How to play safe?

[MMYeats]

Hi, we are a male/female couple with a few bisexual experiences for each of us and are looking to play some more together. Been reading the threads here and trying to figure out what the "rules" are for safety and maximizing everyone's experience. Anyone who is experienced in threesome or more it would be awesome for both me and Marly if you could post your guidelines. So far I only have to make sure everyone is on the same "page" in that it is sex and sex only and everyone should be tested and found disease free.

So any input, guys and gals?

Mark and Marly

[Long Duck Dong]

MMyeats.... here is a generic list that you can use as a reference list, so that you can create your own custom list for your relationship.....

1) disease free is wanted, but safer sex is important..... a neg test is only as good as when the test was taken....

2) have a safe place to meet at first, it can be easier to meet in a open, social location for coffee to see if there is a connection, rather than the first meet being in your own home or theirs....

3) you each make it clear what you are interested in and what you will NOT consider doing.... IE if you and your partner are not into anal sex recieving, but you like to give it, make it clear to the other couple that they are the terms, you both are not into recieving but you are open to giving anal if the other parties are interested

4) your relationship and partner come first, that means that a meet and greet is not a quarantee of anything, its simply a meet and greet.....

5) yes or no to solo hookups with other people and the terms of agreement, IE are you allowed to meet people for a encounter without your partner or not...

6) each person has the right to pull the plug on their involvement.... and that requires you both to talk about what happens if that happens and the other partner is not interested in stopping......

7) level of contact and communication needs to be perfectly clear.... are you open to causal ongoing friendships with the right people or is it purely sex only, no other contact

8) treat every encounter as a new experience, its too easy to say sex is sex and thats it, but find that you both are drawn to a couple as more than just sex partners, you have a interest in a on going friendship

9) rules are made to be renegotiated and compromised, set them in stone and you will run into trouble, you need leeway to tweak the rules to allow for unforeseen issues such as a emotional / mental reaction to people, and your own relationship hiccups and issues......

10) sex is a privilege, not a obligation, for everybody involved

11) shit happens, you need a plan to deal with things that do not go as planned

you can go right into details of who cums on and in who and how etc etc..... but that comes more down to a personal aspect and that is getting a lil too rigid.....
there was a thread once in the site when the male was unhappy how the other guy came in his wife, as the rules stated that cumming was only permitted when it was the guy that being fucked or was sucking the other guy off..... and that is what rule 11 refers too......

last but not least, you both need to agree to your own rules... then share them with the other couples.....and bear in mind, you can not control everything, the human mind and heart have a way of keeping people on their toes....

[cornholejoe]

just make sure ever one is aware what we are gonna do

[hornycpl10]

I am married but very interested in sucking my first dick, I fantasize about it alot and would like to actually have the experience. My conundrum is who, what, where with keeping safety in mind. Any suggestions? I have asked my wife if she would be interested in a threesome and that mmf or mfm is equally exciting to me, her choice but no luck yet.

Also, I have found the advice and comments posted here have been sound, so I am reaching out in hopes of direction.

Thanks!