What does it feel like to give a blowjob?

[Ewerton]

So..what does it feel like to have a penis in your mouth, I mean not emotionally but physically...what does his thing feel like...I mean how is it to be in that situation? thanks for any thoughts on it....have a nice day!

[HappyHedonic]

First of all, I must state that for me the emotional part is the joy that I derive from giving a BJ. Physically, it can be a lot of work. Consider size...small mouth + large cock x duration (time) = tired jaw, probable gagging, potential teeth scraping. The ability to swallow a long cock (deep throat) helps the receiver feel more sensation, but the giver still has to hinge his/her jaw wide.

Back when I was bi-"curious" I would stick a dildo in my mouth and give it a BJ, but I would quickly lose interest...it just seemed stupid putting an inanimate object in my mouth that required that much work for something that tasted like rubber (yuck).

But performing my first (and every subsequent) real BJ is much different...there is an emotional connection, a response from my partner, a goal (to give pleasure), and a delicious flavor that makes all that "work" totally worth it! :bigrin:

[NakedInSeattle]

Ditto the Happy guy...it's knowing that you're giving pleasure and being a man, knowing exactly how good it feels. Yes, the emotional connection even in an anonymous encounter (glory hole, for instance) is what makes it so so enjoyable.

[wm1809]

EMPOWERING!

[cornholejoe]

real good like giving and getting them in a 69

[reddc513]

It is empowering and emotionally satisfying. It can really kill your throat and your lips. Personally not my fav thing to do. :tongue:

[sdnaustin]

It is a very sensual experience. It is more than the feel of it in your mouth, it is the scent of the guy, the taste of his sweat, the moans he makes, and of course the sight of an erect cock getting redder and flusher. There is more to cock sucking that sticking it in your throat, you lick the head, tease the shaft, suck on the balls...I tend to lose myself in my work down there. And when he comes, I gently make sure he is all clean in the end. can't waste a drop.

[switch8909]

Sucking a cock is just heavenly. Yes, like another poster noted, you may gag, probably get sore jaws, ect. I love it best when I take a cock into my mouth while it is limp, and feel it grow! Feel the guy get hotter and hotter, and I love how he will try and push deeper into my mouth (use a hand around his shaft to control depth). I love sensing him approaching orgasm, hearing his sounds, just knowing that he's gonna cum. I love knowing he is going to cum into my mouth, and I am so aware of how this is affecting him. It's best for me when he gets vocal... "Suck me you bitch!"

Finally, the ejaculation: Absolutely wonderful. Hearing his final moan/groan/loud swearing, feeling the surge in my mouth, and rewared by his spew of cum. I don't necessarily like the taste of semen, but I love sucking a man until he gives me a mouthful.

[BiCplAz]

I like small to medium sized cocks for the simple reason I don't do anal but love to suck and I don't want to be choked. I expanded the nickname of Gumsucker II, on this site to Gumsucker III for me because we both take our teeth out to suck cocks, and have done each other many times. For guys who take a long time to cum I have found when they are gummed they cum right away. I love having a cock in my mouth and the sensation of the cum squirting there too and sucking a nice set of balls. The one prerequisite is they must be clean, squeaky clean.

However I like eating pussy just as much but that's not what this question was about.

[androgynous34]

I will always remember the first time I had a penis in my mouth the experiences was equal to the first time I had sex with a girl when I was very young. His penis at first reminded me of every large finger and it was awkward at first trying to please him. Although many years have passed since then I can still remember the struggle to try to get all of him in my mouth.

[69luvr]

It is a great feeling. I love it. To see him enjoying it and wanting more and more is fascinating. The sounds he makes are just great. To finally suck him dry is rewarding!:bipride:

[othercat]

its nice. I love to eat pussy but theres something special about sucking on a cock. you can realy get your mouth down on it. its warm, hot, fells real nice. very satisfying.

[BJ Hunter]

So..what does it feel like to have a penis in your mouth, I mean not emotionally but physically...what does his thing feel like...I mean how is it to be in that situation? thanks for any thoughts on it....have a nice day!

Well, I have only done it once so far, and it was hot! I loved the feel of his hot cock, and even though I have a strong gag reflex, I was ableto take him right to the back of my mouth with out any problem. Each time I did that I got a moan, which made me suck harder and work his shft with my tounge more. I got that feel of his cock harding that extra bit, and his balls pulled up hard to his cock, which was very exciting, when he pulled out with a loud pop, and blew his load on my chest. So far I can't say what taking his load was like, as I didn't get the chance, but next time, I'll hold him in so he can't pull out, and suck faster and harder at that special moment, and listen to him groan loadly as he empties in my mouth. That's my first, but won't be my last.
:male:

[mesaharleyrider]

Heavenly! I know how much I enjoy being fondled, stroked, licked, and sucked, others must like it as well. I am making love to a hard cock. The hard inside, surrounded by a softer outside is one of the neatest feelings in the world. I like to take my time, starting with the tip and, gradually, taking more of that lucious meat in my mouth. When he begins to thrust his hips and I can feel the head of his cock expanding, I begin to suck, pulling him deeper and deeper into my waiting mouth. As others have said, you have to experience it to describe it.

[innaminka]

To me , there are two distinct forms of oral sex with a penis.
Firstly, there is the tittilating, erotic foreplay where the penis is simplyanother part of the man's whole body, to be teased, licked, nibbled, lightly sucked etc on before actual penetrative sex.

Then there is the full BJ where you are actually making love to the penis with the object of causing orgasm/ejaulation.
I guess it's the second type you are asking about.
For me - a woman - it was satisfying in that I was choosing to do this knowing my partner was experiencing great enjoyment and predicating those feelings toward me.
Comfort-wise, yes a good-sized penis does stretch your mouth somewhat, and if taken to deeply without practice, can trigger a gag reflex - but really that aspect is inconsequential.
tastewise? - it tastes like skin (sometimes a bit "whiffy" if its spent all day in the jocks - but again really inconsequetial unless it's really unclean)
Sperm - tastes like sperm! That's up to you.
Personally I found taking his stuff in my mouth an important part of the whole lovemaking process - spraying it somewhere on my face or body perhaps indicated I'd been used rather than been making love.

there is no manual - everyone is different.

[Zinetha]

Didn't read all comments, but just saying: be careful with your teeth! Last time I tried to give my bf a blowjob, I accidentally hit one of my teeth there :( I was like "did you cum?" and he was like "O.O no... I would have told you" and then I took it out of my mouth and noticed the blood... There was a tiny wound. He didn't feel anything then, but later when I/he touched it, it hurt :( so now we'll just wait for him to get better again...

[Bisexual Explorer]

For an avowed cock sucker, this is one hot thread. Cock sucking was my first and still favorite mm sexual activity. Oh yes, back to the question.

Think about sucking, oral sex sounds much too prissy and giving a blow job as too one sided. Sucking is giving and getting. The giving - sending my partner into ecstasy by doing everything I can with my mouth. The getting -feeling his cock on my lips and my tongue, hearing moans of pleasure, having his hot cum in my mouth.

Try it. That's the only way you'll know what it feels like for you.

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[*pan*]

So..what does it feel like to have a penis in your mouth, I mean not emotionally but physically...what does his thing feel like...I mean how is it to be in that situation? thanks for any thoughts on it....have a nice day!

the phisicial part is probibly the least part of it to ask a question and make one leave out the major part is to ask for half a truth.
emotions are the biggest part of it. if you want the physicial part put a hotdog in your mouth and slide it in and out and you got your answer. that's all it is without the emotion. :eek::flag3:

[obxtacy4u]

I am one who loves sucking a cock and totally enjoy getting the whole load shot down my throat. i love getting face-fucked to the point of getting gagged (it gives the receiver such a high - gagging a good cocksucker). HOWEVER, while i enjoy the flood of cum in a deep throat situation, I really love to have the receiver's cock just resting on my tongue so i can swirl my tongue on the underside of his cock to intensify his orgasm. the bonus is that he gets to see a great money shot while his toes are curling from him dumping a load on my tongue. got this from a Marilyn Chambers video years ago, her guy melted... RIP Marilyn, hottest porn star ever.

[cheetah45]

Sucking is the highest of highs to me. Feeling another mans flesh inside my mouth with my tongue moving all around his shaft and head and feeling his hardness pulsing is heavenly. Being able to go down all the way and hearing him voice his pleasure confirms that I am doing the best job I can. When he tells me he is about to cum there is no way I am pulling away and when I swallow every drop, I know that when I look up at his face there will be a smile and compliment about how good a sucker of cock that I am.

[R. R. Wayne]

First, I got a really good hard on reading this thread. What does it fell like to give a blow job? For those who understand,no explanation is necessary. For those who don't know, no explanation is possible.

Put another way. If you are truly bi-sexual and not just in it to get your nuts off, giving blow jobs is every bit as good as getting one. Others have said it so very well. I can only add that one of life's most erotic moments is being in the 69 position with my mouth full of cock at the same time my cock is burried in my partner's mouth. Just lying together with only your tongues moving on each other's cocks is -- to me -- out of this world.

[ohbimale]

It is very empowering to have a cock in your mouth. I love the feel of a guy growing hard in my mouth and I admit it is a great feeling knowing I am responsible for getting him hard. It is a wonderful feeling. To have him squirming between my lips. A hard cock between your lips against your tongue is like no other. And when he cums in your mouth it is a feeling of power and control, plus the taste of his cum is a nice reward.

[shewolf50]

I go to my knees in front of him. Taking his cute round butt in my hands I pull him close to me as I undo his tight jeans. I pull them off releasing his soft beautiful cock and bury my nose and mouth in his thick soft pubes. Inhaling deeply my toes curl as I drink in his sweet man sent. I take his low hanging balls gently in my hand as I softly kiss his now awakening cock. Kissing and licking it then sucking him all the way in and feeling him slowly growing in my mouth. His manhood stiffens and throbs as I taste his warm cock. Slowly in and out I take his hard seven inches deep into my throat each time. Wonderful tingly sensations surge through my body while feeling this beautiful cock in my mouth. Eagerly sucking him in and out. His balls begin to tighten up as he moans with pleasure. Grabbing his cute round butt cheeks with both hands I pull him deep into me trying to swallow all he has for me. Pulling almost out I rub my tongue on the soft sensitive part just under the head. I can taste his precum as it oozes out from the tip. Taking my hair in both of his hands he starts moving his hips. I drop my hands and let him take control. I tighten my lips as he starts moving more now. He pulls almost all the way out then slowly back in deep into my throat. I’m not sucking him off any more he is fucking my mouth as he gradually picks up the pace. I love the feel and taste of his cock using me for his pleasure. His balls pull up tight and he stiffens and moans as he is about to cum. I pull back leaving just the head in just as the fist squirt gushes out over my tongue. Short strokes now swirling my tongue around the head as his hot cum pores into my mouth. He taste so good, warm, sweet and creamy. I swallow eagerly sucking every drop I can get.

Hope this helps, I love writing this stuff, makes me hot just thinking about it!!!

[SilkyHoseLover]

I'm a basically straight -- bi-curious, you might say -- man who has had two brief experiences sucking cock, starting at age 60.

My biggest takeaway was the fascinating textural differences that I felt. The soft, spongy ridges of the glans, contrasted with the firm smoothness of the skin of the hardened shaft, was a delight! My experiences didn't last long enough to consider body odors, jaw fatigue or the taste of cum.

I truly enjoyed it and would eagerly embrace any opportunity to repeat the experience and learn to become more proficient. But, as a married man who only plays when we play as a couple, there are decreasing opportunities for experimentation.

[binow123]

I must say after all of these replies, it must be good to suck! I have not done it yet, but I want to meet someone that is clean, disease free and has the patience to teach.

[BatCox40]

Oral sex whether it be cunnilingus or fellatio, can quite often be more sensuous than penetration because of the variety of sensations given by the lips, tongue and surface of the mouth. I haven't given a blow job to anyone for a long while and this thread has given me reminders of the joys of having a penis (other than your own).

[69luvr]

EMPOWERING!

and tasty too!

[69luvr]

I go to my knees in front of him. Taking his cute round butt in my hands I pull him close to me as I undo his tight jeans. I pull them off releasing his soft beautiful cock and bury my nose and mouth in his thick soft pubes. Inhaling deeply my toes curl as I drink in his sweet man sent. I take his low hanging balls gently in my hand as I softly kiss his now awakening cock. Kissing and licking it then sucking him all the way in and feeling him slowly growing in my mouth. His manhood stiffens and throbs as I taste his warm cock. Slowly in and out I take his hard seven inches deep into my throat each time. Wonderful tingly sensations surge through my body while feeling this beautiful cock in my mouth. Eagerly sucking him in and out. His balls begin to tighten up as he moans with pleasure. Grabbing his cute round butt cheeks with both hands I pull him deep into me trying to swallow all he has for me. Pulling almost out I rub my tongue on the soft sensitive part just under the head. I can taste his precum as it oozes out from the tip. Taking my hair in both of his hands he starts moving his hips. I drop my hands and let him take control. I tighten my lips as he starts moving more now. He pulls almost all the way out then slowly back in deep into my throat. I’m not sucking him off any more he is fucking my mouth as he gradually picks up the pace. I love the feel and taste of his cock using me for his pleasure. His balls pull up tight and he stiffens and moans as he is about to cum. I pull back leaving just the head in just as the fist squirt gushes out over my tongue. Short strokes now swirling my tongue around the head as his hot cum pores into my mouth. He taste so good, warm, sweet and creamy. I swallow eagerly sucking every drop I can get.

Hope this helps, I love writing this stuff, makes me hot just thinking about it!!!


\I get hot reading it! That guy is sure lucky!

[wm1809]

It is wonderful i love sucking our boyfriend he came over the other night i sucked him while he played with my wifes tits and pussy then she fucked me with my new dildo while him and i 69ed then i had them switch it up he did me with the dildo from behind while i was fucking my wife that was the best she came i came and then after sucking him off he came. On a funnier note he told us that i suck dick better than his wife and most females that he has been with i guess i have a gift

[cbj4162]

A.M.A.Z.I.N.G!!!! ..... times 5

[cbj4162]

agree

[Hoselvr]

I LOVE sucking cock, but I prefer it be shaved smooth and cut. I love the look, feel, taste to and including the juicy conclusion. YUMMY!!!

[swtwtrslut]

EXACTLY! This is what I love about giving them, the reaction I get, as well as the exploration of the entire area in general. And yes, NEVER waste a drop! LOL!! ;)


It is a very sensual experience. It is more than the feel of it in your mouth, it is the scent of the guy, the taste of his sweat, the moans he makes, and of course the sight of an erect cock getting redder and flusher. There is more to cock sucking that sticking it in your throat, you lick the head, tease the shaft, suck on the balls...I tend to lose myself in my work down there. And when he comes, I gently make sure he is all clean in the end. can't waste a drop.

[goldenfinger]

It's a mind game, so it will be whatever you like it to be.

[BICURIOUSONE69]

It is empowering and emotionally satisfying. It can really kill your throat and your lips. Personally not my fav thing to do. :tongue:aw and i was just about to ask you to give me one.gee

[Satyr352]

Personally, I like the texture of a cock in my mouth. The combinaton of hard shaft and the squishiness of the head and the sides. I like the way the skin flexes as I perform on it, up and down, in and out. I like the way it will occasionally come out of my mouth with a little "pop" sound. Then I like to grasp it and slide my mouth over the head and down the shaft. I like it when my friend gets super excited and has me go faster and deeper. And, of course, I like it when he finally lets go his load. Mmmmmm.

[dave_nz]

my first blow job was to my mate when we were at school. we were both about 14. we started off by masturbating, then one day he ask me to give him a blow job. I did. from then on he would prefer me to give him a BJ. Could nver bring my self to swallow though. I did not think much about it then. now i love to suck a nice cock.

[virginia123]

WONDERFUL!! And be forewarned. Once you suck your first cock you will be hooked! You will never be able to get enough to satisfy yourself, you will always want more!!!!! and that's a good thing,LOL.

[lt12855]

I love sucking, licking, fondleing, and stroking a man's cock. My joy is in pleasing my partner. I especially like smaller cocks. It feels so wonderful to have the whole cock in my mouth without gagging. Having him slowly side it in and out. Then have him just be still and cock just laying in my mouth. It is wonderful.

[RoadWarrior942]

Did anyone have anxiety in the final moments before taking the guy into your mouth? How about after - guilt? shame? regrets? revulsion? Joy? Satisfaction? Where was your head at emotionally?

[Paddarick69]

like biting into a york peppermint patty

[WESTMAN33]

Much Joy with regrets that I hadn't sucked cock many years before.

[pepperjack]

my first blow job was to my mate when we were at school. we were both about 14. we started off by masturbating, then one day he ask me to give him a blow job. I did. from then on he would prefer me to give him a BJ. Could nver bring my self to swallow though. I did not think much about it then. now i love to suck a nice cock.


So do I & yours looks ideal right now.:tongue:

[Beefeater]

How does it feel to suck cock? It feels very natural the way the shape seems to follow the shape of your mouth. So, in a word.....NATURAL!

[Ebonybifemme7]

Man, you guys are crazy. I havent done that in such a long time. Its been years. I have a narrow mouth so sometimes my teeth get in the way.

[BJ Hunter]

Just a quick update. I find sucking A"dick"tive. Since my first time, I have now sucked a few guys, and swallowed their loads. I find, even though I am a mostly straight guy, I seem to get a hunger for a hard cock in my mouth. The first guy I sucked still has me suck him, and 69 as well, when ever we can both get time in our busy lives, wifes kids work all being factors. So yes it feels great in your mouth, so hard, so full and big, yet so silky smooth too, as it slides on your tounge. I'm told I'm a "natural", and can get the few guys I have tried off with an amazing orgasm. The trembling thighs, the moans, and the load groans really do it for me as he fills my mouth with his baby batter.

[foreverbi]

One word: FANTASTIC !!!!!!!!! :tongue:;);)

[69luvr]

First of all, I must state that for me the emotional part is the joy that I derive from giving a BJ. Physically, it can be a lot of work. Consider size...small mouth + large cock x duration (time) = tired jaw, probable gagging, potential teeth scraping. The ability to swallow a long cock (deep throat) helps the receiver feel more sensation, but the giver still has to hinge his/her jaw wide.

Back when I was bi-"curious" I would stick a dildo in my mouth and give it a BJ, but I would quickly lose interest...it just seemed stupid putting an inanimate object in my mouth that required that much work for something that tasted like rubber (yuck).

But performing my first (and every subsequent) real BJ is much different...there is an emotional connection, a response from my partner, a goal (to give pleasure), and a delicious flavor that makes all that "work" totally worth it! :bigrin:

I agree with every word that was written! To me it feels natural and rewarding!

[sterculius]

I would have to divide my reply into two parts; the first part addresses the sensory aspect, (a) how it feels to have a cock in your mouth, (wonderful!) (b) how enjoyable it is to be sucking on it, (exquisite!!), and (c) what it's like when he cums in your mouth and you have to swallow it all. (sublime!!!) The second and to me, the most significant consideration, is the emotional aspect, what it feels like to "be" a "cocksucker". This is what provides me with the most intense erotic thrill, the rapturous feeling of being dominated and controlled and being orally "used" in order to satisfy another man's sexual urges. The exhilarating experience of going down on my knees and having my mouth and throat being very roughly fucked is indescribably ecstatic!! I LOVE being a cocksucker!

[indenver_indenver]

I would have to divide my reply into two parts; the first part addresses the sensory aspect, (a) how it feels to have a cock in your mouth, (wonderful!) (b) how enjoyable it is to be sucking on it, (exquisite!!), and (c) what it's like when he cums in your mouth and you have to swallow it all. (sublime!!!) The second and to me, the most significant consideration, is the emotional aspect, what it feels like to "be" a "cocksucker". This is what provides me with the most intense erotic thrill, the rapturous feeling of being dominated and controlled and being orally "used" in order to satisfy another man's sexual urges. The exhilarating experience of going down on my knees and having my mouth and throat being very roughly fucked is indescribably ecstatic!! I LOVE being a cocksucker!

You nailed it! When my partner works all of his thick 7 1/2" into my throat, I belong to his cock! He loves to deep fuck my throat with short strokes so his cock doesn't come out of my throat. I go into some euphoric state where all that exists in my world is his wonderful cock. I like to think of it as my being threaded on his big cock. And, he loves the power his cock has over me. Before he lets me suck his cock, he stands a few feet away from me and thrusts his hips so his heavy cock rears up and throbs. He watches me crumble with desire for his cock then grabs my head and shoves his cock in hard. Oh, my god! I'm lost to this man's steely cock. And the whole time he is away from me, all I can think about is his cock and how well he uses it on me.

[PrettyFlowingGown]

it took me years to perform a blowjob. i was actually frightened to do it, cause i was'nt confident i could make it cum, plus i thought they were "ugly', and i was intimadated too by them. over the course of 10 years of having sex with gay men or another cd, i never did it. i just let them do me. it all changed about 3 years ago when a older cd freind had sex with me, and it was the most beautiful sex ever i've had and it came more natural than ever. it did'nt even look "ugly' anymore, i was just drawn too it emotionally. it took some work to make him cum, but i tried to put a gentle touch on it to make it more beautiful. i've done blowjobs in the shower since and thats amazing. in a pool i've done it, and its gorgous giving oral sex while i'm in a long pretty satin nightgown entrenched between spread legs.

[ready2]

I remember the first time I gave a blow job.

After opening my mouth, the guy put his cock in and I began sucking him. I had never tasted a cock before and I found that I liked the taste of it! A little later, the man held me firmly against him and then he came in my mouth. He came so strong that I thought I would gag on his stream but I drank it all down. What turns me on besides the blow job itself, but going down on the man to his balls. What a turn on.

I love the thought of sucking a cock and drinking his sperm.

[StupidlyHappy]

I don't know - still looking to try my first.

[Basin_Bouy]

When I read the OP Topic, I thought of something a Girlfriend of mine asked. One night in bed she asked me "if being Topped by a guy was the same feeling as a girl feels during vaginal sex". I replied "how in the heck would I know, I don't have a vagina!"

[Volley]

Very good! :drool:

[zigzig]

It's nice, but you must how to do it right, like how fast o move your tongue.

[Michele Mayelle]

ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS

[jamieknyc]

What impressed me the most about it the first time I did it was how hard a cock feels in your mouth.

[can i watch]

Its absolute heaven. To have a cock so ready so hard and just begging to be s u c k e d is beyond hotttt! When you go down on a guy, its a feeling of control (and not in a bossy way) I mean in the sense that you have their complete submission to you, so as you suckkk , lick and tease his cock every twitch and pulse and moan is for you...because at that moment everything you are doing to him is the center of all his pleasure. You are giving the ultimate pleasure...and , if you are me, you are cumming in your panties while you blow him. Its allways a WIN WIN

[bicuriousnow]

it has been a while but I remember it was wonderful..i look up at my friend and he was in heaven as I suck his cock, I miss the blast of cum....

[matutum]

try it and see,everyone is different.

[luvtocum]

Just knowing i have the power to make a cock hard is a huge turnon. The feeling is incredible as he works his cock in and out of your mouth while cupping his balls and having him cum so soon lets me know i did my job.

[Waylon]

I love it because it feels good, it turns me on, I love the warmth, I love to know he is really enjoying my talents, I love to deep-throat and have him guide the back of my head by my long hair, I love the sensation of having a hard cock going in and out of my mouth and lips and love the sensation of his balls starting to tighten up, the hips start thrusting a bit, and the ectasy we both feel as he cums and cums and cums. It is one of life's greatest pleasures, both giving and getting.

[4_oral_fun]

feels good, I have to know the person before I do it. Really enjoy 69 on top

[cocktamer]

I wish I knew . My first and thus far only experience sucking cock was very lame the guy was too high on dope and couldn't even get hard let alone keep it hard. I am anxiously looking forward to my first hard cock in my mouth .I think since I am new at this I would like it to be a little impersonal like through a Glory hole or with a blindfold on. Besides the sight of a rock hard cock makes me so fucking horny I could cum on the spot.

[elian]

Darn, I guess I need to go back to the store and get a bigger size - all of the sudden these pants seem uncomfortably tight in the "crotch" area..

[manmeat50]

Its awesome. In a strange way, its about control. Cock comes out, you jump on it...I mean reallly gag on the thing....then suck and lick and stroke...all the time he is quivering, moaning, knees shaking....then slowly, very slowly but distinctly...he is moving to the cum.....and then there is the grunt...the hot wash of sticky cum and the "o fucks"...and you are in control...both the giver and the taker feel the control thing....my take

[BiCplAz]

Wonderful

[producer103]

Most beginners have reservations about putting a penis in their mouth and feel somewhat similar about putting any body part belonging to another person, especially of the same sex, in their mouth, but the penis, unlike most other body parts, has an opening which regularly discharges bodily waste. It is true, however, that urine is sterile and contains no contaminates (in a healthy person.) Of course, people do get urinary tract infections, but they are much more common in the female and pretty rare in the male. This is due primarily to the much shorter urethra in the female as opposed to the much longer and frequently flushed urethra in the male. Under normal circumstances, the penis is, and must be, pretty clean and harmless to play with unless infected with an STD and must be so because the very fragile reproductive fluids that pass through the urethra must travel the length of the penis unharmed to reach it's destination without being harmed or harming the fallopian tubes or the eggs within so the entire system is normally quite clean, but the idea of putting another guy's penis in their mouth still has most newbies cringing, at least until they get used to it and begin to enjoy the process and, with repetition they usually do eventually. However, there are a few tips that may help out in the meantime. 1) start out just fondling and occasionally licking around the head and top of the shaft and getting used to the idea of a penis around your mouth. 2) Understanding he will eventually begin oozing pre-cum. This is merely semen and is clean, harmless and quite slippery so just keep licking and swirling it around the head and top of the shaft. If you wrap your hand around his shaft and begin lightly stroking with the pre-cum lubing his shaft, he will respond usually with a few moans or groans and maybe tell you it feels good. If so, you're doing great so keep it up. 3) He will eventually expect to feel your warm mouth surround his head and shaft so get yourself ready and take the plunge and go ahead and slip your mouth around it and go as deep as you feel comfortable. 4) Now the demon terrorizing every newbie, GAGGING. The are at your throat and top of the tongue has a sensitive area known as "The Gag Reflex" and is an autonomic reaction to anything touching it. This reflex closes the throat and causes gagging in preparation to repel whatever touched it. Autonomic means it's automatic and uncontrolled, but it can be prevented by opening your throat like showing your tonsils to the doctor. This stretches the skin surrounding the throat and lessens the sensitivity of the area that causes the gagging reflex. It's not easy to maintain for long, but can be mastered with practice. Simply open your throat and slide the penis into your mouth, tongue down until you feel the tip of it touch your throat and see how long you can keep it there before you have to stop. At that point, simply withdraw the penis and relax your throat, then lick or stroke or whatever to maintain the hard-on and go down again, throat open.... 5) On every downstroke, swirl your tongue around his shaft and swish back and forth on the way back up. keep that up and he will likely tell you he's either getting close or he's going to cum (lucky you) A few more mouth strokes and, when you think he's going to shoot off, open your throat, go way down and start with very short up and down strokes while swishing your tongue until you feel the salty taste of his cum bathing the back of your tongue then slowly withdraw keeping all of it in your mouth. Once your mouth is off, the fun part "SWALLOW" then back down on his penis for a few more strokes then sit back, compliment him on his nice equipment or tell him it was good for you too. Congratulations! You're now a qualified FWB and know what you're doing. No matter what, you know you give great head!!!

[goldenfinger]

When I was young and able, I used to suck myself off a lot, feels bloody great, wish I could still do it. Still waiting for my first mm or mmf.

[Lynn731]

How awesome, and well said. I love giving them, too. I like anything that feels good, very versatile. I nearly broke my back trying to suck myself, lol. Best I could do was j/o and shoot in my mouth, I love that.

[oldercal]

I will always remember the first time I had a penis in my mouth the experiences was equal to the first time I had sex with a girl when I was very young. His penis at first reminded me of every large finger and it was awkward at first trying to please him. Although many years have passed since then I can still remember the struggle to try to get all of him in my mouth.

I took a penis in my mouth for the first time a month ago, gosh, what an experience. Don is also older, slim, kind, he was massaging me with his body near my face, so I naturally went over to his semi-erect penis and took it in my mouth, cherishing it, letting it slip all the way to the back of my mouth. It was best semi-erect, since it was flexible, I want to do that again with him.

[cbj4162]

it is the most amazing feeling ever my lips on a nice soft cockhead, kissing and loving on it, lips wrapping around it and feeling him respond and feeling his cockhead swell with delight!! mmmmmmmmmmm

[Go fore it]

Well i,ve only been doing it a few years now & im enjoying sucking uncut cocks the best. their smooooother then cut cocks & i,ve found they precum a whole lot more then cut do. wifes very intrested in meet a guy thats uncut, shed never seen a real one till a few years ago but his was only like 6", she enjoyed it but Bigger is in the plans !!!.. Well ya wont know till ya try it for yourself, Go fore it !!!.

[Wonderous Oblivion]

Like steel wrapped in silk!

[mikeyd270]

I love the feel of a mans hard throbbing cock in my mouth. Love licking the bottom of the shaft all around his knob and then sliding my wet lips up and down his cock. Love listening to him moan as I give him pleasure. My head bobbing up and down in his lap until he starts squirting his cum in my mouth.

[Wolf_Sr]

I liked your answer, it describes the art behind cock sucking, must be true.

[dingmama]

Got to try that

[1funguy]

Sucking a cock is just heavenly. Yes, like another poster noted, you may gag, probably get sore jaws, ect. I love it best when I take a cock into my mouth while it is limp, and feel it grow! Feel the guy get hotter and hotter, and I love how he will try and push deeper into my mouth (use a hand around his shaft to control depth). I love sensing him approaching orgasm, hearing his sounds, just knowing that he's gonna cum. I love knowing he is going to cum into my mouth, and I am so aware of how this is affecting him. It's best for me when he gets vocal... "Suck me you bitch!"

Finally, the ejaculation: Absolutely wonderful. Hearing his final moan/groan/loud swearing, feeling the surge in my mouth, and rewared by his spew of cum. I don't necessarily like the taste of semen, but I love sucking a man until he gives me a mouthful.

I could not agree more. The idea of taking that soft, supple, hunk and nursing it to full erection is as noted earlier "Empowering" I love to tease the end licking up to the slit and back to the little "V' at the head. Drives my lover crazy. I keep at it till he just can't stand it as I deep throat to collect his cum. And that's not the end! I keep his cock in my mouth till it shrinks back down driving him crazy by swirling my tongue around the ultrasensitive head collecting the last drops. He squeals in delight from the sensations. Then it's his turn ... OMG!!

[BILL DOUBLEU]

It's without a doubt the most erotic and perverse sexual act. Especially if you suck the load right out of his cock.
My man lover and I usually use a little lube. I also like to see him after I've done about a gram of coke. It makes it a lot easier to deepthroat his fat almost 8 inch cock. Plus the taste of cum on coke is like heaven. I only see him once every month or 2 months, so I don't recommend this unless you can do it responsibly, like not everyday.
I usually start with putting on chap stick and taking his half erect cock in my mouth backwards and sucking it all the way down to his balls for a few strokes until he becomes almost fully erect. Than I get om to spread his legs and I get between them and put a little lube all over his cock from the head down and say something dirt like " you ready for my hot mouth?" (it's also helpful if you shave your face as the bottom). I like to kiss, lick and spit all over his hot cock. The wetter, the nastier. I like to work the head and about 1/3 of the shaft and use the tips of my fingers on both my hands to stroke the rest of his shaft in a circular motion. During the process I also cover my teeth with my lips and suck up and down giving a little bit of tongue so it creates a "gumming" effect. When I get him real worked up, I slow it down right before he shoots and I encompass the head in my mouth as he shoots his hot juice in my mouth, sucking it out and swallowing it as it's shooting. There's nothing like the taste, the act and knowing you've dominated your partners cock.

[~Joe~]

Me i love to have a soft cock, and have it grown in my mouth it makes me tingle and i get to know what makes them get bigger faster or slower.
Some times i just hold my mouth round the top and let his pre cum run into my mouth and lick it up and down.
But in the end i always swallow it's rude not to ...lol,

[cumm swallower!!!!!!]

my first blow job was to my mate when we were at school. we were both about 14. we started off by masturbating, then one day he ask me to give him a blow job. I did. from then on he would prefer me to give him a BJ. Could nver bring my self to swallow though. I did not think much about it then. now i love to suck a nice cock. I think you have a very nice cockmmmmm!! Id love to take your hot big cock into my mouth and give you a nice long rexing Blow Job n hear you talk dirt to me as im down there sucking and playing with your nice plump cock n then hear you tell me your gonna blow your load as you start tothrust your hips as yyou let your big warm creamy load into my mouth ill gobble up every drop you have!!!!!! ILL Keep sucking you if u want cause from all the cocks ive sucked my mouth never gets sore anymore, you have a very hot cock!!!! now im hard i have to go jack off now!!!!!

[Zangrilli]

I am a straight guy who ever once in a while love a nice big cock in my mouth just talking about it is given me a rock hard cock that I am jerking off right now. I sure wish I was sucking a cock and jerking my off at the same time. I have never had a cock in my ass but I am wanting to try.

[BILL DOUBLEU]

Like steel wrapped in silk!
Pretty apt description.

[BareProf]

" I love the sensation of having a hard cock going in and out of my mouth and lips and love the sensation of his balls starting to tighten up, the hips start thrusting a bit, and the ectasy we both feel as he cums and cums and cums. It is one of life's greatest pleasures, both giving and getting. " I agree and thrill to his moans and telling me, "Suck me!" Then his cum coats my throat, leaving an after feeling for a while, physically reminding me I have swallowed another man's cum.

[BiCuriousVAN]

I have only sucked on two cocks but loved it both times. The first time was not as good as the second, as he was a bit soft when he was hard (maybe because he was older) and it felt at first like I got a mouth full of pubic hair. Once I pulled back his pubic hair, it was great. It is hard to describe, but the taste of his hard penis is nothing special, but it is the feeling of licking and taking a hard cock in your mouth and feeling the amazing sensations is very sensual. I love the taste and smoothness of precum, it is great and the feeling when he pulsates and explodes in your mouth is indescribably great. My natural instinct was to swallow, so I didn't get much of a taste, but absolutely loved the experience.



Number 2 was much better, as he was much firmer withd not as much pubic hair. I enjoy starting by feeling my partner's bulges, as I slowly unzip his pants and undress him. I really enjoy feeling his cock through his underwear, before I slide them off and then begin by cupping his balls and then licking the length of his hard cock, then his head. I really enjoy licking the opening in his cock. For me what is most enjoyable is licking, sucking, licking sucking etc until he cums. I asked him to let me know when he was going to cum, so that I wouldn't automatically swallow and would be able to taste his cum before swallowing. Again, it was great licking his penis and then talking his cock in my mouth and going to town on him and then tasting his cum. I have found that I love the taste of cum and enjoy swallowing, which is a real turn on for them as well.


It has been awhile since I have sucked on a guy, but have wanted to do it again for a few years. I am hoping to meet number 3 in the next week. We are planning for it to be more than a one time experience, if we enjoy each other and I get hard just thinking about meeting and sucking on him.


For me, the keys are:

- ask them to trim the public hair a bit before we meet (I would love to suck on a guy completely shaved down there)
- ask them to let me know before they cum
- don't rush it, take your time and enjoy the full experience by starting by undressing them (I find that a real turn on)
- licking the exterior is just as important as sucking on them

[Michele Mayelle]

Oh come on, just try it & see for yourself, thats the only way to find out.

[goinstrong]

I had my first cock experience when he and I were 14. Best Friends. Inseparable. We "dated" 2 girls who were best friends. One Saturday afternoon, we went to my house. No one there but us. We went to my bedroom - twin beds. Each sat on one of them. We started talking about our gfs - got horny. I opened my jeans to release my now-stiff little cock. I started jacking. Soon, we were each jacking our own cocks. I told him to come over to my bed. He did so, and I reached over for his cock. He was a bit freaked, but we were good friends - so he relaxed. I stroked him for a bit, then took one of his hands and placed it on my cock. We jacked each other for a few minutes. VERY HOT! As time ticked by, I bent over and took his little cock in my mouth. It was weird, but amazingly non-threatening. I licked & sucked it for awhile, then put my thumb and first finger on the base of his cock. Pumping and sucking was a real turn-on for me, and I got stiffer myself. I finally convinced him to replicate what I was doing. We took turns sucking each others' cocks. Very Hot! Neither wanted to take a load of cum in our mouths, so we sucked for a bit - then switched over to jacking. We made each other cum with our hands. Very nice experience. We continued all summer, eventually becoming more conscious of what we were doing. By summer's end, we'd grown quite a bit - sexually. Each still preferred girls to guys, but I've had a thing for cocks ever since. Still prefer cunts, but really do appreciate what I can do to a guy's crotch. My fave is taking a soft cock in my mouth and making it get hard.

[delane]

i have always enjoyed the feeling of having a cock in my mouth/throat!!! i don't see it as empowering--but, to each his own!!! It is, however, erotic, especially in the WAY you suck, play, taste, etc. the entire individual!!! As with a woman's body, a man's body can be very enticing!!! YUMMMMMY!!! One of my favorite things to do, personally: look up into a man's eyes as i have my mouth on his cock!!!! EROTIC!!! The amount of pleasure you can bring someone, just by pleasuring them, orally---simply amazing!!!!!
(Ditto to the last msg!!! lol) Enjoy!!!!!

[feather56]

I was scared a bit my first time. Yet it felt good to know I was giving him pleasure. I like the feel of a cock in my mouth and know I am in contol of his pleasure. The first time I took cum was a shock. I wasn't expecting it so soon, but once I tasted it and sarted swallowing I found i wanted more. I enjoy giving blow jobs now, just as much as receiving one. .

[morrisofcourse]

I just gave my first blowjob yesterday. I had set up an appointment with an older guy to try all the stuff I'd been wanting to try. I walked into his house and he called me into the living room. He was laying on the couch with his legs spread and dangling a bit. He was buck naked and flopping his cock, saying," You want this?" I actually did, so I raced over and knelt before him, taking his head in my mouth. His dick was quite big, 8 inches and thick as hell. All I could do with my gag reflex was slurp and suck the head while jacking his shaft. He loved it! He was very clean, so he didn't taste bad, just bland and dry. I'll need to put something tasty and wet on my partners in the future. Every so often, I'd get courageous and try to take more of the shaft in my mouth but I almost gagged every time. Eventually I got him hard enough to pound my ass (my true desire) so I had him do that. But I'll suck a guy to completion next time. I want to taste cum for the first time, maybe it'll be the tasty wet substance so my mouth won't be so dry afterward.

Now for the emotional part: it was incredible! So empowering and such a turn on. Being a bi guy with occasional TG feelings, I am happy to report that it really made me feel like a woman in a way that nothing else has. Don't get me wrong, I feel very feminine at times but this was tops. It was a fantastic blend of being the one in control of his pleasure and the submissive feeling of being a cocksucking bitch. My movements were very feminine and I could swear that for ten minutes I was actually a woman. The best part was that he kept talking to me as I blew him and all I could do was grunt or moan in response as I was too busy pleasing my man! I was on my knees pleasing a man and it was fantastic.

[cbj4162]

I want it more and more!! ......... :)

[cbj4162]

I just gave my first blowjob yesterday. I had set up an appointment with an older guy to try all the stuff I'd been wanting to try. I walked into his house and he called me into the living room. He was laying on the couch with his legs spread and dangling a bit. He was buck naked and flopping his cock, saying," You want this?" I actually did, so I raced over and knelt before him, taking his head in my mouth. His dick was quite big, 8 inches and thick as hell. All I could do with my gag reflex was slurp and suck the head while jacking his shaft. He loved it! He was very clean, so he didn't taste bad, just bland and dry. I'll need to put something tasty and wet on my partners in the future. Every so often, I'd get courageous and try to take more of the shaft in my mouth but I almost gagged every time. Eventually I got him hard enough to pound my ass (my true desire) so I had him do that. But I'll suck a guy to completion next time. I want to taste cum for the first time, maybe it'll be the tasty wet substance so my mouth won't be so dry afterward.

Now for the emotional part: it was incredible! So empowering and such a turn on. Being a bi guy with occasional TG feelings, I am happy to report that it really made me feel like a woman in a way that nothing else has. Don't get me wrong, I feel very feminine at times but this was tops. It was a fantastic blend of being the one in control of his pleasure and the submissive feeling of being a cocksucking bitch. My movements were very feminine and I could swear that for ten minutes I was actually a woman. The best part was that he kept talking to me as I blew him and all I could do was grunt or moan in response as I was too busy pleasing my man! I was on my knees pleasing a man and it was fantastic.


....... I am glad you had such a Hot time the 1st time ..... I did too. :)

[takeuallin]

I cant wait until I give my first bj. Just got to find the right one.

[bigtime2013]

It feels good to give a blowjob. I've done it enough times. I feel the head enter the throat, soft, sucking on it and it grows with firmness. This is when he will put his hands on back of my head to (try) and cram it completely down the throat, it is now rock and i have all 8 - 9 inches in my throat as he pumps it in and out my mouth till it starts to pulsate, at which time i will open wide and wait for to explode, as he says," its going to bust", and it does so much empty all the cum, omg how i luv to suck and swallow while it pulsates and keep sucking after it empties, luv it

[joavi]

I love feeling it deep in my throat, and starting to have tears in my eyes.

[monaohio]

sucking a penis is like seeing being pleasured how he moves and moans but that first thrust of cum hitting back of your throat is best reward there is

[kyjelly80]

That feeling of a warm cock growing inside your mouth is like nothing you can ever imagine. I love eating pussy, but you don't always get the same outward response that you get from a growing cock. It's tough because I love both, but I must admit sucking cock is way more fun. So much more tension!

[bob338]

The best thing ever. Well, not as good as eating pussy but you get the idea. :)

[jampa59]

i gave my first bj about 15 years ago at a local park. i had no idea what to expect or that guys did that until i found the Squirt website. Without that website I would never have known about how bi men hook up and where they meet. My first experience I went to a park on the list and saw a guy go into the mens room where they site said guys hook up. I waited a min or two then went in. He was at a urinal on the left and i went to the 1 right next to him. when i looked over i saw his hand moving and looked down to see him stroking his very large cock. i guess i was staring for a while and he turned toward me and kept stroking. he put his free hand on my shoulder and applied pressure. i knew he wanted me to kneel so i did. i keeled right at the urinal and in a puddle of urine. i couldn't believe i was staring right at his hard cock. as he moved closer to me my mouth just opened - felt like i had no control over it. i could see a drip of yellow pee still in the slit of his cock and as it sent into my mouth it was the first thing i tasted. the smells were overwhelming to me and i felt myself get rock hard as his cock touched my tongue and my lips closed around his large shaft. his hand then moved to the back of my my head and he slowly started inserting his cock in and out of my mouth. it felt like an out of body experience. i heard him starting to breath heavier and then started to shove his cock further down my throat. each time he did i gagged hard but he wouldn't let me pull off of his now rock hard cock. my hands moved to the back of his butt and i rubbed his ass as he continued to go harder and harder into my throat. i could tell he was going to cum and as he did he jammed his entire cock down my throat causing me to gag to the point where i thought i was going to pass out. he orgasmed and shot a huge load down my throat - i gagged as he was cumming and some of his cum actually shot out of my nose. he pulled out when he was done - there was cum dripping out of my nose, my eyes looked like i was crying. he squeezed his shaft and wiped the last few drops of cum across my face and flicked some into my hair. he then zipped up his pants, looked down and laughed and said - thanks and left me there kneeling at the urinal dripping with his cum. i was hooked and now find myself CRAVING cum - almost like a physical need.

[littlepeter]

The 1st time I was topped I remember thinking now I know how a women must feel when she is when she is on her back wih a penis inside her.I had known the man for 30 years from sunday school. Later in the week I sucked him off until he and continued seeing him until he moved moved out of state. Being married, retired and over 70 yrs old now I have a had time finding a dick to put down my throat.

[curmwm57]

I have only given one blow job (really) and it felt amazing to have another guys cock in my mouth. Hopefully I did him well. Just wish he would have cum...