Bisexual double standard in porn

[brians6]

When it comes to same-sex activity, have you noticed that almost all porn that contains both men and women allows only the women to interact sexually with each other? The men are not allowed to interact sexually with each other.

Why do women take part in such discriminatory depictions? I suppose the money these women are paid is all they really care about. These women don't seem to care about the harmful message they are sending out.

[The Bisexual Virgin]

You also might need to ask yourself, whenever a girl does a bisexual mmf scene she's on the side line looking,while two gays are clearly into themselves fucking each other, and leaving the girl out.And the gay and bi men love too see the girl get neglected because she have a pussy,and she cant fuck better than a man so she's basically worthless. This is the reason I try to avoid bi videos, and bi mmf videos with comments.

[welickit]

Obviously you only watch free commercial porn on junk sites.

[BiDaveDtown]

You also might need to ask yourself, whenever a girl does a bisexual mmf scene she's on the side line looking,while two gays are clearly into themselves fucking each other, and leaving the girl out.And the gay and bi men love too see the girl get neglected because she have a pussy,and she cant fuck better than a man so she's basically worthless. This is the reason I try to avoid bi videos, and bi mmf videos with comments. You're watching the wrong type of bisexual/MMF porn then. I have never seen "Bi" porn that has two gay men in it and the woman doesn't get naked or nothing sexual happens to her as well. The original poster is also watching the wrong type of porn if he/she thinks that there's somehow a double standard for women in porn and that it's not easy to find bisexual/MMF porn.

[biguy71]

Bisexual porn is like any other type of porn in that most of it is total crap. There is definitely some good stuff out there, though.

[goldenfinger]

All the one I look at, the girl get her fair share, so spend some more time searching the porn sites. Youporn has a lot og bi-porn.

[NjbiGuy01]

I get what the OP is saying. It is still much more accepted that a woman can be bi or flexible, and it's somehow hot. Theres a bar I hang in where some of the single or divorced woman actually pretend to be bi or in a relationship to make men leave them alone ! They kiss, head into the ladies room together, and cuddle at the bar, and laugh in the face of dudes they don't have interest in...Anyway, we are still at a point where the idea of two men kissing (for example the John Travolta "airplane ramp kiss" a few months back) was a big deal !! Madonna kissing Lady Gaga or whomever on an award ceremony...not so much...I don't want much porn other than a few things on the internet now and again. I think MFM or MFMF all bi porn is super hot. I have met women who actually found man on man hot, or wanted to participate, while others thought it was gross. Interesting that a few girls I dated that were turned on by the idea of bringing a bi man into our bed (some wanted two men to please them also), were not interested in woman at all. They accepted male bisexuality, but found female bi play uninteresting or downright "gross"...

[ivanthemonkey]

This is natural, since most porn is aimed at straight men. It should also be noted that female on female sexual encounters often occur in straight porn without being labled as either bisexual or even lesbian

Another thing to note is the Men have a perceived definition of masculinity that doesn't include sex with another man. That is a man who has sex with another man is either gay or bisexual, that is not straight, even if they are tolorant and open minded about other sexual preferences, their definition of Straight mascilinity is no sex with men.

Women on the other hand are seen as being able to have sex with other women without being considered gay or bisexual. It is perceived that a straight woman may have sex with other women and remain straight. This is because of both the percieved nurturing nature of women, who are perceived as being more empathetic, intimate and caring, as well as not being held so rigidly to the standards of masculinity that men percieve they must have.

The masculine perception is not "real men are straight" but a more subtle because of other attributes, for example Men must be brave and courageous or else he is a coward, whereas cultural stereotypes allow that women may be frightened and run and are not looked down upon, in fact they are encouraged to act in a way that would be cowardly for a man. for example, in a sinking boat, Women and children first. Similarly women crying, even for no reason, is tolorated, Whereas a man crying without a good reason is decidedly unmanly. In opposite of these cultural stereotypes, a woman who is courageous is not thought less of (well except by the bigots in society)

My point here is that men have a much more rigid definition of their gender roles then women do. Thus a straight man is exactly that, straight with no sexual inclination to other men at all. Whereas woman's gender definition is broader and often not as clearly labled as the men's role.

[12voltman59]

I think you have got it figured out, ivan. Most of the biporn it does seem is geared towards straight guys--with it mostly consisting of the type that fills the str8 male fantasy that "bisex*" is so hot--with *bisex meaning two chicks are getting it on and there is some lucky guy that they are also including---but OMG!!!!!! Have any hint that two dudes are gonna do anything with one another and "That is so fucking gay and so fucking gross!!" I mean, str8 dudes don't want to see anything that hints at all of gay stuff--because they are not at all gay of course and don't want any part of anything that hints of anything but str8 views of what sex is.

[Gearbox]

In straight porn when two straight blokes are DP'ing a woman, and their balls 'accidentally' touch, it's a pretty big turn on for me.
Amazingly, that's not seen very often, and I bet they edit those 'accidents' out. Might be viewed as promoting male bi-curiosity or something. Not much of two cocks being sucked at the same time either.
No such restrictions for women though. It's practically taken for granted that they get busy with each other, lesbian/bi or not.

Now if we could go back in time and reverse that, I wonder what would happen. How much does porn have an effect on our views of sexuality?

[The Dude]

You also might need to ask yourself, whenever a girl does a bisexual mmf scene she's on the side line looking,while two gays are clearly into themselves fucking each other, and leaving the girl out.And the gay and bi men love too see the girl get neglected because she have a pussy,and she cant fuck better than a man so she's basically worthless. This is the reason I try to avoid bi videos, and bi mmf videos with comments.

I have never seen that type of bi-porn but if there is a problem I think it is because of the fact that first of all a lot of the men who do bi porn are in fact gay and most of the women who do it are not turned on by seeing two men together. I personally really enjoy Transexual porn, I know most PoTs (Pre-op Transsexuals) don't look like that in real life but I love to see the mix of those gorgeous cocks on beautiful feminine bodies it's kind of like a surreal bi porn.

[æonpax]

When it comes to same-sex activity, have you noticed that almost all porn that contains both men and women allows only the women to interact sexually with each other? The men are not allowed to interact sexually with each other.

Why do women take part in such discriminatory depictions? I suppose the money these women are paid is all they really care about. These women don't seem to care about the harmful message they are sending out.
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First off, I have to quote “Rule 34” - “If it exists, there is porn of it. No exceptions.” There is something for everyone. If what you look at displeases you, look someplace else.

With the proliferation of technology in video recording, amateur porn is putting the pro porn industry, out of business. Much of the amateur stuff is free and some of it, is quite good.

Porn is not real…this is to say, it does not depict reality, only fantasy. It is targeted at specific audiences and tastes. Those acting or participating in porn, do so for their own reasons. Some for money, many, just for the thrill.

Addressing discrimination based on what a porn actor or actress chooses to display sexually, is pretty weak.

[jackbirdjay]

porn is made to get you horny thats all, lots of guys are scared of bisexual or gay guys. But they will watch 2 women. Porn is mostly for guys women do like it at times but men are the ones that buy most of the porn.

[FunE1]

I'll just say "ditto" to Aeonpax's comment.

[Iowason]

I have a couple of Bi videos I ordered, cheap ones I might add. You can almost always tell if they are truly bi or in it just for the money. Sometimes it seems like one of them is barely bi if any and the other one is completely gay.

[Jobelorocks]

Porn does what sells. Girl on girl sells. Many straight and bi men alike have a fantasy of having multiple women at once and watching the women fooling around. There is all sorts of bi porn out there, you just have to find what suits you.

[simplexity]

It's not a matter of "if you don't like it, find something else" if real/sexy bi porn existed we wouldn't be here griping about it. Usually I would have to download porn by the women's name, as you can't find any by just typing the guy's name, but sometimes certain women always work with certain guys or at least they seem to only work with the hottest of guys. However, it seems when you watch straight porn, once the girl's bra is off you never see much of the guy, the camera seems to be focused on her and her breasts or her ass, and it's like the guy is merely a prop in the video. I did find some nice playgirl videos online, i like those as it seems to be made by women for women, which means, the guy gets a good amount of screen time, and there is a lot of sensuality to it. I love watching people kiss in videos as it tends to make it more intimate and less like it's just a job to them. I always get turned on when the women seem to be just as into the sex as the guy is, and that she's not just going through the motion. Plus, they tend to show more of the man's body. With straight porn it's as if they only want to show the woman. I love Julian Rios but sometimes in the videos he's in all you see is his cock or a weird position behind him, and I want to see her enjoying him as much as I would if I were there in her place. But mmf porn tends to be too low key, the men are cute, but not really hot and seldom are they a decent size, and the women are kinda blah. So I'm stuck watching straight porn and just using my imagination. It seems even when there is a woman behind the camera she's a lesbian as they also tend to look just at the woman's body. And the women always end up naked way too fast, I think they need to slow it down to tease a bit. Though lately I watch and get ideas on stuff to wear lol. But, as for bi porn there really isn't a lot of great stuff out there. Some is ok, but there isn't really anything I'd call great. I would love to see a video of a straight-ish man and a fem/bottom guy (dressed in lingerie would be best, but at this point I'm not picky) but I have no clue where to find something like that.

[Susurrus1964]

I remember reading something about this. The main reason a lot of the "bi" porn (note the quotation marks) ends up being the guys give the girl some token attention, then when the guys turn to each other, she sits the rest of the encounter out, is often due to the fact that many of your "bi" performers also do gay, and are willing to let a girl into the mix to broaden their marketability. If you'll notice, very rarely do you see a guy who usually does straight porn participating in bi scenes. This is a generalization, granted, and I'm sure there are a few "straight" male porn p;erformers who branch out, but they're few and far between, and I personally prefer scenes where the girl gets equal time, in particular when the money shots start flying.

[jackbirdjay]

Back in 1970's when I was in my 20's started watching porn. It wasn't as open like now. U were either str8 or gay no in between. All porn back then was aimed at the str8 guy. One the fantasies of guys is women on women in bed. As the years went by, bisexual sex became more open. But there still are the haters out there. When I was about 24 and open about being bi to a few close friends. My friend a very str8 one and I one night went to a adult drive-in. All they shown were str8 porn. As we were watching the movie, I said to my friend thats a big cock. He said yea it is. I asked him if he liked looking at cock's, He said he never thought of it that way he like watching people have sex. I said whats the differnce? He couldn't answer me. He said he did enjoy watching cocks shoot cum but didn't have any interset in playing with one. I think women are more open minded about sex than guys. I was dating a very str8 women prim and proper so to speak. Every now and then she would let her hair down and get crazy in bed. It's all in the mind