tried
Other

TomDaty
May 17, 2014, 7:41 PM
recieve

Biwest
May 17, 2014, 7:53 PM
Both but the the desire is to receive.

monaohio
May 17, 2014, 9:23 PM
receive only

newlynymphos
May 18, 2014, 12:19 AM
I receive only :)

mtnguy
May 18, 2014, 12:39 AM
I am in to both, been awhile it is so awesome!

Wistfulhub
May 18, 2014, 9:12 AM
Both are awesome!

hudsonguy
May 18, 2014, 9:17 AM
Receive

tulsatexan48
May 18, 2014, 10:12 AM
Definitely receiving for me...

cock queen
May 18, 2014, 10:38 AM
My husband and I reading this.He definitely likes receiving more than giving especially if it is one that I hand picked for him.

Fzmr9t
May 18, 2014, 11:10 AM
Both, butt have only been on the receiving end once. I look forward to being on the receiving end again.

TerrorTwilight
May 18, 2014, 11:27 AM
Love having anal sex with women, if they're up for it. Tried receiving anal from a guy 2 different times but they were both too big. Would try again sometime if it felt right. Not interested in fucking a guy though, unless maybe he was a cross dresser or a transvestite.

olmizzou42
May 18, 2014, 11:37 AM
I have done both, but much prefer to receive!

fredtyg
May 18, 2014, 1:36 PM
Both, except I'm one of those viagra guys so don't have much faith in my ability as a top so generally look to receive. Even without the weenie problem, if given a choice I'd go for receiving.

Have bottomed for maybe 4 different guys over the years but some of them multiple times. Have topped maybe 3 or 4 guys.

I find it interesting that probably 19 out of 20 guys on my local Craigslist m4m ads advertise as wanting to receive (or suck) as opposed to topping.

Ja&Ve
May 18, 2014, 4:30 PM
Both, I love to be fucked and I'll slip on the strap on and happily pound him silly. - V

BiCuriousVAN
May 18, 2014, 5:10 PM
I find it interesting that more here prefer to receive than give, I would have thought it would be the other way around. I wonder if it is different in the gay community than in the bisexual one?

I have never ass fucked or been fucked yet, but look forward to both. I suspect that I will much prefer to be fucked, as I find that more of a turn on. As I am an anal virgin, the thought excites, but also scares me. I hope that I can relax enough for my first time, so that I can get fucked without too much pain.

Also interesting, for oral, most prefer to suck cock than be sucked.

I am a 3 on the Kinsley scale, so don't know how that relates to preference.

monaohio
May 18, 2014, 10:38 PM
I love getting laid like a woman I love getting cock by sucking it the way I love it best is on my back legs spread wide open and as he enters me I say to him welcome home you feel so good in me

Tim56Mn
May 19, 2014, 5:24 AM
receive

like2bepegged
May 19, 2014, 2:48 PM
receive for sure

nutothis972
May 19, 2014, 4:56 PM
I used to quite willingly do both. Now I have ED so bad that I can no longer penetrate, but I am quite willing to give pleasure with fingers. tongue and toys. However, I have always preferred to receive and love to be fucked bareback. One reason for this is that I can give anal intercourse to either gender, but it takes a male partner for me to receive.

GirlyBoi4U
May 19, 2014, 5:55 PM
The feeling of a guy's cock throbbing deep inside me...gliding in and out of my eager bottom...feeling him release into me...what an awesome feeling!

highplainsbi
May 19, 2014, 7:09 PM
Most definitely receive.

washlb58
May 19, 2014, 10:19 PM
My anal giving and receiving has only been with women. I am waiting for the day to have anal sex with a man. My ass is ready to be fucked by a cock and I'm ready to fuck a man with my hard cock. Wow, hopefully someday....

wifekinky4husband
May 19, 2014, 11:07 PM
Wow I had no idea so many males would choose receive. I always thought most men were all about "the doing it." I am also very curious to find out if there is a difference in gay verses bi. My husband is neither but over the year certainly can get into receiving if turned on enough. I know for a fact that he does not have any interest whatsoever in doing a guy. I am fine with that. What I want to see is him taking one, not only receiving anally but also orally. I am so close to getting my fantasy fulfilled... As for me I loooooooove receiving anal, oral, and love dishing the same out. There is just something incredible about male cum that gets me crazy as does a hot backside with a sexy...well you know what...

onesucker4u
May 19, 2014, 11:24 PM
I like reciving, but I like to get on top of him after sucking him good and hard. Riding him gives me some control, but, when he gets ready to cum and starts thrusting up deeper and faster I love it.

greatwhite
May 19, 2014, 11:43 PM
Well, i'm delighted to see so many receivers- especially as I prefer to give it, or see someone taking it :)

ErosUrge
May 20, 2014, 12:30 AM
For me, it's both...but would have to say that I lean a little more to preferring to receive. My girlfriend takes care of this 'need' in me with toys and often fingers. And the orgasms are delicious. But I must admit that there's something about an actual cock fucking me that takes it to another level. I haven't received from an actual guy/cock in almost a year. I do like to top also and my girlfriend enjoys receiving very much. She in fact did say over this past weekend how her orgasms had a greater intensity when she receives anally. I also enjoy fucking guys and it's a special thrill when their cocks are hard and they are able to maintain them until orgasm. It's an absolute thrill to watch a cock spurting at the moment of orgasm with each stroke in...difficult for me not to cum at the same time.

mikeyd270
May 20, 2014, 1:22 AM
I have come to realize I am a bottom. I truly enjoy and looking to receive.

bifire69
May 20, 2014, 7:38 AM
I love to receive.

paulsuna
May 21, 2014, 2:26 AM
Love to receive since I was a kid, but didn't actively seek meeting men for it until I was older. Love the sensation of a cock in me.

man4girlgirl4man
May 22, 2014, 4:07 PM
Here is my personal bisexual answer on this:

If I feel like ass fucking someone I'll fuck a girl's ass. Because girls have hot asses and almost no guys do - per my own subjective tastes on the subject

And I don't feel the other way around too often but I have and I've been fucked by a few guys. Cute face decent body and a big ass dick - I mean really big like 9 and up - plus me in the mood, all add up to a really hot fuck for me and him too.

curious44
May 23, 2014, 12:34 PM
Bottom guy here. Luv it.

newlynymphos
May 23, 2014, 7:32 PM
I love being the bottom :)
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loftycraig
Jul 24, 2014, 7:00 PM
i luv to receive

CuriousCanuck
Jul 24, 2014, 7:22 PM
Haven't tried yet, but like the original poster I would you like to try both giving and receiving. I think I'll prefer giving but would like to try both.

OlderBC1
Jul 24, 2014, 9:21 PM
I like getting fucked in my tight ass. but fucking someone else in their ass is a turn on as well. Sucking each other hard as we take turns fucking each other is what I want.

hairgone
Jul 24, 2014, 10:42 PM
Definitely recieve I want too be fucked bareback.

jseattle
Jul 25, 2014, 12:21 AM
Receive!

luv2bpegged
Jul 25, 2014, 12:38 AM
both...I don't know if it's possible to pick one over the other!

BiEd9
Jul 25, 2014, 12:51 AM
I'm a top,only did it once with a guy, but once was enough to know. never received.

Asspussy302
Jul 25, 2014, 4:29 AM
I would have to say both. Although I have bottomed more than topped.

smokey
Jul 25, 2014, 6:47 AM
Depends on the size of my partners cock. If its small I would rather do the fucking, if its big, I want it in the ass.

biguylookinforfun29
Jul 25, 2014, 8:10 AM
Both!!

mrcumsalot
Jul 26, 2014, 9:42 AM
Despite my user name I am unable to get an erection (have been unable from birth) and so I am always on the receiving end. This is fine with me as I believe I would prefer being the bottom boy anyway.

mas8092
Jul 26, 2014, 8:05 PM
Receive. Also love to suck cock and I swallow.

txruss
Jul 26, 2014, 8:29 PM
never done it,ill bottom

cw1860
Jul 27, 2014, 10:16 AM
Both but the the desire is to receive.

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licknpussh
Jul 27, 2014, 8:22 PM
I really enjoy receiving

FunCouple619
Jul 27, 2014, 8:54 PM
When I am with another male, I ONLY bottom. I love to get a guy off and make him all kinds of happy ;)

Diablo488
Jul 27, 2014, 10:46 PM
I have yet to try it but can't wait.

Bibabyblues
Jul 28, 2014, 1:47 AM
Gimme the big cock, love to take it hard

bi4asplay
Jul 28, 2014, 10:25 AM
My husband and I reading this.He definitely likes receiving more than giving especially if it is one that I hand picked for him.

Wish I had you hand picking cocks for me to receive. I love giving to a lady. It is receive only from a man.

plainguy
Jul 28, 2014, 1:05 PM
Both please, only has been some time for either, 3 years to be exact.

hudsonguy
Jul 30, 2014, 9:10 AM
Receive - definitely.

steamienix
Jul 30, 2014, 1:26 PM
Pretty positive I'd love to bottom/receive though I haven't yet done it. Hopefully I will before much longer. I really want to feel a real cock deep in my ass. Anyone wanna help?

txbiguy2791
Jul 30, 2014, 1:31 PM
100% both :)

Randypan
Jul 30, 2014, 6:42 PM
Both. Altho topping works better without ED.

loftycraig
Jul 30, 2014, 7:23 PM
id rather rec

Erikir
Jul 31, 2014, 11:44 PM
Eager to discover which I'd prefer.

txsmale55
Aug 1, 2014, 7:22 PM
I want to recieve.

openminded4170
Aug 2, 2014, 12:20 PM
Receive!

NudeDen
Aug 4, 2014, 10:44 AM
Definitley enjoy both with a preference to give. This is for both oral and penetrative play!

theartofcontrol
Aug 4, 2014, 11:46 AM
I definitely like giving and prefer the missionary position. I think I tend to be more sexually dominant and enjoy a guy who makes eye contact as I take him like that. I enjoy him giving himself over to me emotionally and physically. That said in a threesome situation (mmf) I would enjoy receiving as the female gives me a lot of attention preferably as we 69.

Rambigent
Aug 4, 2014, 12:09 PM
I enjoy fucking my wife's ass and receiving her strap-on. With other men, I would prefer receiving. It's interesting that the majority of men on here want to be bottoms...hopefully we'll all find winning partners to fill those open positions!

rickoyler1969
Aug 4, 2014, 12:42 PM
I love to do both

a2smith09
Aug 4, 2014, 3:40 PM
Both for me! I love to give and receive. Swapping off is lots of fun.

bambam69
Aug 4, 2014, 4:01 PM
I have only given but would like to try and recieve with right guy

biguy4u_tonight
Aug 4, 2014, 4:52 PM
I love both.. but I like to either hold their ankles high so I can watch it slide in and out of them or have them on their knees so I can spread their cheeks and watch the same. If receiving I love being on my knees in a three-some so I can have something in my mouth at the same time! Getting cum both ends is pretty awesome!

Drunk Uncle
Aug 5, 2014, 7:39 AM
I love to give.

I've had (thankfully) some hot older woman who *loved* getting fucked up the ass, and I *love* fucking a woman up the ass. Love it!

Then, last year, I sunk into my first manhole....yum, yum. And now want to do it again and again. Men and women are so different, but both so delicious.

Tried taking it a couple of times through out the years, but nope, I love to give some warm cock to a nice warm back side.

Any takers? :tongue:

The Drunk Uncle (looking for twinks and/or dirty minded middle aged men or women)

OlderBC1
Aug 5, 2014, 7:45 AM
Maybe you just haven't met the right cock yet? Some lub definitely helps here as well. Way better that way than dry humping.

TasteeLove69
Aug 5, 2014, 8:36 AM
I'll bend over for you. I love anal. My husband don't like it and won't do me. I'm yearning for it

mtnmen2
Aug 5, 2014, 3:15 PM
Consider myself vers and like both but prefer to give anal. Would love to get pegged by a women while wearing my cb-6000s

2bi2Bboring
Aug 6, 2014, 6:32 PM
I prefer both but lean more toward topping, I enjoy the feel of a tight ass (male or female) wrapped around my cock. I have a good amount of experience bottoming, for two years I was a part of a group that met a few times a month for group sex. Three guys and three girls, all bi, we explored all the possibilities. I miss that, a lot!

Beta31
Aug 8, 2014, 4:26 PM
With a guy I definitely prefer to bottom. The way I see it is if I'm going to top, I can get the same sensation from a chick's snatch so what's the point of being with a guy? For me, the whole attraction of being with a guy is to get things I can't get from a woman.

I will, however, make an exception to this rule if the guy has an extremely hairy ass. Something about that is just a turn on to me. Any takers?

lilbitofboth
Aug 10, 2014, 12:02 AM
Receive!

Bibabyblues
Aug 10, 2014, 12:42 AM
Love 2 receive, also open mouth policy, love to suck

bijohnmpls
Aug 10, 2014, 1:42 AM
Both, but prefer to receive.

HarryPalmer
Aug 10, 2014, 1:48 AM
I enjoy receiving, especially longer and deeper, and with stamina. Like giving, but not quite as much. I think it's mostly due to wearing a condom... can't feel as much.

treetopflyer390
Aug 12, 2014, 7:49 AM
Most definitely give.

James72
Aug 12, 2014, 8:43 AM
Done both but much rather receive.29215

tenni
Aug 12, 2014, 9:10 AM
Not interested.

JaredT77
Aug 15, 2014, 5:32 PM
Give and Receive from women. Receive from men.

donlikesdicks2
Aug 15, 2014, 7:10 PM
A really well lubricated cock in your ass feels really good. I'm not a fan of dry (unlubricated) ass fucking.

treetopflyer390
Aug 16, 2014, 9:56 AM
I am a giver

play times
Aug 16, 2014, 10:41 AM
I enjoy both, but receiving is what I like the most. The time I enjoyed the most, was to be on my back, have a cock deep in my ass, my wife sit on my face, and jerk off another guy...

void()
Aug 16, 2014, 1:29 PM
Both, though at times receiving is a bit adversarial. It depends on mood, situation.

BiCuriousVAN
Aug 16, 2014, 1:35 PM
I would like to do both, I have never done either, but right now, I really want to receive. It would be nice to find somebody who wanted both, but I can wait to give, as it is the thought of being penetrated that makes he hard.

highplainsbi
Aug 16, 2014, 5:37 PM
Receive - I'm a total bottom with guys.

Dunmor
Aug 16, 2014, 7:26 PM
prefer to receive, but can do both

oldbiguy2010
Aug 17, 2014, 7:11 AM
Receive

OlderBC1
Aug 17, 2014, 6:20 PM
I expect to get what I give. share it all or don't bother.

Osloviking
Aug 17, 2014, 7:19 PM
I like both

goldenfinger
Aug 17, 2014, 9:15 PM
I never understood why not both

gale_mn
Aug 18, 2014, 2:52 PM
receive love my legs over my head

itsnormy
Aug 18, 2014, 3:10 PM
BOTTOM, BOTTOM, BOTTOM....come drive me to heaven....*S*

loftycraig
Sep 7, 2014, 7:27 PM
ive never tried, but with the right guy, im flexible

readyass
Sep 8, 2014, 1:02 AM
Receive

pole_smoker
Sep 8, 2014, 3:16 AM
I only give. Have never received or been fucked, and do not want to ever do that.

But when I give anal sex I only do it to a male partner who I am in a partnership/LTR with. No it's not done every single time we have sex, and it's totally optional.

Yes, condoms are used each and every time.

I have been told by other bi and gay male friends that actual 'tops' like myself are rare. Is this true?

Svguy2014
Sep 8, 2014, 3:50 AM
Both, depends on the mood and how sub/bttm I'm feeling

elmwood7
Sep 8, 2014, 5:34 AM
I too prefer to receive but I do both as well.

4ourbitimes
Sep 8, 2014, 1:02 PM
I like to receive and also like being on top, so both but what really works for me is when I'm in my wife and a guy is in me...talk about a great cum ..wow.. it's also fun when getting head while someone is in me.

stonebow
Sep 8, 2014, 6:53 PM
I like to receive and also like being on top, so both but what really works for me is when I'm in my wife and a guy is in me...talk about a great cum ..wow.. it's also fun when getting head while someone is in me.

These scenes sound so AWESOME! Never experienced either getting sucked AND fucked at once or being the center of a fuckwich...lol Consider them on my list. I have topped a few times and enjoyed it but when I'm with a man it's HIS cock that comes first....I'm there to serve so for me it's receive all the way!

OralGiver
Sep 17, 2014, 8:26 AM
receive,would like to try giving

Ziggy74
Sep 18, 2014, 8:38 PM
I only give. Have never received or been fucked, and do not want to ever do that.

But when I give anal sex I only do it to a male partner who I am in a partnership/LTR with. No it's not done every single time we have sex, and it's totally optional.

Yes, condoms are used each and every time.

I have been told by other bi and gay male friends that actual 'tops' like myself are rare. Is this true? Certainly less common in certain demographics, but how less common overall is hard to say. I find, for instance, that a lot of guys who are bi-top only are married to women. But among the more self-identified bi population it seems mostly vers, then bottom, then top.

pole_smoker
Sep 18, 2014, 10:16 PM
Certainly less common in certain demographics, but how less common overall is hard to say. I find, for instance, that a lot of guys who are bi-top only are married to women. But among the more self-identified bi population it seems mostly vers, then bottom, then top.
I don't think you can really break it down like that.

There are a lot of bi men, and even gay men who are not into anal sex at all. Or some who only do it a few times a year with a man who they are in a partnership with.

While I'm a total top for anal sex I am not married to anyone, and am single.

AGuyIKnow
Sep 19, 2014, 1:31 AM
I'm a top and I've been told by several bottoms that there's definitely a shortage of tops to go around. Though I've bottomed a couple of times, when begged, it's not something that I look forward to. Yes I am married but I don't think my decision would be any different if I wasn't.

1hot4u
Sep 19, 2014, 5:04 AM
I like receiving .I have huge sex toys.Would like to try horse dildo and annihalator.Have not had one that big yet.

cbb83
Sep 19, 2014, 10:07 AM
This thread makes me wonder if more homo/bisexual men tend towards submissive tendencies as well.

Melody Dean
Sep 19, 2014, 11:29 AM
This thread makes me wonder if more homo/bisexual men tend towards submissive tendencies as well.

I also wonder how many top-onlys don't consider themselves bi?

pole_smoker
Sep 19, 2014, 12:10 PM
I also wonder how many top-onlys don't consider themselves bi?
If they're having sex with men, or want to but are married or involved with a woman (which isn't necessarily true for the whole top/bottom/versatile thing for anal sex), why wouldn't they consider themselves bisexual?

Sensualhunter
Sep 19, 2014, 12:39 PM
Another bottom here :)

I have had many strapons and now have a RealDoe :) that my wife will use rarely. Love seeing her with a cock!!!
But I have bottomed for two guys. First was another MWM it was a first time for both of us and he had an 8" beautiful cut cock. It felt so good and he went in so slow. Second guy said he was married and that it was his first time, but I think he was gay and it was not his first time lol. He fucked me hard and fast. :/ As my name implies, I like it slow, long and passionate. I would consider topping in the right situation though I think. I do love being inside a warm sweet pussy.

Bi2boot
Sep 19, 2014, 7:09 PM
I've only bottomed once and it was a very long time ago. I went home with a guy I met in a porn theater. He had a thick, eight inch cock and it was just too much for my virgin ass. It hurt so much, I was kind of paralyzed and couldn't find my voice to beg him to stop. I just hung on, waiting for him to finish. It was kind of traumatic, really.

Funny thing is, I still fantasize about getting fucked all the time and use dildos on myself occasionally and come really hard with one inside me.

I have never fucked a guy, but I've had anal with a couple of women and prefer vaginal intercourse. Pussy just feels better to me.

So, I guess I'm saying I'd prefer to receive even though my one experience wasn't a good one.

Hoosier
Sep 20, 2014, 8:09 PM
Bottom here...I love the feel of cum in my ass.

gotlek
Sep 22, 2014, 5:54 PM
I like to receive since i was a teenager.
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kiowatalon
Sep 22, 2014, 6:16 PM
I enjoy both receiving anal and topping. Love fucking a pretty ass and receiving a good dick.

Kevinc140
Sep 22, 2014, 6:40 PM
I am more of giving.... but a nice tongue in my ass is nice...

Leenaturalist
Sep 22, 2014, 9:29 PM
I prefer receiving anal now. I used to give as well as receive, but ED after prostate surgery left me only able to receive. I love receiving and giving oral though.

pole_smoker
Sep 22, 2014, 9:33 PM
I never understood why not both
I do not bottom, receive, or become passive during anal sex at all because I find a finger up there painful or uncomfortable. A tongue up there was gross and not something I want to experience again.

SargeRay.USMC
Sep 22, 2014, 10:26 PM
I have always favored being the giver. I do receive occasionally. I have always played safe and used rubbers.

Ann29732
Sep 23, 2014, 10:00 AM
Obviously I can't 'give' but I do enjoy anal on occasion as long as the guy takes his time, uses plenty of lube....and I have two or three glasses of wine :)

spelljoc
Sep 23, 2014, 10:10 AM
I do not do anal, it is only cunt and cock: Fucking and eating cunt, Sucking cock and being sucked

pole_smoker
Sep 23, 2014, 10:24 AM
I do not do anal, it is only cunt and cock: Fucking and eating cunt, Sucking cock and being sucked
I was like that for decades and had no desire to do any sort of anal sex at all.

Then I met a long term partner who wanted to try receptive anal sex and we both enjoyed it.

robbiewillsucku
Sep 24, 2014, 2:51 PM
receiving

Cutiliae
Sep 27, 2014, 3:06 PM
I have received it only once about 15 years ago, but would like to receive it again. I don't think I could give it though.

nudist_60187
Sep 28, 2014, 1:33 AM
Hello I am from Illinois and yes getting older and you all the what happens then ( I have never been fucked yet but am very willing to explore. GF would love to watch also.

eddieboy34
Sep 28, 2014, 5:13 AM
both sometimes its amazing to be fucked and give up the power, and sometimes there something really fucking hot about bending a guy over and fucking his brains out. ;)

art711
Sep 28, 2014, 6:39 AM
Haven't done either, want to try both but would prefer to receive

oldmike
Sep 28, 2014, 8:43 AM
receive

wifekinky4husband
Sep 28, 2014, 7:26 PM
I love receiving anal but more so after giving it. I am so much more available (being seriously turned on) after "F"ing my husband anally. My husband is an incredible giver and even more so receiving. He has never received from a man (something I would love to have happen) and swears he will never do a man anally (it just isn't an interest whatsoever - mine either).

hudsonguy
Sep 29, 2014, 10:40 AM
Definitely receiving.....

Bigguytn69
Sep 29, 2014, 11:10 AM
I enjoy receiving more with men than giving, but not a stranger to bending a male friend over the bed. And I am equal when I am with a woman, I enjoy both giving and receiving. I love the power exchange when I am with a woman. I can't say there is a greater feeling than a woman's breast on my back as she slides her strap-on in my ass.

Thundergasm
Sep 29, 2014, 12:36 PM
I very much enjoy receiving. An old girlfriend of mine loved doing me with at strap-on and I loved it. I used to call them monster-gasms I would cum so hard. I've done it once with a man and loved it as well. Have not had the experience since, but an very receptive to another.

greatwhite
Sep 30, 2014, 9:37 PM
and wow I'd love to give it to ya!

greatwhite
Sep 30, 2014, 9:47 PM
I prefer both but lean more toward topping, I enjoy the feel of a tight ass (male or female) wrapped around my cock. I have a good amount of experience bottoming, for two years I was a part of a group that met a few times a month for group sex. Three guys and three girls, all bi, we explored all the possibilities. I miss that, a lot!

oh WOW that is hot.

man4girlgirl4man
Oct 1, 2014, 2:54 PM
Receive. Bottom. The girlfriend. Pussy Boy. Ass Whore. I love everything about being fucked. Feels so good to me physically but there's so much more to it than just that. The whole vibe the role reversal experience, being penetrated, giving him total control, feeling like a slut, being on the other side of a hot fuck like all the women I've fucked in my life.

DMercator
Oct 11, 2014, 8:44 PM
Given a choice, I'd pick a nice warm wet pussy over anal. I've topped a couple of times, honestly it didn't do much for me, but I have to say I loved the effect it had on the man I was fucking. It was undeniably hot watching him squirm and moan and beg me to fuck him harder. Getting someone off is a pleasure, whether their a guy or a girl.

I've never had the opportunity to bottom, but I'm hoping to. I'd love an experienced mentor to take me under his wing and show me the joy of anal sex. Of course I'd also love a hot lady with a strap on or a big breasted t-girl, or a gay couple to take me at both ends or to fuck someone's wife while hubby took me from behind or.... Oh, hell, someone just fuck me already! lol

niceguy4160
Oct 12, 2014, 7:04 AM
I prefer to receive. Have only done it twice but enjoyed it both times. I enjoy the full feeling and can't wait for my next time. Would luv to try to be spit roasted.

mcliff128
Nov 9, 2014, 11:22 AM
I Love Both

Jakesnake
Nov 9, 2014, 12:19 PM
wow, like you I have not yet felt the pleasure of having a nice hard cock pushed inside my ass. I want to try, so I guess I dont know where I would be in the survey. How about willing to try

Ben wants to be aliv
Dec 10, 2015, 2:34 AM
i would like to try receiving soon

void()
Dec 10, 2015, 10:05 AM
Both.

raven452
Dec 10, 2015, 3:42 PM
I enjoy both I have problems with finding others who enjoy both

curmwm57
Dec 10, 2015, 4:45 PM
Love anal play and prostate milking but have never had the opportunity to give or receive a real cock. Would like to at some point.

stonerboy710
Dec 10, 2015, 6:54 PM
i like both, love getting fucked by a tranny, and like said above love watching men, and women squirm from my fucking them.......basically 50/50

tribi
Dec 10, 2015, 7:34 PM
I have been on the giving side many time's with women. I have never thought about being on the receiving end until recently, I purchased a 7 inch dildo and have been sitting on it almost everyday since I've had it . I would love to have the real thing . I know I'm going to like it.

Josh568
Dec 10, 2015, 11:38 PM
I've never received, but love giving.

playtoy70
Dec 11, 2015, 5:35 AM
both like to give and get fucked

cheil77
Dec 11, 2015, 9:55 AM
Both feel great I just started receiving and I never thought I would like it as much as I do

greatwhite
Dec 11, 2015, 5:43 PM
Loooove to give, curious about receiving.

man4girlgirl4man
Dec 11, 2015, 8:17 PM
I'm the kind of bisexual who fucks women and gets fucked by men. By cute dark skinned black very well hung men. I'm custom made to take 10, 11, even 12 inches of thick beautiful black dick. I start by sitting on my man and just a few up and down thrusts is enough to get all his dick inside me. Balls deep. as good to me as fucking the most beautiful and sexually skilled woman. Totally different but just as good....

Tommy54
Dec 13, 2015, 12:33 PM
I've given and it wasn't that great, but I'd love to receive.

txsmale55
Dec 13, 2015, 2:25 PM
I want to receive please!!!!!

KevsBi
Dec 14, 2015, 10:57 AM
I have done both but I would prefer to receive.

SilkyHoseLover
Dec 14, 2015, 3:19 PM
I enjoy giving anal to a woman, but don't really have a strong desire to get into a man's ass. I do love sucking cock, though, and enjoy having my ass played with and fucked. (by either a guy or a lady with a strap-on...)

a2smith09
Dec 14, 2015, 5:34 PM
I enjoy giving anal to a woman, but don't really have a strong desire to get into a man's ass. I do love sucking cock, though, and enjoy having my ass played with and fucked. (by either a guy or a lady with a strap-on...)

LOL I love fucking female ass. There's something about a nice smooth round feminine ass that really turns me on and I love to fuck em. If it also has a nice pair of balls and a cock hanging beneath it so much the better. Some guys I like to switch up with, some I prefer to bottom, some I prefer to top and some I'm not into anal sex with but we love to suck each others cocks.

BiCuriousVAN
Dec 14, 2015, 8:36 PM
I have only bottomed once, but loved it. The guy who fucked my ass, was really good and there was no pain at all. He didn't spend a lot of time getting me ready, but whatever he did worked really well. That being said, I did some homework the day before to get ready. I also don't have much experience as a top, but I love topping both men and women. My idea of a good time, is for a guy to fuck my ass and then I return the favour.

It seems that here, there are more people interested in bottoming, but not many who want to top, but I have had a hard time finding people who want to bottom and more people who want to top. Most of the guys who I find who want to bottom are virgins and aren't really convinced they want to try it.

jimisbi
Dec 16, 2015, 10:49 PM
I receive only. It feels absolutely wonderful getting a cock in my ass and taking a hot load.

69luvr
Dec 17, 2015, 2:49 PM
I have never experienced anal sex, but not through lack of trying to find someone. However, I have played with butt plugs and dildos, which I enjoyed. I am keen to try anal and would like to try both giving and receiving. I suspect I will enjoy receiving more and look forward to the feeling a cock in my a**.

So, my question is: what is your preference:

Give
Receive
Both
Not interested
Haven't tried
Other

I love to do both but sucking and swallowing is my real enjoyment!

aLABiM75 & StrF51
Dec 17, 2015, 6:05 PM
Both.... I'm Versatile

Bedtime
Dec 22, 2015, 4:53 PM
Definitely receive, I have given to a few girls, that was great but I tried to top a couple of men and it was a real turnoff for me, my dick went limp. I love having A big hard dick fucking me like a slut.

naztypanty
Dec 22, 2015, 9:43 PM
Receiving anal sex is required. I used to be a 'fuck the chicks only' but now I'm a 'I want to experience sex from her POV, so I must receive cock.'

bj4ubi
Dec 23, 2015, 7:20 AM
Love to receive since I'm a sub
I will give to a woman if she wants it

querty
Dec 23, 2015, 10:17 AM
Much much prefer to receive. I was surprised (and excited) by how much i enjoyed the submissive role. We always use condoms so ill not likely ever have the pleasure of feeling a hot load.

Tibsey
Dec 24, 2015, 1:30 AM
I love taking cock. .mouth or ass..I love being fucked.sucking cock is a massive turn on..I was a late starter..wish I had done it after years ago. .I didn't realise how much I would really love cock

itsnormy
Dec 24, 2015, 1:48 PM
See why there seems to be a shortage of tops for anal sex....once a guy does it, he wants it again, and again...I was asked once if I were limited to only one sex act for the rest of my life, i quickly responded, " to be fucked in the ass, every day."

ISOSafe&Discreet
Feb 21, 2016, 3:36 PM
I like both... I probably like to receive a bit more.... love to have my ass played with by a woman or a man. But I also like to have my cock inside a nice ass and would choose anal over vaginal. Guess the novelty never wears off!

tenni
Feb 21, 2016, 4:35 PM
It is interesting (if not already posted) there is no option for neither give nor receive anal. I wonder why?

SilkyHoseLover
Feb 22, 2016, 7:31 AM
I wonder why?I'd aver that it's simply semantics, based upon the wording of the actual topic. If you don't enjoy or indulge in anal play in any context, you wouldn't have a preference, would you? In that case, why bother to contribute to the thread?

bigdave8063021
Feb 22, 2016, 8:51 AM
Love to give, haven't had the pleasure of receiving.

toto001
Feb 22, 2016, 9:02 PM
Love to give, haven't had the pleasure of receiving.

you're missing a big part of your life . im a total receiver here .

bi4asplay
Feb 26, 2016, 11:09 AM
I love to receive a cock or to be pegged. I do enjoy giving to a lady but not a man.

shavedtaz69
Feb 26, 2016, 6:42 PM
I love to give and like receiving more than giving. A strap on works, but the real thing is hard to beat.

lnidas6699
Mar 1, 2016, 2:36 PM
Both, definately both! Giving is good but receiving is so much better.

BisexualPisces3192
Sep 26, 2018, 7:50 PM
Both, But Prefer Receiving More.

delpark
Sep 26, 2018, 8:38 PM
Receiving.

Michaelcuriousman
Sep 27, 2018, 5:24 PM
I love both. Depends on the mood at the time of sex. If I’m feeling dominant, I’ll top. If the guy feels dominant, or if I feel like being submissive, I bottom. It’s all about the mood in the heat of the moment.

ChiefH
Sep 27, 2018, 10:41 PM
Both, but I prefer bottom most of the time with a guy and uncut cock!!!

Fzmr9t
Sep 28, 2018, 2:26 AM
A definite bottom. I topped a couple of times in the past, but with ED issues, that’s not a viable option

chongster
Sep 28, 2018, 10:02 AM
Give-I'm a top, I love anal with both sexes. I let one guy fuck me but it didn't do much for me. I love having my ass played with and even enjoy being pegged but a guy fucking me was just not my thing.

redngoldpride
Sep 28, 2018, 12:17 PM
I love giving , just absolutely love fucking touching and stroking , caressing ass cheeks exploring the valley between the sexy buns kissing all over the ass , licking all up and down the crack pressing my lips to the puckered rose bud licking it teasing it with the tip of my tongue , slipping my tongue into you as deeply as possible pressing my face deeply and tightly between your soft sexy buns all this getting ready , working up to me slipping my big hard cock into you watching your tight ring gripping and sliding along my cock ........... O M G I LOVE THIS m/f love it with both

Biwm02062
Sep 28, 2018, 12:24 PM
As long as the cock is small I'll receive

hung4you
Sep 30, 2018, 4:18 AM
Being middle aged and still in pretty good shape, I enjoy lots of viariety in sex. My desire for anal sex knows no bounds, my frequent buddy who I have been friends with for many years enjoys our encounters. He is in a sexless marriage and my wife and I see to it that his desires are taken care of. That said we have plenty of one on one sexual episodes.

Since my 1st anal encounter in Collage I have loved it ever since and practice anal very frequently with my close friend, with him living just next door the frequency of our sexual play is almost every day. During the week we mostly 69 each other to completion but come the weekend is when we really get down and dirty. Last night I enjoyed 3 hours of sexual bliss as he worked his gorgious cock giving me that awesome anal orgasm and filling my ass with his sweet cum.

mr bill
Sep 30, 2018, 5:08 AM
i want try both but virgin all the way

Argent 11
Oct 13, 2018, 9:07 AM
Been far to long but, BOTH for me.

BisexualPisces3192
Oct 15, 2018, 1:07 AM
Both but receiving is more enjoyable.

oldoralman
Oct 16, 2018, 2:47 PM
I just love to receive anal. I might would try topping a guy if I could keep it up. But that seems impossible.

Cdnbi
Nov 6, 2018, 2:37 PM
I like to receive. I’ve only had one true experience but had about every variety of dildo and toy in my mangina and can’t wait for it be visited again by a cock.

hung4you
Nov 7, 2018, 3:20 AM
Wow, I m amazed at how many are admitting to love receiving. I too would fall into this group! After my Collage roommate 1st punched my ass with his cock I have been additicted . Now I have a regular that I am very submissive for, he is also married but seeks his sexual pleasures with me instead of his wife.

diverdown207
Nov 8, 2018, 10:46 AM
While I enjoy both, I LOVE to receive!! Love the feel of a hard cock in side me!

Sensualhunter
Nov 8, 2018, 11:45 AM
I am definitely more of a bottom, but lately I have been fantasizing about how it would feel to make love to a guy and being inside him. I think I would want to do it missionary since that is how I like it. I love kissing and it is easy to kiss and lick nipples in missionary. :)

RegularJoe
Nov 9, 2018, 5:50 AM
Never done anal but curious to try either giving or recieving

Twowheelfun
Nov 9, 2018, 8:19 AM
I love both but prefer to get fucked first . It gets me so turned on .

hbgbiguy
Nov 9, 2018, 3:01 PM
Both. I love the feeling of a hard cock entering my tight ass just as much as I love to be the one pushing their hard cock into a tight hole!

bikurinpa
Nov 9, 2018, 4:31 PM
I love it both ways, Problem is finding someone!!!

xp243
Nov 10, 2018, 6:37 AM
Both give and receive

BisexualPisces3192
Jan 14, 2019, 2:03 AM
Both, but I like receiving more.

guyinphilly
Jan 15, 2019, 12:58 AM
I'm mostly oral but bottomed a few times so far and liked it.

Virgo_xxx
Jan 15, 2019, 1:21 AM
I prefer getting fucked

DD788Snipe
Feb 12, 2019, 1:23 AM
Receiving for me. I love to get fucked.

grover
Feb 13, 2019, 3:09 PM
If my partner has a small dick I wanna do the fucking. If he has a big dick lube it up good and take your time.

Quickdraw69
Feb 19, 2019, 8:52 PM
Both all depends on the mood at the time.

BigAlNYC
Feb 25, 2019, 4:02 AM
Definitely receiving. I LOVE to be fucked. Much as I love sex with women, to me being fucked by a man is the most all-encompassing sex act I have ever experienced.

Hornychimp67
Mar 4, 2019, 10:03 PM
I have never experienced anal sex, but not through lack of trying to find someone. However, I have played with butt plugs and dildos, which I enjoyed. I am keen to try anal and would like to try both giving and receiving. I suspect I will enjoy receiving more and look forward to the feeling a cock in my a**.

So, my question is: what is your preference:

Give
Receive
Both
Not interested
Haven't tried
Other

I prefer both. My fwb and i enjoy eating each other's rosebuds. Mind you he plants his luscious rod in me more than i do in his love hole
But we both love anal play

hairy69
Mar 15, 2019, 5:16 AM
Haven't tried either, but would prefer to recieve than give! Just love the idea of being flat on my back watching another guy stick it in me.....WOW!

hung4you
Mar 15, 2019, 5:39 AM
Although my buddy and I both love receiving most of the time it me on the bottom, I worship his cock almost every morning before work. The convienece of him living next door alllows lots of play time, early morning rituals are the norm for us. I have on more than one occasion been able to get him to deposit 2 loads in me, when his dick is working my ass it’s the most awesome feeling in the world. On those mornings when I want more, I will lay there with his juice leaking out and he will wash off his cock and return to feed me his dick until he is ready to once again mount me. Cumming without touching myself is something that I can’t even describe, his low hanging ball sack is slapping my ass in rhythm and the sound is almost enough to make me crazy. So to answer the question I will always want to be the bottom.

JasonS
Mar 15, 2019, 7:42 AM
I've done more receiving but I like both.

yeahso
Mar 17, 2019, 1:25 PM
Giving. I love how my cock feels inside of someone.

KDaddy23
Mar 17, 2019, 2:51 PM
I grew up giving and receiving as a matter of course but as I got older, I got more selective about who I'd have anal sex with. Not out of safety concerns but at one point in my life, it just stopped being as much fun as it was growing up so, today, I'd have to be really tight with a guy before agreeing to anal sex; I'm very happy just to suck dicks until such a guy comes along.

Freakcouple
Mar 23, 2019, 1:05 PM
Receive receive

playful808
Mar 30, 2019, 9:15 PM
I really do enjoy both, sometimes at the same time.
Was a total top for decades. Vers now.
I am well hung and girthy and guys just want to spread.
And I am good at topping, studied it, enjoy it.

But I get the best the best orgasms from bottoming / prostate play. They seem to go on and on.
Getting stretched puts me into an altered state of mind.
Can be emotional, intense. Definitely cathartic.