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walkingstick123
Jun 15, 2011, 9:48 AM
I'm about to try my first anal experiance. What is the best way to prepare and how do I get the most enjoyment out of it?
BiBedBud
Jun 15, 2011, 9:55 AM
For starters, you should read some of the threads that have already been posted on this topic. There's plenty of them, probably at least one such thread started every 4-6 weeks. They generally have good advice, and you will certainly get all the advice you need by reading the older threads.
To prove my point, I will now go through a few pages of similar threads and "elevate" them.
For goodness sake, don't continue this thread, people -- there's already enough such threads in this forum, IMO.
:2cents:
BiBedBud
Jun 15, 2011, 10:26 AM
^^^ Now there are 12 threads all listed above this thread on the first page of the forum.
I picked these 12 threads by going through all of the 21 accumulated pages of threads in this wondeful forum.
I respectfully suggest that any discussion should continue in one of those already started threads, and that this thread should be left alone, to die a natural death.
This is just a suggestion, since I'm not a moderator -- not by any means. I just want discussions not to be diluted too much, by having various/repetetive posts made across numerous redundant threads.
:2cents:
walkingstick123
Jun 15, 2011, 12:32 PM
thanks,
i'm new on here so it'll take a while for me to become familiar with the site
maxtor
Jun 15, 2011, 12:51 PM
get you some Anal Eze or other type anal desensitizer for one. it will help to desensitive/relax the sphincter muscle and will slide in easier. i have something i use for joint pain which is Lidocaine 5% which is a strong desensitiver and i use that when i am about to get anal. my GF does me anal quite frequently and have used the Anal Eze and the other and they help tremendously.
i would advise cleaning yourself out if you dont have a good bowel movement just prior to having sex. you can get some calcium citritate (sp?) at the dollar store that will clean you out rather well. you can get it at the dollar store or here we can. you need to use it the day before and it will clean you out real well. a half a bottle should do it for most people.
when i start to have sex and when the cock starts pressing against my ass i push out like i was going to take a dump and that will let the muscle slide over the cock without much problem. you push in relation to as he is pushing and it will slide right in. i always like to have him or her stop for a few seconds after it is in about 2-3 inches and let my body accomidate the intruder...have them ease it in just a bit with every push and it will go right in and you will enjoy the hell out of it. have him to keep so KY lube and use plenty while he is sliding in and out. let him fuck for a little while and then have him to put it on there while he is pushing in and out. plenty of LUBE!! that is one of the secrets to good anal sex.
the first time i had anal sex i took it without anything and i was sore for a while. now i never am sore but can tell i was fucked the night before. i love the filled up feeling and the pressure inside me when it in there. it is a feeling that you have never felt before and if you are lucky he will hit the prostate and cause you to cum and have a hell of an orgasm.....you will wonder where all the cum came from. first time that happend to me i shot cum half way across the room and in my face and it was the hardest orgasm i have ever had. needless to say i really enjoy anal sex and take it whenever i can get it but i am picky about my men as in squeaky clean and dont worry about my GF with a big strap on. i would advise a condom but it does take away from some feeling for the partner. if you know that they are clean then i would bareback it and get all the feeling you can in there.
ChicagoNormalGuy
Jun 15, 2011, 1:21 PM
Before I got to the point of taking a real life man inside me, I built myself up with increasingly larger dildos. It was really only three dildos and lots of lube. But it got my ass used to the feeling of being filled and stretched.
And one thing I found helped me a lot was using condoms on my dildos. I don't know if it makes the lube work better or smoothes out the "realistic" edges of the dildos or what, but it feels better to me.
slipnslide
Jun 15, 2011, 6:00 PM
To prove my point, I will now go through a few pages of similar threads and "elevate" them.
:2cents:
Gee thanks. :rolleyes: