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Paulsson
Mar 13, 2014, 12:03 PM
Last week, after some wine and dinner, we began having ass play. Usually I finger her some and then fuck her ass while she squirts, then I pull out and cum on her stomach. She rarely wants me to cum in her ass. This time, though, she got the toys out and said she was going to make me ass cum. She's used her fingers and a dildo a couple times in the past, but never got into it this much. She started using her fingers then pushed her hand up to the top of her fingers. I tried to take the whole hand but couldn't. She, then, grabbed the larger dildo and pushed it in ( it hurt at first, but eased up), then began saying" I wish I had a dick" over and over again. I told her that wished it too, and that it would be a fantasy for her to 69 me while a guy was ass fucking me. This turned her on so much that she began moaning and dildo fucking me fast, and I DID ass cum a couple of times.
The problem is: I said no more. This was a perfect chance for me to say that I'm very BI curious and want to hook up with a guy by myself or with her, but I couldn't do it. I know she was turned on by the idea at the time, but would that translate to a lifestyle that she could handle? I don't know the answer, but hopefully, I can talk to her freely about it, whether we do anything with anyone or not.

Cum1st
Mar 13, 2014, 12:31 PM
Looks like the door is unlocked. What's the worst thing that can happen? She'd tell her sister?

Ja&Ve
Mar 13, 2014, 12:37 PM
Totally tell. Or at least encourage her to buy a strap on. Lots of fun! ;)-V

BiMichael47
Mar 13, 2014, 1:38 PM
Yeah, get her a nice strap on, that will open the door much wider.

Good luck

marine20
Mar 13, 2014, 1:46 PM
you should tell her . she is giving you all the signs that she would like it. I have been with my wife for 38 years , and I just told her . I was scared to death . turns out it was no big deal to her, she hardly blinked an eye. there is a very good chance, you will start to have really great sex , from now on.

bluesky55
Mar 13, 2014, 2:01 PM
You missed giving her a strap-on for Valentine's Day. April Fools Day is coming up, give her one then. When you give her the package & she opens it, if she looks shocked & says "What's this?" You can just say "You said you wished you had a dick so..." If it doesn't go good you can always say "April Fools!" but it doesn't sound like you'll have too.

Ja&Ve
Mar 13, 2014, 3:35 PM
You missed giving her a strap-on for Valentine's Day. April Fools Day is coming up, give her one then. When you give her the package & she opens it, if she looks shocked & says "What's this?" You can just say "You said you wished you had a dick so..." If it doesn't go good you can always say "April Fools!" but it doesn't sound like you'll have too.

Aw man, wish we would have thought of something like that. But we did alright. We went shopping on our anniversary. ;)

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Mar 13, 2014, 7:27 PM
Yep. Get her a strapon harness and a couple of "Starter" dongs and look at her meekly, then say "I want you to fuck good. Make me take it, my ass cherry is Yours" then as she's letting you strap her up, say "Would you like to see me take a real cock someday, my love? You watch, direct, make sure he does it right"
I think this would exzcite her to no end, Hon. :}
Good luck. If you would like a couple of site names for strap on's, Im me. :}
Cat

Paulsson
Mar 13, 2014, 7:56 PM
We've been together 34 years. I hope it will be no big deal or preferably a really great deal to her.

Paulsson
Mar 13, 2014, 7:58 PM
Thanks Cherokee, it sounds as if this is something you would really enjoy. I'll bet your lovers are crazy about you.

Hypersexual11
Mar 13, 2014, 8:19 PM
well, you did tell her. She didn't freak out or anything. Now you just have to bring it back up with her. She sounds like she would not have a problem with it but I know the stress of saying it out loud in the daylight. Way tougher than it should be.

jackbirdjay
Mar 15, 2014, 10:04 AM
Mine uses toys on me all the time. She thinks I am only curious. Dose not know about my past.