So confused, advice needed

[collinquinn]

Hey, Well im 18/male whos bi and so confused with everything. What happens to me is that I know I'm bi as I've had sex with 1 girl and done other stuff with girls before. However, I like guys a lot better it seems because if I meet a guy and really like him, it feels like there's a voice in my head saying "maybe I'm gay" even though I know I'm not. Just wondering if any of you guys have any advice. I'm an overthinker and it feels like I'm at war with myself because I like guys a lot more, even though im still sexually attracted to women. Also, when I'm older I could only see myself marrying a woman, and not a guy. If anyone has any advice it'd be awesome, because I know I'm worrying about something I shouldn't be even thinking about. Thanks:bigrin:

[gotlek]

Honey
Don't try to define your feelings with names, why putting a border?
The important is how you feel when you feel and act on it, let it change your brain will direct you to wher u wanna be over time.23982

[HenryDaniel]

When I was younger I would feel guilty and wonder if I was gay after having sex with a man. As time went on , I though why worry about putting tags on things. I am sexually comfortable with both men and women. As you grow older you will stop worrying about this. Just relax and enjoy your life

[elian]

Hmm, what -they- said.. ..and also, God loves us for who we are, not who we think we ought to be. With time and experience you will figure out who you are - the natural reaction is fear, but I would recommend trying to walk that journey with love, gratitude and patience .. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDlaoEIZCoo At 18 I was just sexual period. The truth is that very few things in nature are completely black or white, but rather many shades of gray..different people have different levels of romantic and physical attraction toward others. How open they are in sharing that with others depends on experience, upbringing, social taboos, how confident they are in themselves and others.. I would say that most people, even straight people have experimented with others sexually when they were young. Human beings are curious and inquisitive and I don't think sex is something to be ashamed of, although it can illicit powerful responses in people so respect for yourself, your partners and friends should always be a consideration.

[BIGUY123456]

I first came into the bi scene at 16 when I discoved the nude beach with friends about 6 months later I visited alone and found myself also looking at me I was aslo confused because I liked women but really never did anything with a girl so I thought I was gay. Throughout the yrs ive been with more men than women snd got comfy that im bi and prefer being in relationships with women but only fooling around with men. I do find fooling around with men hotter in a different sense like taboo