View Full Version : How do you respond to physically attractive ppl?
blugirl789
Aug 24, 2012, 7:05 PM
i'm curious to hear how ppl react to physically attractive men or women.
does being around beautiful ppl make you squirm?
do you resent pretty ppl?
are you drawn to someone you find physically attractive?
or are they intimidating and you stay away?
if you're attached, will you be friends with an attractive person?
do you think they have it easier, or harder in life?
this is just something i think about from time to time.
Realist
Aug 24, 2012, 8:42 PM
You: does being around beautiful ppl make you squirm?
ME: When I was young, I would sometimes get nervous in the presence of exceptional beauty......... but now, I can appreciate their looks without my heart rate increasing much.
YOU: do you resent pretty ppl?
ME: No.....but, I don't idolize them because of their good looks. There has to be some substance to them before I begin to like them.
YOU: are you drawn to someone you find physically attractive?
ME: On a superficial level, certainly I am drawn to a beautiful person. But, as I said above, there has to be more than beauty before I'm truly attracted to someone.
YOU: or are they intimidating and you stay away?
ME: No, I learned long ago that many beautiful people are just as lonely (maybe even more so) and interested in meeting others, too
YOU: if you're attached, will you be friends with an attractive person?
ME: Sure, why not?
YOU: do you think they have it easier, or harder in life?
ME: I have no doubt that beauty opens doors for some people. Some will capitalize on that asset, too. But, in the end, beautiful people have to be as talented and productive as anyone else. There are exceptions, of course, to everything!
darkeyes
Aug 24, 2012, 9:21 PM
does being around beautiful ppl make you squirm? - nope
do you resent pretty ppl? - only if they have the same outift on as me or as once happened somehow had on an outift i wanted but couldnt get...
are you drawn to someone you find physically attractive? - daft question, blu *laffs*..of course...
or are they intimidating and you stay away? -no.. not since I was a teenager
if you're attached, will you be friends with an attractive person? -yes.. if I like her or him.. she isnt that insecure.
do you think they have it easier, or harder in life? -than what? me.. maybe.. maybe not.. less attractive people.. same answer
falcondfw
Aug 24, 2012, 9:54 PM
1. does being around beautiful ppl make you squirm? - Nope. Not a bit. Makes me horny. lol.
2. do you resent pretty ppl? - That depends on them and their attitude. If they think the world owes them everything because they are beautiful, then yes, I resent the hell out of them. If they are open and honest and good people, of course not.
3. are you drawn to someone you find physically attractive? - Oh hell yes. Initially. But it is who they are inside that will make me stay and want to be friends with them.
4. or are they intimidating and you stay away? - again, it depends on their attitude, not their looks.
5. if you're attached, will you be friends with an attractive person? - yes, if they are a good person
6. do you think they have it easier, or harder in life? - Never really thought about it, but i have read articles about studies that were done that suggest they have it easier.
Oh, and in answer to the original question - "How do you respond to physically attractive ppl?", the answer is - usually? with a hard on. lol
Gearbox
Aug 24, 2012, 10:00 PM
I don't hide my sexual interest well, so yes being around attractive people can make me squirm, IF not appropriate.
I don't resent anybody for their looks.
Drawn to them physically, but not necasarily personaly.
I'll move away if I becomr inaprpriately fixated sexually.
Yes I'd befriend them IF both could keep it friendly.
Attractive people stilll get crap same as any.
DuckiesDarling
Aug 24, 2012, 10:43 PM
1. Does being around beautiful ppl make you squirm? - Nope why would it?
2. Do you resent pretty ppl? - Nope.
3. Are you drawn to someone you find physically attractive? -Depends, something makes me notice people it goes from there.
4. Are they intimidating and you stay away? - Not really intimidated by anyone
5. if you're attached, will you be friends with an attractive person? - what does being attractive have to do with the value of friend/enemies?
6. do you think they have it easier, or harder in life? - Think we are all just trying to survive, harder is relative to each of us.
littlerayofsunshine
Aug 24, 2012, 11:04 PM
1. Does being around beautiful ppl make you squirm? - Only if they farted or started puking or something.
2. Do you resent pretty ppl? - Nope
3. Are you drawn to someone you find physically attractive? -Not really. I'm not shallow..
4. Are they intimidating and you stay away? Nope
5. if you're attached, will you be friends with an attractive person? um... why wouldn't I?
6. do you think they have it easier, or harder in life? Life pretty much sucks on some level for everyone. I'm pretty and life has been biting my ass.
blugirl789
Aug 25, 2012, 11:14 AM
that's awesome everybody. when i'm around someone i'm attracted to, i become a notorious klutz. just last night i was watching my crush perform (he's a singer in a rock band), and tripped right in front of him. not just a little trip. i fell completely over! all i could do was laugh at myself and shake my head. so embarrassing! lol. yeah. i'm smooth.