Advice for first time bottom?

[tora41]

Never been a bottom, but it looks like it will happen soon. Looking for advice from those that have been there regarding internal cleaning and especially how to let him "in". Heard I should bear down as he pushes in and once in wait a few minutes for me to accept his size, then proceed, slowly at first and with lots of lube. Any other suggestions? Positions for first timer bottoms? Looking to meet a guy with a 6.5" slim cock for my first. Thanks all!

[FloridaFun69]

Go so, use plenty of lube, (astroglide is good stuff), and just enjoy the ride! Anal sex is still sex, and should be enjoyable. If at anytime it hurts, slow down and take your time, do it right... move it in, move it out, move it up, move it down... sorry, some weird flashback to the disco era popped into my head. LOL

[Jobelorocks]

That is all good advice. Also just relax... I know it is hard especially when you are nervous, but if you don't, it may hurt more.

[bigi56]

I'd love advice,cause I'd love to try this before I check out. I assume I need to relax to start with. But how to relax when that sweet cock starts sliding where you want it..... Time for a cold shower.

[cddm50]

If you search the forum you will see similar threads on this topic. Lots of tips and opinions.

There are some that say you should "cleanse" yourself with an enema. Others say don't because even though you THOUGHT you evacuated all the liquid there will still be a little left that sneaks out during the act and now you have a small mess to clean up. I might suggest that you just do your best to evacuate yourself before the event in the normal fashion.

If you have used dildos before you could try a smaller diameter dildo first to help prep your behind. Having your partner do this to you first is good foreplay too. I find that can help to distribute the lube a bit, around and into your hole. And don't be shy with the amount of lube either.

Again you have to relax and you should control the speed of the entry so you can get used to your partner's cock. I would agree about the "bear down" technique though don't strain yourself. Isn't necessary. You may find it goes "insert a little... stop/wait... withdraw... relax... reinsert a little deeper... stop/wait..." You get the idea.

And practice safe sex. Use a condom. And enjoy it.:bigrin:

[love1234]

sit on it, use protection

[ckman314]

get on top first and sit on it and RELAX let it go in a lil then pull out in a lil then pull out, each time going deeper and deeper till its in all the way and then grind away or switch too my favorite doggy nothing like getting pounded from behind and lube it up

[cornholejoe]

lube it good and bend over

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Lube, lube, and more lube, Darlin...lol
And seriously, patiance and time, hon. Go slow and have fun. Play safe and clean at all times, and have a great time..:}
Cat

[Seanrtn]

Plenty of lube, relax as best as possible and push "out" slightly as your partners cock begins to slide in. After the head is in concentrate on relaxing and enjoying...

[GreenFedora]

Let us know how it went. :)

I want to be next! ;)

[BiBedBud]

The best advice for a first time bottom as offered by hunkajunk; who said to go through the forum and read all the threads that apply. There is a lot of good advice and helpful opinion in those earlier threads.:2cents:

[hotflboi87]

If you haven’t played around with your ass before I would suggest doing so. It’s a very bad Idea to have an actual cock be the first thing you try to put inside you. I suggest people who want to eventually try anal do some experimentation by themselves first. Buy a small toy (1/2- 1 in) in diameter. Before you being its best to clean yourself out using an enema. Rinse yourself out 2-3 times to be safe. Note that you may have some cramps of mild discomfort after the enema. It should go away fast though. Now that you are ready. Use some good quality lube and apply a generous amount to your ass. Then apply more. No such thing as too much. Lube up your toy and position it against your hole. Gently apply pressure and then back off. Keep doing this until you slide the tip of the toy in. It should feel pretty good once it’s in. You may feel like you have to go # 2 but since you are all cleaned out you should be fine. Go slow trying different things whatever feels best for you. Play around with yourself a few times before attempting the real thing. Work your way up to a bigger size. You could even have a partner help. When u are ready for the real deal. Go Slow use lots of lube and communication and you should enjoy it.

[bim4mmf]

Well ..... use plenty of lube and relax ...... fingers work well first one then two, being worked in and out. Then use small toys. good positions i have found are on your back. have him insert a bit, then pull back a bit ...insert some more till you get accustomed to it. Once you get going it will be great :tongue: