Guy wants to give me a Bj.

[Dust2004]

So as the title says..I was on this dating website to meet women and this guy hits me up and asks me if he can suck my dick. We started texting for a while and I actually thought about it but I just couldn't bring myself to go through with it. He keeps asking and I honestly feel bad for him he says he has never done it and is curious. I am not curious about it. Should I let him do it not? Just need some good advice about this. I have never had a guy ask me this..kinda weird..so any help would be great. Thanks.

[bijohnmpls]

A friend of mine told me that a blowjob is a blowjob, no matter where you get it from.. this is before he knew I was bi. One night we were hanging out having some beers and the subject came up again. He asked me if I would let a guy suck my cock. I told him yes and he told me that he heard guys give the best blow jobs since guys know what guys like. I asked him if he ever had a guy suck his cock.. he hesitated for a minute and told he had.. so he knew from experience. :-) I asked him if I could try sucking his cock.. we both loved it. Afterwards, he told me he wasn't gay, and I told him I wasn't either.. we were just helping each other out. We still meet up from time to time.

[Mr. Suck]

If you don't want to have sex with a man or don't want a man to suck your cock then just tell him no thanks. Your profile says you are in Palm Springs CA so you must get a lot of offers or be around a lot of gay men. I have hetero friends who are actually straight/hetero and not bisexual or gay men who claim that they are LOL "Straight" and they've told me how they used to post ads on Craigslist and other sites in the Men4Women section but stopped because they either got spam, fugly fat women replying to their ads when they specifically wrote something like "I want a woman that's Height/Weight proportional and not fat...", and because they got emails from tons of desperate gay men asking them if they wanted to have sex with them and at first they'd reply "GTFO I posted this in the Men4Women section for a reason" but eventually they got so many replies they just delete them if it's from a guy. They even have had replies from gay men who are pretending to be women but after a few emails back and forth they quickly realize they're not corresponding with a woman.

[Gearbox]

I am not curious about it.
So you give him your phone number......WHY?:rolleyes:

Come along now Dusty, you have a cock that likes the idea of being sucked.....a LOT! Him being a male is neither here nor there when it comes to that, as far as your cock is concerned physically. But it does add that extra kinky/naughty thrill mentally tho.;)
Nothing wrong with that! It's exciting! Meet up for a drink and afterwards explore that in private if you can overcome doubts and fears of it meaning anything more than you just wanting your cock sucked.

[CurEUs_Male]

I'd go as far as to say he probably HAS done this before. Guys like BJ's, and he probably figured out the angle that guys looking for dates are easily convinced to let him suck them off.

I'd be weary of what he brings to the encounter that you cannot see (STI). Beware.

On the other hand, did you come out to find a bisexual site simply because you were propositioned on a dating site? Or are there other reasons you came to this site? Perhaps you need to do a little soul searching yourself? That's all fine, welcome aboard. Be safe in your exploration.

[elian]

You said you are not curious yourself, so are you just looking to understand the motivation of why someone would approach you?

It could be another guy who is scared/questioning what it means to want to give a guy BJ, or as others say it could be someone very experienced who has a fetish for giving straight guys blowjobs..

You either like the idea or you don't - if you do decide to meet him follow online dating rules 101 and meet in a public place first for a cup of coffee or a meal - that way you can get a sense of whether the guy is stable or not. Of course, this is just a BJ so maybe he won't want to go through all that trouble and won't show up anyway..

If you aren't interested I also agree, just say "No thanks" and be done with it.

[sudsy_0550]

lucky you, sounds good to me

[Young pussy and dope]

Surely you're just trolling for the lolz. Some queens need the fantasy of having sex with LOL a real "straight" guy but it's just a pipe dream or unobtainable fantasy for them, and if a man has sex with other men even just getting sucked off he's either bisexual or gay.

[fredtyg]

lucky you, sounds good to me

Indeed. If I was in your shoes I might well take him up on it if he met my minimum qualifications for someone I'd want to hook up with.

As an aside, a year or so I got the idea of posting an ad in the Craigslist M4W section along that line and actually did it. I didn't post an actual proposition and can't remember what I titled the ad. I just suggested that many of the guys searching for sex from women might not mind a guy sucking them off and there were all kinds of guys offering NSA blow jobs in the M4M ads so they might want to try searching there.

Not sure if that did any good or not. Didn't see any noticeable increase in M4M of guys asking for head and didn't get any nasty e-mails telling me to stop posting such ads. I still think it would be a good place to look for studs, but also think it would be inappropriate to interject my guy4guy stuff in the m4w ads.

[Fr8tman]

I would let him it is an awesome feeling if he knows what he is doing. Also you may always wonder what it would be like if you dont. Best of luck!!!!!:2cents:

[Gumby12]

Well, I'm not gay and most of my experience with guys were forced situations. I guess you'd say I was forced to endure a males desire to suck a male penis. It happened 2 or 3 times or more. Once you let this guy do it you won't get rid of him easily. If you don't desire it and your morals are intact then don't do it. Why start now? Don't get me wrong, a hummer is a hummer and if you're not into it then what's the fun of it all. After all these years I've been curious to get back into it on my own terms. Good luck with your decision.

[stonebow]

So as the title says..I was on this dating website to meet women and this guy hits me up and asks me if he can suck my dick. We started texting for a while and I actually thought about it but I just couldn't bring myself to go through with it. He keeps asking and I honestly feel bad for him he says he has never done it and is curious. I am not curious about it. Should I let him do it not? Just need some good advice about this. I have never had a guy ask me this..kinda weird..so any help would be great. Thanks.

Not curious eh...who are you kidding? You already said you "thought about it". I think you are just looking for validation for pursuing this interest and what you really want to hear is, "It's OK, GETTING a bj from a guy doesn't make you gay." That's true by the way...it doesn't even make you bi. Prisons are full of straight guys who are willing to let other not-so-straight guys "scratch their itch" for them.

At the end of the day it's your call, but be aware that you both may enjoy it so much that it becomes a habit. If that happens, one of you, at least, is DEFINITELY bi.

[Mr. Suck]

Not curious eh...who are you kidding? You already said you "thought about it". I think you are just looking for validation for pursuing this interest and what you really want to hear is, "It's OK, GETTING a bj from a guy doesn't make you gay." That's true by the way...it doesn't even make you bi. Prisons are full of straight guys who are willing to let other not-so-straight guys "scratch their itch" for them. At the end of the day it's your call, but be aware that you both may enjoy it so much that it becomes a habit. If that happens, one of you, at least, is DEFINITELY bi. The original poster is not in a prison unless you'd consider a gay ghetto like Palm Springs to be a prison. LOL You''re right though it sounds as though he's bisexual but does not want to admit it or is seeking validation for it. In prisons what you described goes on but it's forced and non-consensual and often times both men or all the men involved are heterosexual but it has to do with power, control, and abuse. Outside prison walls if a man is actually heterosexual/straight he's not going to get sucked off by a man, have sex with a man, or seek out a male partner like the OP wants to and probably has before. Who actually believes the whole "I want to hook up and it's my first time!" BS?

[jazzs]

if you gotten to like the guy let him suck your cock and enjoy cuming in his mouth

[whispering]

You don't say how much you've chatted, or what you know about him. If you're really not interested, you would have said "no" right away, and it sounds to me you're looking for a way to make it ok, like feeling sorry for him. If you like him, then decide whether or not you believe this is his "first" and that he's clean. Then, if the answer is yes, meet him and see if you like letting him play with your dick. My guess is you will.... :tongue:

[Andre Alberts]

How could you not?