Anyone else like having sex with men because of the attainablity and availabilty?

[LennyC]

I love women but they are so much more complicated to deal with, you have to seduce them and play a game, with guys it so much easier and less of a hassle, sex can be a purley enjoyable physical act and you don't have to worry about all of the drama.

[jem_is_bi]

It definitely works that way for me but, I am mostly gay. However, some women are more than worth the effort.

[tenni]

There is a saying.

Women need a reason to have sex while men just need a place.
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Men are a lot simpler/easier to have sex with but a bit more difficult to establish an on going friendship/relationship with imo.

Women seem to continue their game plan past 40 that is the same plan they used in their teens. Men tend to get frustrated and some seek out men because they are easier and less complicated.

[Top fucker]

So maybe u should seek out women who know what they want, like sex and having sex, and who don't want to date or have a LTR/marriage but just want a hot fling or casual NSA sex or sex with a fuck buddy? They're out there and a lot of women do like having sex with men who they're not dating or in a relationship with. Or if you do date a woman and it doesnt evolve into a relationship if thats what u both want u still can be FBs who get together and have sex every so often. Or are you married or in a LTR with a woman since your profile says you are a m/f couple? Any women want to post or offer advice to the original poster?

[LennyC]

I am single but I tend to be more picky with women than with men, maybe that is my problem.

[joavi]

I love women but they are so much more complicated to deal with, you have to seduce them and play a game, with guys it so much easier and less of a hassle, sex can be a purley enjoyable physical act and you don't have to worry about all of the drama.


You should hear how complicated this girl made it for me - we "met" online and spoke for 2 weeks on e-mails and haven't spoken on the phone or met yet......
Not that man are easy. Plus- they are pathetic in my country.

[Gearbox]

I love women but they are so much more complicated to deal with, you have to seduce them and play a game, with guys it so much easier and less of a hassle, sex can be a purley enjoyable physical act and you don't have to worry about all of the drama.
Seduction does have it's merits and it can make the eventual sex all that more enjoyable IMO. I find it very hard to seduce a bloke coz he's already up for sex before you say "Hello!". Where's the fun in that?:tongue:
I used to spend a lot of time plotting how to get my female dates 'in the mood' so I could tip her over the brink of resistance. During those times I'd wank myself silly fantasising about the big first time sex with them. The longer she made me wait, the more I appreciated the sex.

With men.....:rolleyes:...it's just a case of telling them your postcode for their satnav.lol Yes, that'll do when that's all you want. But I do miss the seduction bit.
And men can be just as 'drama' as any woman btw!

[playinmyholes]

I can't find even a desperate woman that will give me a 32,000th of a second. I won't go into what I've done to be appealing to them.

[Hypersexual11]

I've been married since I was a child and have seen many men behind her back. Never women though. Mainly because I don't need it, get plenty of whatever my heart desires at home. So men provide an easy, non-emotional variation.

[Top fucker]

I can't find even a desperate woman that will give me a 32,000th of a second. I won't go into what I've done to be appealing to them. What have you done to be appealing to women? Have you tried talking to them, and being friendly and nice?

[NjbiGuy01]

I've been married since I was a child and have seen many men behind her back. Never women though. Mainly because I don't need it, get plenty of whatever my heart desires at home. So men provide an easy, non-emotional variation.

I view it somewhat the same. I rarely search out and pursue women for exactly that reason. I'm very pleased with what I get at home, and many if not most women want an emotional attachment far greater than men seem to require. Maybe true gay partnerships reach the same level that hetero relationships do. In this world of bisexual men and with this kind of clandestine play, men are far more open to play with a simple friendship (sometimes even less...) while women want emotion.

In a perfect world, I truly enjoy sex with a man and a woman together more than sex with either party alone, but yes, M/M sex is certainly a totally different bag than M/W sex is...

[Bisexual Explorer]

No doubt about it, sex with men is a lot more straightforward than sex with women. As far as availability, finding a right man can be as challenging as finding the right woman. But then again, I'm not into glory holes.
BiSexual Explorer

[leodecatur]

I love women but they are so much more complicated to deal with, you have to seduce them and play a game, with guys it so much easier and less of a hassle, sex can be a purley enjoyable physical act and you don't have to worry about all of the drama.

I agree 100% with the above. Woman are just very complicated and emotional which takes much time and effort. Most times it just is not worth the effort.

[Ebonybifemme7]

Hell I'm a female and I'll admit it: Women are a lot tougher to establish a quick encounter with unless there is money involved. Men will just have sex and there is no strings attached. HOWEVER men fail to realize that women cant do what men can do. Women have pregnancy to worry about, STD's, etc. And too, most women are mothers so being mom is their first priority, whereas a man will make time for a quick sexual encounters. Men and women live in two different sexual worlds and we view sex differently.

[James1A1]

There have been times in my life (college, frat) when I would go to a club/party and feel that all the men there (except my buddies) were the competition. I would barey even acknowlege their presence. At times it was actually mutually hostile. I do not feel or act this way at all these days.

Girls on the other hand always let me have fun.