Turn Off or Turn On?

[GirlyBoi4U]

Perhaps it was a response to a recent post I had made, or just an unsolicited nasty gram...I don't know. But I received a message from a member here (I'll refrain from sharing their name). So I thought I'd open the topic publicly, just out or curiosity. I'd like to know what the general consensus is...at least here on Bisexual.

Here's the message,

"The fact that you're into putting on women's underwear and women's clothing is a MAJOR turn-off for 99% of bi and gay men. Even "men" who are femme or into putting on women's clothing don't want to get with other "men" who are into cross dressing and acting how they think real women act."

So, this is geared to all the Bi and/or Gay guys here...what is YOUR opinion of another Bi or Gay in panties or lingerie?

[DomLkg4maleCkSkr]

I am your typical gay guy. I like men. I have been out as a gay man for 43 years. I thought that I would not get into guys who wear panties or want to dress in women's lingerie until I met a special guy. I got into it so much that I went and bought lingerie and other things for him. Today, I enjoy the girly boys like you, girlyBoi4U.

So, it's a matter of attitude, I suppose. I think that the writer is correct that most bi and gay men are into men. But, there are many who are just fine with you.

Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.

Who cares about those who write or say the kinds of things he said. At least, you know.

[querty]

nope - not at all for me. Turn off. But I hold no judgement what-so-ever. What ever floats your boat!

[void()]

I enjoy manly men. Though such does not slam the door on a girly man. It all depends
on the person, their personality. Sweet guys are okay. I dislike saccharin sweet guys
though. But I dislike the same in gals. To me it brings memories of The Stepford Wives.
This is frightening to me.

[tenni]

Hi
I don’t know the percentages of bisexual men who are turned off by guys who want to wear women’s clothing. I can only write for myself.


Basically, my answer is I am not turned on by a man who wants to wear women’s clothes.


The more female items that he wants to wear the less that I am attracted to him. I have had playbuddy who wanted to wear women’s clothes though. I had gotten to know him a bit before this topic came up. He kept it to a basic black minimum and also wore male clothing like a white dress business shirt over black stockings. There remained a very strong male presence with him.

As of this moment, there is no way in hell that I’d get with a guy who wore make up and wig etc.


Bottom line, when I want to be with a woman I will enjoy panties etc. When I want to be with a man, I’d prefer that he look like a man. As far as you dressing for yourself, that is fine. It probably just won’t be with me.
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Women cross dress all the time and it is accepted in society. One difference is when most women cross dress the clothing is feminized ..ie Ellen. I read somewhere that is very standard in suits that look like a man’s suits..the shoulders are rounded off differently than a real man’s suit etc.


I don’t think that is down with panties that guys want to wear though?

[Drunk Uncle]

While it doesn't speak to me, I don't find it a turn-off, just not something that I'm drawn to.

Please note that I've also never had a chance to play with someone that dresses up, so I have no idea what I would do in that moment. If I knew the person well enough and liked them...well, that's always been the best sex of all, no matter what one is wearing or not wearing.


As for the mean-spirited people that would tell you "it's not working" or something else that would be meant to make you feel bad, just ignore them.

After all, this is a Forum for Bisexual people and there are a lot of people who are out there in the World that would say the same of all of us just for being a Member of this club.

Have fun, be safe and remember how small and lonely the lives of those who feel compelled to send such hurtful things must be.

Drunk Uncle

[19biman61]

I'm a Bi man and I am REALLY turned ON by men who wear womens clothing. I love the feel of a cock in a pair of satin panties. I love to run my tongue up the length of a mans thigh high clad legs. I also like to wear womens clothing myself, thoughI don't pass for a woman.

[fredtyg]

I love girly clothing on the right kind of guy. Not so much dresses. Undies, negligee and even a blouse can be hot, but it has to be the right kind of guy. Putting girl clothes on some big, hairy fat guy is akin to lipstick on a pig. It does look good on slimmer guys with little hair and softer features.

I pretty much lost interest in wearing girlie stuff myself when I realized I was too old to make it work- lipstick on a pig, again, although I'm not hairy or fat. Not that I have a problem with older guys wearing girl stuff, but if they aren't the kind of guy that appeals to me anyway, the girl stuff isn't going to make them any more attractive.

[Realist]

Personally, a guy dressed in feminine clothes does nothing for me.

As others have said, it's not a particular turn-off, though...their personality and attitude is what I'm mostly attracted to.

In college, I had a classmate/lover, who wore ladies' bikini Panties. It excited him, if I'd buy a pair for him, so I guess I was an enabler. My GF, on a cold and rainy day, brought some of her clothes to his apartment and dressed him up, then did his make-up. Being "too pretty to be a boy" he could have easily passed for a female. We tried our best to get him to go out with us, but he refused to leave the apartment, while dressed that way.

When a male is obviously a male, even when dressed and made up, I'm afraid that's not attractive to me. However, I wouldn't criticize anyone who enjoyed doing that, or anyone who enjoyed being with them.

Hey, we all have different interests and things that arouse us, or not! Isn't "live and let-live" the best policy?

[jsgh555]

i love seeing it and being in them

[tenni]

What I am wondering is how many bisexual men who do not want to dress in women's clothes find men who dress in women's clothes sexually arousing?

The opposite being, are there any biguys who like to wear women's clothing turned off if another guy wears woman's clothes? (do they feel sexy and find other guys dressed in women's clothes sexy?)
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When Madonna cross dressed last night at the Grammy, does she look masculine or feminine? Would a biguy who likes to wear women's clothes find Madonna's outfit do it for them?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2546491/Grammy-Awards-2014-Madonna-son-David-Banda-eight-hit-Grammys-red-carpet-matching-Ralph-Lauren-suits.html

[bicuriousgeorgia]

i think it is a huge turn on to see a guy in women's clothes.

[stungun]

Guys in lingerie is an erotic, super-charged TURN ON. Don't listen to ANY negativity. Enjoy what thrills you. Any one who put you down because of your choices is wrong.

[j4u42]

Being bi, I like women to be feminine and men to be masculine. Thus the attractions. A man dressing like a woman is silly as far as I'm concerned. Almost clownish. I don't like clowns I think clowns are Creepy. This is me though and am not putting down others who differ. Whatever Floats your boat as long as there's no harm done.

[steve10557]

Like most things on here, it's all a matter of personal taste isn't it, there are as many sexual proclivities as there there are people. I have been known to cross-dress, not habitually or all the time, but whenever the mood strikes, but I do it mostly to please myself and a little bit to please a partner if they enjoy it, I have a strongly feminine edge to my nature and physique though so it is perhaps easier for me than others. When I do it I am not being a woman though, just expressing my feminine side, the 'queenie' demeanor of some dressers I find a turn-off, but yes I do find dressing attractive in others if carried off well, it's probably akin to a bit of theatre or roleplay. Incidentally, I joined this site a while back and have just recently returned... and yes it has changed, there is an awful lot more intolerance displayed on here than there used to be, that is probably true of the internet in general so it is just reflected here; but having a thought for what we say and how it might affect others might go some way to easing the problem. To those who couldn't care less.. well do they deserve any further thought?

"Walk a mile in my shoes" Elvis

[dickhand]

I must say that in my limited experience with this sort of thing , it doesn't do a thing for me , but it doesn't turn me off either . It seems to add to their (the one wearing it) pleasure and since that is my goal , I say whatever floats your boat is fine with me . I do have limits of course . For me they are generally ; no pain , no force and no scat play . Oh , and your not putting anything bigger than your dick in my ass !!

[waiting4u]

I encourage you to do whatever is good for you, but to me personally it is a turnoff.

[slohand111]

Depending on who is wearing I think it could be very hot.

[Erikir]

For me, major turn off.

I figure as long as no one is getting hurt, people should enjoy sexy time any way they see fit.

[centillini]

each there own, I have jerked off in panties a few times, not really for me.

[mac_46_46]

I love a man with a big hardon and earing sexy women's panties. It is big turn on for me.

[SilkyHoseLover]

As you might guess from my forum ID, I have the 'nylon gene', and enjoy seeing and touching skin that's covered with it. I love to see women in nylons, hose & lingerie more than just about anything. But as I have come to embrace my bisexuality, I also enjoy seeing a nice hard cock in panties and hose nearly as much as I enjoy wearing them, myself. One caveat is that I'm far less attracted to the sight of a male's hairy legs beneath the hose. I think that if you wear nylon, you should shave.

I am decidedly masculine in all outward appearances and mannerisms, but there is a feminine side to my libido. I've had the pleasure of bisexual contact while wearing lingerie both with men who were also wearing pantyhose, and with men who have not, while I was wearing them. Although these experiences are limited in number, they were very memorable and are among my favorite sexual memories.

It seems that those of us who enjoy this are among the least-tolerated and least-understood people in just about any community, and it can be pretty lonely. Not many men or women empathize with or are interested in guys who like to wear lingerie.

[zenn7]

NO...just doesn't work for me. Each to their own.

[newlynymphos]

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I quite enjoy it, and enjoy it on other hairless men too!

[Fzmr9t]

I'm not into fems or CDs generally, but there are those that I've seen, who've made my turn once or twice. That being said, I wouldn't even attempt to assume that I know what percentage of males here, or in general are turned off by men in frilly things

[bigal5050]

hugh turn on I love it if the guy has a nice tight body hosiery panties all good love a surprise In panties caressing legs and ass while sucking cock is super exciting to me

[CurEUs_Male]

I enjoy it in the right context. Trans, with a hot body is a huge turn on - best of both sexes I guess, and somewhere down to simple cross dressing if done 'right' is a lot of fun to look at. That, as other's have said, excludes the most masculine men, hairy legs, larger bellies, beards, etc.

I have only put on a couple things from the wife's closet, usually for just a try. It will feel nice, but I know I don't have the body I would like to see in those things, so I don't really push it. Once she handed me a pair of her boy shorts before we went out to a Ren Fest for the day. I felt fun, and the fact I saw a long term bi friend along the way made me want to share the secret with him. I got a thrill each time I went to the bathroom and reminded myself.... Last fall my wife bought me a kilt to wear on some of the celtic holidays.... now I am thinking what I might (or might not) wear underneath :yikes2:

[elian]

To me it brings memories of The Stepford Wives. This is frightening to me.
Why Mr. Void darlin' - whatever do you mean? (bats eyelashes - in best South'rn drawl..) "Kin you pass me somma'those pink suugar packets?" Hehe - but seriously - as you can see there really is someone for everyone. For all of the trolls I am glad I found this site because it got me to stop thinking of sexuality as black and white and started me understanding that there is a whole continuum of thought and desire..as long as you aren't hurting yourself or others I am not going to be the one to say no, stop doing that. The universal truth seems to be that things in moderation are okay, things taken to excess can be harmful. Far as long as I can see in history there have always been people who are interested in wearing clothing of the opposite sex. Some cultures even allow for a "third" gender or allow an individual to cross over gender lines without stigma (for those who actually identify as the opposite gender).. Social acceptance has waxed and waned over time .. I especially like one Native American quote I heard, "We don’t waste people, the way white society does. Every person has their gift.” …

[alecperdonni]

To each his own and I would NEVER look down on anyone for what they prefer. Personally I wouldn't say it's a turn-off but it does not interest me. I prefer womanly women and manly men.

[BiCuriousVAN]

Too each his own, but it I am not interested in a guy, if that is his thing. If I don't know, I guess it doesn't matter, just don't tell me. ;-)

[ghmutt1986]

personally cross dressing is a turn off I want a man who acts like a man.

[Isitfun]

Just me... As most folks said. to each his own. I my case, I do put on my wife's undies when I go to work some times. Not lokking to be seen in them just keeps me hard sometimes.

[2bi2Bboring]

I will start by saying that I agree with those who have previously said, "to each their own". My own preferences are not so clear cut as many of those who have stated that opinion, though. I am a bisexual man who enjoys men being men and women being women as well, but I don't believe that's all there is to the story. I once had a relationship with a transgendered girl, she was probably the most passable one I have met before or since. In fact before she told me, I had no idea she was in fact a man. She certainly didn't look like one, or act like one. There were no telling features that gave her away, her voice was feminine, her hands and feet were in proportion with her small frame. She gave every appearance of being a woman, until she was naked. She was quite frankly MORE feminine than most women, she managed that in a way that didn't make her more obvious like most drag queens do. Her make up was impeccable, always, never too much. Her clothes were always appropriate and never too loud or slutty or for that matter, too much of anything. S(he) always managed to ride that thin line of sexy and overdone, she did it with class too. She set a high bar as far as I'm concerned for femininity and what cis-women should strive for, let alone a transgendered woman. But that high bar has kind of a double edge. I can pick out 95% of transgendered girls from a mile away, it takes an extremely passable one for me to miss that she is in fact not a woman biologically. It is a fluke of genetics for a man to inherit all the traits it takes to pass as a woman, save the obvious. It's not about just about breasts, it takes far more than two lumps under a piece of cloth for a man to look feminine. It takes far more than a piece of silky cloth covering the genitals too. I am not attracted to men in panties, I find that a bit strange in fact. But, I am not one to criticize others for their own personal proclivities. I am, however, attracted to sissy boys, by that I mean a man who is passable as a woman. The term cross-dresser inspires a kind of image in my mind of a man who looks like a man in women's clothing. That image to me is not a particularly appealing one, but I am certainly not one to be critical of others. Simply put, I don't have to fuck them. If it makes them feel sexy to dress in any manner they want, it certainly makes no difference to me. But, for my own cock to be hard, a girl with a cock, with or without breasts, will do the trick. it is a matter of taste, and completely subjective, so there is no use trying to quantify it. Some men can pull it off, others, not so much. I find I am more attracted to sissy boys who embrace their sissy-hood than those who try to split their time between genders. It's seems to be a matter more of how they identify their own gender than whether society does. I want the "girl" who identifies as a girl, and can make the illusion real enough to fool society. She doesn't really need breasts for that, just good genetics, and the right attitude. So, will I fuck a man in panties, you bet, but only if she looks the part around those frilly undies. Not every guy is capable of that feat, but I don't have to fuck them all either. There is plenty of room for all of us here within the community, if someone is trying to bust your sweet lil' pea-picking bubbles over you wearing panties because you're a guy, tell them to stick their opinion where the sun don't shine. Keep calm and Panties-on!

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

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Put me in the 1%
A man that can pull of Women's underwear, and is excited by it, is a real turn-ON.

Don't let the insecure get you down with numbers they pull out of their warped sense of self.

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[void()]

Hehe - but seriously - as you can see there really is someone for everyone. For all of the trolls I am glad I found this site because it got me to stop thinking of sexuality as black and white and started me understanding that there is a whole continuum of thought and desire..as long as you aren't hurting yourself or others I am not going to be the one to say no, stop doing that. The universal truth seems to be that things in moderation are okay, things taken to excess can be harmful. Far as long as I can see in history there have always been people who are interested in wearing clothing of the opposite sex. Some cultures even allow for a "third" gender or allow an individual to cross over gender lines without stigma (for those who actually identify as the opposite gender).. Social acceptance has waxed and waned over time .. I especially like one Native American quote I heard, "We don’t waste people, the way white society does. Every person has their gift.” …

Much agree with you, hon. As I said, it lies more in the person for me.

C, has pulled the Stepford Wife imitation here a few times. I wind up
frozen out of fear upon hearing her. "Are you finished with your plate,
dear?" We joke, she calls it my frozen squirrel look. :)

And as much as it lies in the person, it lies in my mood. There are
times I am really excited by butterfly folk. And yes, emphatically, I
might enjoy having the steamy sex with a transgendered person. Again
though, depends on them as a person, mood, moment.

Something I have realized, I make myself happy. Others make themselves
happy. I am not here to judge, nor be judged. Your way is for you. My
way is for me. Unless one of us is being a total abusive, malicious
prick there is no need for either being condemned. You do not like my
way, fine, do not go that way. I did not ask you to go my way, nor will
I. I will not go your way either, nor do I expect being asked.

[elian]

OK well, if we are getting deeper than "yes or no" - I grew up 'wishing' I -could- be the opposite sex because when I was in grade school I never was very aggressive or confident in my own ability. I was also jealous of how easily girls could attract boys and I had poor male role models. If being a drunk, abusive asshole was what it meant to be a man then all I knew was, "that's not me.."

So for a very long time i identified as the other gender..and for a while I could even pass for that. People would get so embarrassed when they called me a girl and found out I was a little boy but I would be secretly thinking, "YES!" and smiling.

When puberty hit I found that it was just easier to live with the "factory installed" equipment - and I found some good mentors and friends who changed my opinion of what to meant to be a man. I am sort of "both ways" now - there are some things I do every once in a while that some men might find questionable, but I'm also mostly straight acting male .. it's confusing as heck to literally go both ways but to a degree it makes me happy that I can bridge both.

I guess like anything else there are some CD/TG folks that can really pull it off that I think are attractive and others that don't appeal to me - I could say the same thing about straight and L, G and B folks.. I'm more likely to be a friend than a lover, but I'm not going to say "never" - because if you find that special person maybe what is between their legs doesn't matter as much.

Maybe it's not so strange when you consider that each of us has the capacity for both types of energy.

[GirlyBoi4U]

It's a major turn off. If I want to fuck or have sex with someone wearing women's panties or clothing I'll have sex with a real actual woman and not a tranny/TS/TV or dude wearing women's clothing. If you wanna do this it's cool but it does not turn me on and it's a total turn off sexually.

On the flipside I don't want to have sex with a woman dressed up like a man, or a tranny imitating a man, and instead I'll just fuck a real actual man.


Here's the rest of the post that Love2FuckCunt didn't want to post here, but felt compelled to send his judgmental opinion directly to my inbox followed by my response:

It's a major turn off and it's very silly when men wear women's clothing. If I want to fuck or have sex with someone wearing women's panties or clothing I'll have sex with a real actual woman and not a tranny/TS/TV or dude wearing women's clothing. If you wanna do this it's cool but it does not turn me on and it's a total turn off sexually.

On the flipside I don't want to have sex with a woman dressed up like a man, or a tranny imitating a man, and instead I'll just fuck a real actual man.

THE INTERNET AND REALITY

Reality is primarily objective, the internet for many people (such as yourself) has become a subjective fantasy.

Learning to communicate with real people in real time may assist in making actual friends.

These are called social skills.

Real life does not exist on the internet. Real people do not exist on the internet. Most real opportunities do not exist on the internet.

The internet for the purposes most people use the internet no longer represents reality.

Many people have disconnected from reality and live out imaginary lives behind the internet.

Do you believe your activities on the internet allow people to become familiar with the real you?

Or do you think that via the internet you can really actually get to know someone or a real person?

The internet has become a fantasy for most people, and people on the internet do not tell the truth about themselves.

The internet is not a good way to meet actual real or truthful people.

Reality is a bitch and a harsh mistress. Many people (including you) can no longer accept reality.

Get out from behind the internet and take a step towards a real life.

You may find that living in reality is a refreshing change and make a few actual friends.

Remember if reality is too much for you, the internet is still available for you to hide behind.

At least you will know in your own mind that you have tried reality.

And my response:

I find it interesting how you say you cannot actually "get to know people via the internet..." and yet you make the previous statements...you don't know me or what I do outside the internet. What I don't do is attack others and put them down based on their desires, orientation or anything like that. I don't know where you saw, within my post, my perception of the internet being reality. Nor anywhere where I judged anyone for their sets of beliefs, their likes or dislikes. You are correct, however, in that many people "on the internet" hide behind fantasy, or are otherwise just liars and fakes. Be that as it may, there are just as many that are real and simply use the internet to supplement their realities and social lives. I think your thinking is very shallow...and you shouldn't be so quick to pass down judgement. If I was a betting man, I'd be willing to lay a wager that you are some married guy hiding your presence on Bisexual.com from your wife and living out your own little fantasy here. I say...have at it. I'm not judging.

LMAO...Thank you Dr. Phil.

[olmizzou42]

My only experience was with a 60ish guy who was not in good shape. Seeing him in cami and panties was not at all appealing. Now someone with a hard, well-toned body might affect me differently.

[newlynymphos]

Girlyboi, your avatar is hot! Being a bi bottom myself, I've always found feminine hairless men in female garb very hot! And I would top one if he was as hot as your avatar eludes to! Love your skin tone too! If we lived closer, would, at the very least love to hang out!

[CamStar94]

Considering it was essentially transexual porn which introduced me to my bi side I suppose I would say yes, but looking at it now it doesn't do much for me. I am more turned on by submissive ideas with other men, and more dominant ideas with other women lol

[hydropop]

You sir have it the nail on the head.....Well put in what you say. Wished more had your mind set.:-)

[silkyblue]

hard cock in panties does it for me

[donttellnehismy]

Big time turn on for me

[newlynymphos]

Sex, sexual desires, and turn ons are not black and white! People are people. We are all varied, even among small groups. I know I turn some people on, and turn others off, yet still others could care less. For the ones that are aroused by my fetishes and eccentric behaviors and fantasies, the sex is beyond awesome! Orgasms so big and strong I can't walk afterwards! Wish I could be fucked like that all the time!

[pantiedJamie]

To me it is a real turn on seeing a man how really likes wearing satin panties and lingerie as long as the enjoy wearing them.

[Oborokybiman]

I dont prefer men to dress in women's clothes.....but I do understand that it feels wonderful and do not judge anyone!

[BiPantylover]

Seeing a cock in panties drives me wild, I love it. I also love wearing panties and lingerie. Not real interested in full crossdressing but if the chemistry is there, it's ok with me. Having said that I also get into bi sex with a guy who isn't into lingerie. I guess I love bi sex with a man and if he wears lingerie great but he doesn't have to. I'm all for openness and doing what excites you and your partner. Being bi, women in lingerie are also a major turn on.

[LumpyR]

I wear panties part time. I don't think of myself as feminine, though. I just love the way they feel. It's the same with another guy whose cock and ass are encased in nylon. I just love the way they feel. I'm pretty sure sik boxers would do the same.

[donttellnehismy]

Total turn on i love wearing it and seeing guys in it

[dagasgramarye]

I always want my lover to feel comfortable with themselves, in whatever level of femininity that may be. I'm far more turned on by my partner feeling confident and sexy than by what they may or may not be wearing. Sometimes a little femininity is very erotic on a traditionally butch acting male.

[Lizardking]

Add me to the turn on column

[first time guy]

You have a lovely shiny pink butt. That's all that matters to me. It is very attractive.

[washlb58]

I look really hot in a pair of pantyhose and would love to share the experience with another man. I love the feel and look of my hard cock under the hose.

[jimdegriz]

I for one def don't share this opinion, in fact just looking at your photo is a turn on. I'm def bi and enjoy manly men and men that dress up and sexy women. When I am with a man that is dressed up I don't think of him as a woman substitute either, you only have to peel back the panties to be reminded of that. I've even dressed up myself a couple of times to please and wasn't convincing but he loved it and went wild, pinned me to the bed and fucked me hard. Who cares as long as you are enjoying yourself, keep it up ;-)

[bi4asplay]

I'm a Bi man and I am REALLY turned ON by men who wear womens clothing. I love the feel of a cock in a pair of satin panties. I love to run my tongue up the length of a mans thigh high clad legs. I also like to wear womens clothing myself, thoughI don't pass for a woman.

I agree that it is erotic to feel a cock through silky panties. Not into fem guys, but if they like to dress and they like to top I am good with that. Seeing a hairy legged guy dressed does not one thing for me. How ever as you can see in my pics I do get off on a chick with a nice big dick.

[Silver1]

I love to wear panties. I wear them daily. They are comfortable and sexy. I don't care for men wearing dresses or carry a purse or wear makeup. But I do love the undies. I don't mind a guy who wears panties. They're hot! It's a personal preference. Some people like it and some don't! I love men in panties!!!

[GirlyBoi4U]

And here another one that felt compelled to put their two-cents worth into my in-box rather than this forum. Pathetic? "...give all bisexual men and LGBT people a bad name." Really? Do you believe that mouthful of bullshit you typed? Wow...talk about attacking the likes of others. Well sir...or whatever you wish to be referred to as, opinions are like anuses...everyone has one...but some of them stink...really bad in this case, I might add!

Here's what Cazzo d’Oro (http://www.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?155867-Cazzo-d%92Oro) has to say;

Men putting on women's clothing and pretending what they think women act like which is a misogynistic caricature of a real woman=Che schifo! Men who are into this are pathetic and give all bisexual men and LGBT people a bad name.

BTW I am partnered to a bisexual man and yes we are both out and knew about each other before our relationship.

A penis with a foreskin is not "gross", "ugly", or "sick". What's gross, ugly, and sick is the way infant boys get
their dicks mutilated without their consent, and how nasty the penis becomes after that all dry and with a disgusting
scar, and it is involuntary genital mutilation.

A penis is supposed to have a foreskin and not be cut or mutilated. A penis that's intact with a foreskin is the way
a dick is supposed to be, look, and function. Having sex with a man that's cut is akin to having sex with a woman who
has had her genitals mutilated.

Thinking that a foreskin is "gross" or "ugly and sick" is akin to thinking that a woman's vagina that's intact and
not mutilated or surgically altered at all is "gross" or "ugly and sick". Women produce a lot more smegma than men
with a foreskin do. Genital mutilation of both women and men for hygiene or health reasons or the old "it's cleaner"
bullshit excuse is pointless. It's easy for both women and men to clean their intact genitals. There's such a thing
as taking a shower and washing with soap, and water.

I'm Italian and the majority of Italians, and Italian Americans do not mutilate the penises of their infant sons.

There's no need to medically at all, and the majority of the men in the world have kept their foreskin and have no
negative consequences because of it.

I am intact with a foreskin and I prefer men who are intact or who have a foreskin as well. There's a lot more you
can do with a man that has his foreskin sexually than you can with a man that has had his genital mutilated. Men who
are intact with their foreskins get more pleasure both sexually and while masturbating than men who are cut or
mutilated do. A foreskin makes vaginal and anal sex more pleasurable for women, and a lot of men and women love to
give oral sex to a man that is not cut, non-mutilated, and intact with a foreskin.

Circumcision or male genital mutilation does have negative consequences such as a mutilated penis, painful or not as
pleasurable vaginal or anal sex, a penis that's dry, impotence/erectile dysfunction later in life or early in life,
and an increased risk of health issues with the penis.

The majority of cut men I have met have told me that if they had the choice they would have kept their penis intact
and kept their foreskin instead of having their parents or some stupid doctor mutilate their penis, make it less
sensitive, and all that. Some even get into fucked up sex acts like docking where one man puts his foreskin over the
mutilated, dry cock head of the other man. Get over it your dick is mutilated and it was not your choice.

LMAO at you...the only thing in this long-winded, self-righteous attack of yours that related to the topic at hand was the first sentence. The rest was meaningless, pointless...fluff. Like anyone really gives a flying F**K about of your opinion regarding a circumcised penis.

Have a nice day.

[FunE1]

I've discovered that those who claim to speak for "99%" of ANY group are usually just speaking for themselves, but that doesn't answer your question, GirlyBoi.

I enjoy guys in women's underwear if the guy can pull it off. Mostly that requires a certain level of confidence and ability to adopt some feminine traits beyond simply pulling on a pair of panties. If it's just a really masculine acting guy wearing women's undies, well, that doesn't do a lot for me.

[RobinSpencer251]

I am not turned off at all by men who wear women's underwear or other clothing. Manly men turn me on, simpy wankers turn me on, shemales, femboys and cross dressers turn me on, emo twinks turn me on. It all depends on the individual. A lot of things turn me off, but it's hard to generalize in terms of how butch or fem a person is and things like that.

[DerrekCooke2]

It's a turn on for me.

[donttellnehismy]

Ignore the haters keep doing what you do.

[donttellnehismy]

Also LOVE your profile pic

[charles-smythe]

Perhaps it was a response to a recent post I had made, or just an unsolicited nasty gram...I don't know. But I received a message from a member here (I'll refrain from sharing their name). So I thought I'd open the topic publicly, just out or curiosity. I'd like to know what the general consensus is...at least here on Bisexual.

Here's the message,

"The fact that you're into putting on women's underwear and women's clothing is a MAJOR turn-off for 99% of bi and gay men. Even "men" who are femme or into putting on women's clothing don't want to get with other "men" who are into cross dressing and acting how they think real women act."

So, this is geared to all the Bi and/or Gay guys here...what is YOUR opinion of another Bi or Gay in panties or lingerie?

…just my opinion:…I don’t mind panties…I kinda like wearing them myself…BUT if I want fem I want a real girl…when I’m playing with guys I like a man…not a crotch shavinging metro-sexual or whatever thecall it now…give me a man with a manly bush & hair on his balls…

[friskyous]

I'm turned on by people who embrace whatever turns them on so while it might not be my thing, I find it very erotic that you do.

[cuttin2dachase]

To me, men in panties are a kinky variation from the standard, naked manplay that that many men enjoy doing. Panties on a playmate has no bearing on his masculinity, at least not to me. If it turns him on, it turns me on. I've worn panties with men a couple of times and it turned them on. It's kind of more fun when both he and I are both wearing them, but it will never become a fetish for me either way. Heck, it's hard enough meeting men who are available to get naked for manplay with me on a regular basis, much less men who enjoy manplay in panties LOL. But I could easily be FWBs with men who do have panty fetishes.

[charles-smythe]

To me, men in panties are a kinky variation from the standard, naked manplay that that many men enjoy doing. Panties on a playmate has no bearing on his masculinity, at least not to me. If it turns him on, it turns me on. I've worn panties with men a couple of times and it turned them on. It's kind of more fun when both he and I are both wearing them, but it will never become a fetish for me either way. Heck, it's hard enough meeting men who are available to get naked for manplay with me on a regular basis, much less men who enjoy manplay in panties LOL. But I could easily be FWBs with men who do have panty fetishes.
…when I was going to have company I was usually in gym shorts & t-shirt…it was surprising how many guys saw my panties & told me to leave them on (the panties not the guy shorts)…to some I guess getting blown by a guy in panties was hot…

[DerrekCooke2]

I think it's hot as long as the guy isn't hairy.

[first time guy]

I love men in lingerie and you have a lovely satin butt

[pole_smoker]

Major turn off for us.

[charles-smythe]

…turn ons are in the mind of the beholder…& vary with the situation…

[john441963]

Bi married man here. I enjoy seeing and wearing sexy things. Big turn on!

[naztypanty]

I love men in lingerie. Love wearing lingerie. Love the idea of a man feeling feminine and sexy in a garter-belt and thigh-high stockings. Put him in a teddy top or a frilly bra. Then a short skirt. A short skirt that is lifted up by me to find his toy. Or the skirt is lifted by his erection. And he positions himself for intercourse, either on his back or on his knees wearing his sexy outfit.

[Oztrich]

Men in women's clothing does nothing for me, but each to his own. I, personally, prefer an ordinary guy, naked and hard. I like sexually aggressive women.