Buddy just likes to suck

[lovetocamp]

I have a buddy of mine and all he wants to do is suck my dick and swallow my load; I let him. But, he does not want anything in return. Doesn't that seem weird. I am not complaining but if i were to perform oral on someone, I would hope to get it in return.
I have asked him, and he just replies, " I love the feeling of your dick in my mouth and the feeling of me releasing"

What is up?

[fredtyg]

Some guys are just like that. I see all kinds of guys advertising on Craigslist that just want to suck cock with "no reciprocation necessary or expected".

Not sure how old your friend is but it could also be he's one of those Viagra guys that has a hard time getting it up sometimes. That might scare a lot of guys off from the idea of reciprocation.

[Bisexual Explorer]

If it works for your buddy and it works for you, just lay back and enjoy it. He seems to be enjoying himself.

Bisexual Explorer

[lost1]

I'm basically the same way, i get more pleasure and enjoyment out of it y idk lol

[lovetocamp]

OK, honestly, I have never sucked a dick, or had cum in my mouth. Basically I am a virgin when it comes to sex with guys. I have had many heterosexual encounters, and like them.
Truthfully be told, I received my first blow job (from a guy) from my buddy this summer. He asked me and I thought he was joking. So be told we were driving to a home improvement store (I was helping him with home improvements) and he mentioned it again, I still did not believe him. I thought I was being smart, and I said back, "If you are serious about it, grab me". Here I am thinking that was it, and he reached down, grabbed on to my cock, and played with it, while i was driving! Of course it felt good, but it caught me by surprise. I then said, " I guess you are serious".
We ended up back at his place, his wife gone, finished the home improvement project, I was getting ready to leave, and he said, "How about that blowjob I offered you"? Now we have been friends for 30+ years and this is the first he talked like this to me. In a way I didn't want to let him, but I love getting sucked off. So, I said, if you pull it out of my pants, go ahead and suck it. And he did. And now he does that to me pretty often.
Are there many married guys who do this? Or is this an unusual situation?
So back to the point I was going to ask, is there a feeling of a cock in the mouth? What does dick taste like, what does sperm taste like, does the dick pulsing as it is cums sorta weird. I admit now, I am curious, and I am 41.

[ErosUrge]

I can understand your frustration if it is that. And has already been pointed out, some guys only want to give. It is true that certain guys post " no reciprocation necessary, etc. " I sometimes do that myself but it doesn't mean that I would turn it away if offered. I love receiving too. I think that when guys offer to only give and not receive, they get a thrill just from giving. I know I can't give without release at some point. So sometimes when I'm giving and the one receiving isn't interested in reciprocating, I enjoy the pleasure of masturbating as I'm giving and cum at the same time they do....that in itself for me is very satisfying. However, if someone was there at the same time and wanted to give while I was giving, I would be very willing to oblige. And this too has happened....

[lost1]

The couple of guys that i sucked off both tasted different, pends on the diet mostly, alot of fruit will make ur cum taste sweeter, meat will do the opposite, i love how the head swells and pulsates before the guy explodes

[Gearbox]

Get on him in a 69 pos, and get his cock out as he sucks yours.

[DiamondDog]

Is this the same guy you wrote about in another topic who is a major tease, or is this another guy? If you're having a guy suck you off and/or masturbate you you're not a virgin to men or inexperienced. There are some men who like to get oral sex and don't give it, and some men who only want to give it and do not want to get it at all. Sometimes it's like that for a man, and other men are more versatile for oral sex and like to suck each other or 69 at once. Also not all bisexual and gay men are into swallowing. Many of us find it gross, have no desire to do it, or want to have safer sex.

[tenncuriousforfun]

Well if he won't I will bend over and let your slide your cock in my ass. :-P

I have a buddy of mine and all he wants to do is suck my dick and swallow my load; I let him. But, he does not want anything in return. Doesn't that seem weird. I am not complaining but if i were to perform oral on someone, I would hope to get it in return.
I have asked him, and he just replies, " I love the feeling of your dick in my mouth and the feeling of me releasing"

What is up?

[mnTIMIDguy]

If you are curious enough to try sucking a cock, but afraid to try it bare, an option is to give head with the guy wearing a condom. Most don't like to do this, but they make flavored condoms for this very purpose. It takes longer to get a guy to cum that way, but it can be done. And you'll feel his load travel the length of his urethra if your tongue is pressed on it while he's cumming. If you like that enough, then you may move on to giving head "bareback" another time.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Whew! Hot stuff, Gentlemen..:} Would you like a Lady's perspective on cock sucking sometime? Or Mine even? lol
Silly cock loving Cat

[Realist]

lovetocamp, each of us are different.

I've had two lovers (both gay, incidentally) who were the same as your friend; they got their needs met by giving with no reciprocation. Personally, I felt that half of our relationship was missing, but accepted their desires and tried to enjoy the ride.

Historically, bisexual lovers who enjoy giving as well as receiving have been the most fulfilling for me, though.

[cbj4162]

i understand loving the feeling of sucking a dick and swallowing a load, it is wonderful!!. and i also agree that a mutual thing is the best .... i can however, envision a time when i am so horny to suck dick that i wd suck my bud off and he wouldn't have to do me if he didn't want to but .... only as once in a while thing, not all the time .... i just love having a hot, sexy blowjob session with another guy who loves it as well..... :D :D

[ErosUrge]

Whew! Hot stuff, Gentlemen..:} Would you like a Lady's perspective on cock sucking sometime? Or Mine even? lol
Silly cock loving Cat

By all means, please do! I always love to get a woman's perspective on sucking...enjoy it even more when I can share at the same time. :tongue:

[Waylon]

Looking forward to Cat's input but meanwhile, I tend to enjoy giving head to a man more so than getting head from a man; for that I prefer a woman. Guys do have a knack, especially going deep and that is fun every now and then, especially if he is muscular with long hair (like me, lol.) The pleasure I get from giving good head encompasses the full spectrum, from the initial feeling of a nice hard warm cock between my lips and hitting the back of my throat to the happy ending when the pace picks up, the hips start thrusting, the sounds of pleasure and the warm, silky release of the load swirling around in my mouth, yumm.

[12voltman59]

If you go around and check the "personals" at sites like Squirt.org and others for gay/bi males---it is pretty common to see guys say that "I just love to suck cock but don't expect or need you to reciprocate." I have to admit--that I too wonder about that---but I guess its a matter of "to each his own."

Well--when it comes to doing something like sucking cock---you can read scores of descriptions about it for years---and that can be very accurate, descriptive and hot---but until you do it for real---it is something that does have to be experienced to really appreciate it.

Hey Cat--I say to feel free to share your experiences with us performing fellatio! I hope that others feel the same way as well.

[SuckerMC]

I am like the OP's buddy. I still have not sucked my first cock but already know that I do not care to be on the receiving end.

[1972chaos]

I’ve found that many guys who would be interested in reciprocating suddenly loose the urge to suck after they cum. I used to be that way as well, so when I went looking for a few loads I’d avoid orgasming until I got enough to satisfy my needs. Sometimes I’d find someone who didn’t want me to Stop them and they ended up with my load first. That’s when I became the guy who couldn’t follow up. So I spent some time working on it. I also learned to get off by masterbation so often that when I got a dud off and he then lost interest I could manage on my own. One of the first guys who would cum in my mouth when I was 14 or so (he was 14 also) likes to suck before he came, but absolutely did not like me to cum in his mouth. So I got used to sucking and finishing in my hand.

[atxbi]

I’m one of those that just likes to give without recip. I just love playing with a nice hard cock, and the pleasure I receive from feeling that cock unload in my mouth is enough to make me look for the next one suck!

[julyguybill]

I really enjoy sucking guys to completion if a guy want to recip.i like it, if not its fine. when I can I want to give multiple blow jobs. there are times that I have cum while giving head that I came without being touched it is such an intense feeling. I also know I am not alone in this this is why some guys do not care about being sucked. I guess you can say I am a true cocksucker because this is how I am.

[MorThan7]

I love to suck but am sometimes apprehensive about receiving because I have a hard time cuming from oral. I get nice and hard and there is lots of precum but it is rare for me to cum. When that happens the guy or girl thinks they aren't pleasing me. To avoid this situation it is better just to pass.

[mpine86]

To each his own, as they say. I can personally understand where your buddy is coming from as I’m much the same way when it comes to playing with guys. I enjoy the act of giving oral and that is enough for me. It turns me on so much I find that it’s most enjoyable to suck and play with myself.

[mpine86]

To answer your questions, from my experience having a penis in your mouth is pretty amazing. I found that even smaller ones feel a lot bigger than they seem. I personally love the smell of dick and balls, so for me that really adds to the experience. As far as taste, it’s hard to describe. I want to say that a dick has its own unique taste, but it’s hard to put into words. The texture of the head and feeling it go from soft to hard is awesome, and bringing a guy to orgasm is something special I think. I’ve only sucked 3 dicks, including mine, and from my experience cum is very yummy. I had an experience recently where I sucked an older guy’s penis and his cum was very yummy. Salty but also very sweet tasting for some reason. It was really hot because he actually got there fairly quickly and asked me to back off a little but it was too late. I took his dick out of my mouth and he started oozing cum. I just licked it all up... very yummy. I then got him to cum again, this time in my mouth and it was awesome to feel him pulsating in my mouth while I swallowed every drop. Yummy!! His dick went soft again and I suckled while jerking myself off.

[DareMe]

I have come across some littérature of guys who seriously get off on sucking or giving other guys hand jobs.
No need to reciprocate.
as long as the experience is positive, who am i argue!

[SuckerMC]

The way you discribe everything mpine86 is exactly how I imagine the experience. From how you say that even a small cock feels bigger in the mouth than they really are to the taste and smell being unique to the cock. But the texture and feel of the head growing in your mouth. The thought of it is mouth watering. The pulsating of the cock shooting cum in your mouth and down your throat just sounds and feels amazing.

And why is so hot to lick and suck cum off the waistline and pelvic region? :drool:

[SuckerMC]

Don't question or argue DareMe, just pull down your sweats. :cowboy:

[mpine86]

Sucker MC, have you ever? It really is one of the most amazing things, I think, to give a man a great blowjob. For me it’s interesting because I am very type A typically, but I really get off on letting my guard down and sucking on some sweet guy’s dick, giving him pleasure almost like a gf or wife would. Very strange, but it is what it is lol

[SuckerMC]

No I have not. I am very much so like you. Very A typical but feel for the cock I would let my guard down. It is strange but that is what I feel.

[SlowNEZ]

I must say, you guys have really turned-up my desire to be at the receiving end of an erecting, then cumming, cock. I plan to savor every aspect of the interaction and experience.

[Asspussy302]

I don’t think it’s weird, some people get off on pleasing others, or just sucking dick. It’s a huge turn on when i do it.

[Oral Bottom]

I love to suck cock and enjoy getting mine sucked but if a guy really wants to please me, he'll shoot a hot load of cum into my butt.

[Tnstr8sucker]

It's not weird. I'm the same way. I actually get mine sucked all the time at home, so my main desire is to suck others. I don't refuse recip, but don't look for it. I have a wide interest in guys, and my interest in receiving changes depending on the guy.

I like to receive from young guys. I get off on thinking they are sucking a guy that could almost be their dad's age.

Its the opposite for older guys.

Older and bigger guys, I just want to service them. I don't want anything in return. I get off on then being "straight" and just using me as a mouth to cum in instead of begging their wives.

As soon as an older guy expresses interest in sucking me also, I lose interest.

[NjbiGuy01]

It's no different than guys who found it surprising I didn't like to kiss (I've since learned to like it), but I liked to suck dick and deep throat and swallow....I do like to suck, but certainly like to get sucked-off as well. I get mad when I suck a dude off who claimed he was into "mutual" and then says "I'm not in the mood today"...I wanted to throw him out the window after sucking him to completion and he pulled that shit.

[bw299]

I like to give rather than receive. The main reason is that I don't cum very easy from oral. The other is that I would rather please than be pleased.

[Asspussy302]

It’s a big turn on for me to just suck a guy off with nothing in return. I’ve also met plenty of guys that are into that

[happymex]

I love sucking cock and getting nothing in return. Just the feel of his cock ejaculating is enough for me.

[justforfunct]

I love sucking cock and swallowing cum but if he want to do me I'm ok with that too. 69 is always fun.

[fredward]

When I started out down the bi-path, it was mostly about receiving BJs for me. Being the curious type, I asked the other guy, sometimes, "what's in this for you? I mean, I get a great orgasm out of the deal, but you don't". They would usually say, "Oh you just have no idea how much I love pleasuring guys". So I take that at face value. Still seems like I'm getting the good end of the deal.