Why do so many gay and bisexual men like rimming? [Archive]

Mr. Suck

Apr 15, 2013, 10:31 PM

I am not sure why so many bisexual and even gay men, and probably a lot of hetero women and men too enjoy rimming or being rimmed? I have no desire to lick anyone's asshole and even if you do wash your ass with soap and hot water like you should while bathing it's never going to be "clean" like some people think or will claim. I got it done to me once by a man I dated, and it was disgusting to me. Yes I had taken a shower and wash with soap and hot water before our date, and the guy did have me shower after our date. Being rimmed is not something I ever wanted to ever experience again. The gross part was when after the man had rimmed me he wanted to make out with me or French kiss me immediately after his tongue had been down there. I am not against kissing men...but yeah I didn't want to do it immediately after he rimmed me. I did kiss him on the lips, and then after I shot my hot cum on his face I pissed, washed up, used some of his mouthwash, and left. I have a gay male friend who also finds rimming to be nasty and had it done one time to him out of 100s of male sex partners and he too found it nasty and never has done it. TL;DR: I find rimming to be disgusting are there any other bisexual men here who feel this way?

Tanzanite

Apr 15, 2013, 11:46 PM

"Why do so many gay and bisexual men like rimming?" Because it's kinky.

Mr. Suck

Apr 16, 2013, 12:04 AM

"Why do so many gay and bisexual men like rimming?" Because it's kinky. How is it kinky? I just find it disgusting and for bi and gay men rimming is considered standard vanilla sex and not a kink. I have done kink before like tying people up, whipping them with a belt or other instrument, spanking and paddling them, putting hot wax on their tits, having sex while I was dressed up in a uniform, and some other stuff that's not vanilla.

DOZERLA

Apr 16, 2013, 12:38 AM

Some guys like to eat ass for the same reason some men like to eat pussy: they are turned on by it. I know some guys who are turned on by eating a guy's ass, esp a hairy hole, while others couldn't fathom the idea to ever lick a dude's ass/hole. By the same token, while most men are turned on by eating a woman's pussy, I'm sure some str8/bi men are grossed out by the idea of doing it. I think one of the reasons that str8/bi/gay guys like to eat othe guys' asses is because it's a "forbidden" thing to do & one of the most intimate/vulnerable things you can do: allow another guy to eat your hole and/or eat another guy's hole, esp if they've never done/experienced it before. But I agree, either way, it's gotta be real clean down there - if not, it's a dealbreaker for me.

tenpoint

Apr 16, 2013, 1:29 AM

When I'm turned on and I know a man wants anal I will start rimming him until I get his ass good and wet and then he is more than ready for me to enter him.

BiPaoulo69

Apr 16, 2013, 2:42 PM

I love being rimmed. That area is very sensitive with lots of nerve endings and that's what makes ir pleasurable.
When a guy gives me a good rimming i get super aroused in anticipation and makes more than willing to take him.

murano2641

Apr 16, 2013, 3:02 PM

Simple answer...it feels good. It's not for everyone obviously but for those of us that like it why question it?

Realist

Apr 16, 2013, 3:38 PM

sterculius

Apr 16, 2013, 4:00 PM

I also don't relate to this practice.

Gearbox

Apr 16, 2013, 5:14 PM

I absolutely LOVE rimming a nice clean arse! Don't like it done to me though.
I have a rimbud that only wants to be rimmed, and that's all it takes too. He loves the feel of my tongue, but I'm sure the reason why he likes it so much is because he thinks it's disgusting.;)
That's what he moans when I rim him, "Ohh that's disgusting!.....do it slower!" etc, before he cums buckets and buggers off.lol

YES before I tried it, I thought it was disgusting etc. But it's not much different from going down on a vagina, and there's no difference in the pleasure it can give both.
It might be nasty! But nasty is fekin awesome!:tongue:

Indyguy

Apr 16, 2013, 5:29 PM

From the perspective of pleasing my partner, it turns me on to see them squirm around with pleasure, have had many women that love it too. Yes it is not for everyone, but if it feels good to the one you are doing it to, then share the pleasure with them. Myself I like it either way.

chook

Apr 16, 2013, 5:41 PM

To each their own I say.......But not for me, every time I think of rimming I think of someone licking around a toilet bowl......but hey!! thats me :rolleyes:

Cheers Chook :yikes2:

Gearbox

Apr 16, 2013, 5:58 PM

Um....I think I should point out that before rimming goes on, the rimee has douched and showered beforehand. So it's not exactly scat play.:rolleyes:

Beta31

Apr 16, 2013, 7:21 PM

I am pretty open sexually, but this one thing I won't do. Just knowing what comes out of there is enough for me to not want to put my tongue anywhere near it.

Young pussy and dope

Apr 16, 2013, 10:43 PM

I am not sure either OP? When I am with a man I want them to suck my dick and if they are a partner I will suck them or fuck them in the ass. Rimming a man is not something I am interested in sexually at all, and the same goes for being rimmed. When I am with a woman I want to eat her pussy and I've never rimmed a woman or man and I do not want to.

joshua280964

Apr 17, 2013, 6:06 AM

The dirtier the better for me.I love a nice dirty ass.Especially my wifes or my twink boyfriend.

Young pussy and dope

Apr 18, 2013, 1:47 AM

The dirtier the better for me.I love a nice dirty ass.Especially my wifes or my twink boyfriend. OK I am afraid to ask but how did you get into that? Don't your wife and the twink get grossed out by it? This is why I will not rim anyone since despite what people claim about washing and putting water up someone's ass you are still going to ingest fecal matter and that's just nasty. I have met men online who claimed they were into scat or sex with shit, and they were all into rimming and said how most people who are into rimming eventually get into scat.

Rob1863

Apr 18, 2013, 3:55 AM

I love rimming women but have never rimmed another guy but wouldn't rule it out, every gay guy that I have been with has always licked my ass and I must say I love it, gets my very horny. Each to their own I suppose but it plays a big part in my lovemaking whether it with a girl or a guy it's very erotic and the sensation of giving and receiving equally sexy.

joshua280964

Apr 18, 2013, 6:04 AM

I got into it with my first bf who just wanted to have a shit when I was sucking his cock many years ago.He just let me lick him out and then did the same to me.My wife loves to do the same and also my bf at present.They both love it and can't wait for the next time.Fuck I've just cum in my pants at the thought.

rodman2005

Apr 18, 2013, 2:56 PM

I personally love to have my ass eaten, only too rare. I licked my boyfriend's hole once and he said we did more than when he was in a relationship with his ex. I prefer sucking cock and being sucked though. Love watching guy's suck guys, licking and slurping their dicks and balls and enjoying men. So why do guys like rimming, you asked? Because it is sexual! and it feels good! and it pleases some people to rim or be rimmed.

good93

Apr 18, 2013, 5:50 PM

I enjoy rimming. It's just my personal liking but I would rather be eaten out then having my dick sucked.

michael6686

Apr 18, 2013, 9:08 PM

I guess because it is fun! I have always enjoyed and loved tongue-fucking my girlfriends' asses. I have only had a few experiences of being rimmed, but I love it. My last girlfriend didn't do it enough. I also started shaving my asshole to make it easier. Shaving there is dangerous, but I think that's half the fun!

Dog62

Apr 18, 2013, 11:14 PM

Why do so many gay and bisexual men like rimming?
I'm still trying to figure out how this is a bisexual and/or gay thing. I realize you add everyone else later in your post, but why did it even start as a bi/gay thing. When this idea hit you you thought "oh certainly straight people would never be that disgusting" or what?

bi4asplay

Apr 19, 2013, 10:45 AM

It does get me very hot and ready to take a cock with less effort. I will not rim a man. A lady yes. I know women that like doing it and getting it.

Young pussy and dope

May 10, 2013, 2:06 AM

I'm not sure either? I also don't want to do it to anyone a woman or a man. If I'm with a woman I want to eat her pussy and fuck her, and if I am with a man I want him to suck my dick and sometimes I'll suck him.

bikiniman

May 10, 2013, 6:06 AM

Your anus is an erogenous zone. As a guy or bisexual man you are more likely to discover this than a hetro sexual man. If you like oral sex then extending this to include rimming does not seem like a big step to me. I love rimming my wife.

joavi

Dec 21, 2013, 9:13 AM

hi guys im new here and while searching google i got to this forum,
i must say i do love getting a hot tongue inside my asshole,
but i do hate to give it to anyone else, especially since no one ever cleaned himself like i do, for over 25minutes....
and men have told me in the past that i do clean myself really well.
unfortunately not a lot of men do want to rim, because they say excuses like "im top so u rim me"
or "i dont like it" or "i only rim hairy ass"

streetwaves

Mar 13, 2014, 5:26 PM

I like being rimmed because it feels great. I like rimming, men and women, because it's a huge turn-on and it makes them feel good. Do I want to get shit on or engage in scat play---no. That doesn't do a thing for me. But rimming a hot, hairy hole is an absolute turn-on. It comes down to want turns you on---what gets you excited. I'm sure there are things that you dig that would turn me off. Same thing when it comes to hairy vs. smooth. I like a hairy man and a shaved guy doesn't do it for me. It also turns me off when a man refers to his asshole as a pussy. I don't like, want or need a man to feminize himself.

newlynymphos

Mar 13, 2014, 6:27 PM

I quite enjoy being rimmed! Feels really good! Been rimmed by both men and women (including my wife :) ). I will only rim women though (to watch even anal virgins squirm and cumm is amazing!).

Fzmr9t

Mar 13, 2014, 7:22 PM

I've only rimmed one guy that I can recall, and it was ok. I have rimmed my female partners though, and I think, to me, it's just an extension of giving myself up to pleasuring them as much as I can orally. I not only make love to their genitalia, but also to every part of them that's opened up to me. Their feet, legs, behind their knees, neck, the bend in their elbows, their buttocks. As long as they're enjoying the moment, I'm enjoying giving pleasure to them.

marine20

Mar 14, 2014, 1:04 PM

I love being rimmed ,and I love rimming. to me , it's the dirtiest thing you can do to show your love or passion . when you do this , your lover pretty much knows there aren't many limitations. I have done it to men and women. if it's a man , he better be something special .

Ridgid 6.5

Mar 15, 2014, 12:14 AM

So would your choice be female dingle berries or male dingle berries? Anyone here have any personal experience with this taste test? I expect girlie berries would taste all together different having been steeped in pussy aroma. But the guy berries would have the added benefit of being in the neighborhood of all that ball sweat.

JackTexas94

Mar 15, 2014, 10:01 AM

I've done it only with one guy but I can certainly take it or leave it. No desire at all to have it performed on me.

Cum1st

Mar 15, 2014, 12:46 PM

There are limits to what a person can dosexually. A straight man doesn't get to suck a cock. A gay man doesn't get to experience any of what a woman has or can do. Lets face it a man doesn't have real tits. A dildo, even a strapon, isn't a live cock. That doesn't make it bad, but a live cock up my assis much to be preferred over the substitute I made for my lathe to stroke.

Being bi more or less doubles the possibilities, but there are still limits to what pleasures a body can supply. We all have limits as to what we'll do and probably don't consider things beyond to be sexual.

I don't like to kiss a man, but I'll stick my tongue as far up his ass as i can while sucking on his asshole, and hope for some piss from his cock if he is up for it. If I can just get by what bothers me about makingout with a man I think I could get enjoy it. That would certainly add to my enjoyment of sex.

goodtimr

Mar 15, 2014, 3:21 PM

If you are 69ing with your partner and you are the bottom it is a subtle notice that soon you will be getting lubed up, to relax, open up that you are going to have sexual intercourse and hopefully a good prostate orgasm followed by a huge load.That is why so many like rimming.

funnysmartbi

Mar 15, 2014, 3:28 PM

no I love it you gotta be adventurous in bed
I am not sure why so many bisexual and even gay men, and probably a lot of hetero women and men too enjoy rimming or being rimmed? I have no desire to lick anyone's asshole and even if you do wash your ass with soap and hot water like you should while bathing it's never going to be "clean" like some people think or will claim. I got it done to me once by a man I dated, and it was disgusting to me. Yes I had taken a shower and wash with soap and hot water before our date, and the guy did have me shower after our date. Being rimmed is not something I ever wanted to ever experience again. The gross part was when after the man had rimmed me he wanted to make out with me or French kiss me immediately after his tongue had been down there. I am not against kissing men...but yeah I didn't want to do it immediately after he rimmed me. I did kiss him on the lips, and then after I shot my hot cum on his face I pissed, washed up, used some of his mouthwash, and left. I have a gay male friend who also finds rimming to be nasty and had it done one time to him out of 100s of male sex partners and he too found it nasty and never has done it. TL;DR: I find rimming to be disgusting are there any other bisexual men here who feel this way?

funnysmartbi

Mar 15, 2014, 3:29 PM

I strongly agree

goodtimr

Mar 15, 2014, 6:45 PM

Because they know that they are getting prepped for some good old butt action and hopefully a good prostate orgasm.Oops I almost forgot to add a satisfied partner who buried seed in their ass.I think that is reason enough.

Biboz49

Mar 16, 2014, 6:09 PM

I'm 72, been bi since my earliest memory, but have only known one guy who liked to rim his lovers. After he begged me to allow him to rim me, I relented, only after showering and ensuring I was as clean as possible.

I've never known one lady who wanted to, or have it done to her. To tell you the truth, it turns me off, but I can accept others wanting to.

I dated a woman who enjoyed rimming me...it was her idea. It was my first time and after that I was hooked. I in turn rimmed her and many others since. I love it! With good hygene it's never a problem for me, instead it's very enjoyable giving and receiving. I prefer to rim someone who doesn't have any hair there.

ErosUrge

Mar 17, 2014, 6:45 AM

Because it feels so amazingly good...if I'm having it done to me, I can easily orgasm while masturbating and the orgasm is ecstatic...it also gets me relaxed and very interested in getting fucked...in fact, it sometimes makes me feel like I've just got to have a cock inside me...
I also enjoy giving it and especially to my girlfriend...she is new to this. At this point she is not willing to return the favor. But I don't take issue with it at all and there is no pressure...
Of course, absolute cleanliness is required...I am always sure to clean myself thoroughly both inside and out....a douche/enema is important to get things squeaky clean along with multiple washings with soap inside and out...once that's done, is absolute pleasure and bliss time.

As for it being limited to only gay and bisexual men, that's an assumption...the very first time I was rimmed was by a most beautiful girlfriend some 23 years ago...she was and still is straight...many hetereosexual people participate in the practice.

aLABiM75 & StrF51

Mar 18, 2014, 2:17 AM

Simple:

It feels extraordinarily good to receive it, so a person wanting to give pleasure will reciprocate in turn.

lizard-lix

Mar 18, 2014, 8:54 AM

I've always liked either giving or getting it.. Nothing like the sound someone who enjoys it makes when you do, music to my ears. Maybe I am just dirty, but it feels sooooo good...

Realist

Mar 18, 2014, 9:40 AM

I had a FWB who loved doing it to me. I'd scrub myself until I was pink, before he arrived, but never did warm up to it. And, I certainly had no intentions of returning the favor.

If one likes dildos, fingers, and cocks, that's OK, back there...but as far as I'm concerned, nothing of mine, with taste buds, is going anywhere near that area!