Do you love verbal stimulation?

[wifeluvesmebi]

When my wife and I role play and fanatsize, I love when she calls me faggot and cocksucking whore, slut, etc, while sucking on or getting fucked with her strap on. Especially when I am wearing panties/lingerie. We both LOVE the verbal (humiliation/stimulus) Big turn on for us. Soon wil be the time when we include others in our playtime. Or maybe it it is best left as fantasy, not sure but no pressure to act immediatley. We have fun for the time being. Anyone else have simillar fun?

[bizel]

oh boy, did you bring up something i enjoy! one of my guilty hidden pleasures. i loved my hubby calling me his slut, his whore, his cocksucker. we have been apart for sometime with his work commitments, so we haven't had sex for a while (that's why i walk around cross-eyed, lol). but i lovvvve dirty talk. i phone him and describe what i want to do to him, what i'm doing to myself, and he absolutely loves it. and my hubby has the filthest mouth in the moment. he loves that everyone we know thinks i'm this mild-mannered good girl and that no-one knows what i'm like naked in the bed, when we're fucking each other senseless (please excuse language). yes, verbal stimulation is tops!!!!

[roy m cox]

i like it a lot ,, just not the abusive stuff.

stuff that makes you feel good and loved ,, :three:

[fpb09]

I guess to each there own, for me no it's a big turn off! BIG TIME! I LOVE TO BE TOLD HOW GOOD OR HEAR THE MOANS! Too each there own enjoy the fun & friends !:2cents:

[Realist]

My GF, who is the personification of manners and being demure, has the most graphic imagination you could imagine. She loves taunting me (and herself) with her carnal thoughts. I enjoy knowing that she has that ability and will share it with me.

We rarely get to be together more than two days a month, but we have daily contact by phone and the Internet.

Her being bisexual and understanding the ramifications of that trait, helps a lot, too. I have to admit that she is not only the love of my life, but the most sensuous person I've ever known.

What a thrill it is to have a lover who shares the same things with such fervor, whether it's a sensual subject, or not!

[DuckiesDarling]

Perhaps I should just blush for my answer?

This is difficult as with me and LDD we are so far apart right now that phone sex is a big part of our relationship. Before we had the headsets and could voice on the pc we used MSN messenger. Used to leave some hot little stories for each other back and forth because of the time zones. We spent as much time together as possible. When we were typing, I had a chance lol. I could think for a second and come up with responses since LDD types so slow, but on the headset or on the phone??? OMG, all I can do is add in an appropriate OMG and Oh,yes.

Do we dip into anything humiliating? No. We are not into degrading each other or anything like that. So yes verbal stimulation but not the way it was described in the OP.

It works for us, rather well I'd say since someone had to clean off his phone, his face, his pillow, his.... )

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Being an erotic writer I find that many people love this type of role play, or mental stimulation while making love, and would never dare be this way in their everyday lives. But, as long as it turns them on, and makes them feel good, then more power to em..;) I'm not into the degrading part, but I love talking dirty, making my lover(s) all hot n bothered, and if someone is moaning, then I try 10 fold to do something to make them moan even more! lol
Have fun, be safe. :}
Cat

[Jorja]

YES!! All kinds at different times.....it can be used as foreplay, leading up to an erotic encounter, during an erotic encounter. Whispering dirty words into someones ear as you fuck them is just such a turn on. Telling them what you like, want, feel. Asking them what they like, want, feel. its all about communication......close your eyes and open your mind, let the dirty talk flow!!

Oh, as for calling me a dirty little fucking whore slut during sex, grabbing my hair and telling me what a dirty girl I am....that kind of sex, that kind of dirty talk. Its a huge turn on too.....

Who's to say you can't and shouldn't have both??

[wrbi01]

I love it when my wife moans and talks to me during sex... Hell I get off harder when she does.. so much that I have started to allow myself to get loud when getting myself off and it makes it more intense! :bigrin:

[nudistharry]

I'd love for my wife to do that. Mild humiliation during femdom sex is one of my big turn ons. Unfortunately my wife isn't into femdom. :((

[Hotmouth]

Talking dirty is my absolute biggest turn on outside of direct physical stimulation.

Nasty, filthy, erotic, degrading, humiliating, taboo, sensual, loving, tender, vile, disgusting.... it doesn't matter which.... I have to have it!!!!

One of my most fullfilling sexual acts is to just lay with my girl and talk dirty... fantasise together while we cuddle and grind together... masturbate ourselves and each other.


So amazing.

[DareMe]

Sex starts in between the ears, verbal stimulation is a major turn on!

DM

[jackbirdjay]

Yes I love it. The first time was in my 20's. My girl friend loved telling me how good it was and please fuck me hard faster, oh your coming out of my throat stuff like that. About a month of going out with her, one night after we were done she pushed my head down to her pussy told me to eat her. as i was licking away she started calling me a cum eater. She said eat my sloppy cunt u cum eater. Wouldn't u like a cock in your mouth. I'll get a cock for u and make you a cock sucker. I was moaning and eating her as she had a few orgasms in my mouth. It became a part of us having sex.

[12voltman59]

I agree with Cat---I can get far more turned on by reading of or being made to think of something sexual that often seeing it--- and I surely do love to be vocal myself and/or have a partner being vocal as well--it surely does make things much more "interesting" to be very vocal.

[jackbirdjay]

Yes I enjoy reading to> I can get in to reading sex stories. I enjoy the one's that say there are true. truesexstories.org is a good free site if your looking to read some.

[rawhide]

I love when my partner talks dirty (not humiliation, but just erotic) during sex, especially when it gets breathless and interrupted every few words by moans and gasps.

[bigbadmax]

It's not what is said, it's how it's said.
Tone and depth, and of course the sexy accent, whether a southern drawl or for me a scouse accent.

[bi42guy1958]

:bigrin::bigrin::bigrin::bigrin::bigrin::bigrin: DA UM!!! Now that is hot!!
Yes I love it. The first time was in my 20's. My girl friend loved telling me how good it was and please fuck me hard faster, oh your coming out of my throat stuff like that. About a month of going out with her, one night after we were done she pushed my head down to her pussy told me to eat her. as i was licking away she started calling me a cum eater. She said eat my sloppy cunt u cum eater. Wouldn't u like a cock in your mouth. I'll get a cock for u and make you a cock sucker. I was moaning and eating her as she had a few orgasms in my mouth. It became a part of us having sex.

[BiJoe696]

Yes, luv it that the wife is loud, verbal, multi and dirty talker when we play lots of times, and I know lots of guys luv a woman who is very verbal.

But I will have to say, I too am very verbal and loud lots of times, and it is very rare to find other guys that are into it. It seems lots enjoy it when I talk dirty or get very loud, but I can count on one hand or perhaps 2 ones I have met that are also dirty talkers or loud. And in a group thing, it is also rare to hear anyone talking dirty or making loud noises. Just my findings out of lots and lots of encounters.

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[shyer]

I find talking dirty is very hot when your with someone ,I like being dom by a male or female and love oral play,being told what turns them on can be fun as well.

[pepperjack]

It's incredibly hot!!! I love when a woman says " fuck me good!" or, " I want to suck your cock!" with animalistic abandonment.

[indenver_indenver]

It makes me so hot to have a guy tell me he's going to shove his cock all the way into my mouth and down my throat to make me his cocksucker. However, I'm not into abusive talk like calling me slut, whore, etc. Telling me he's going to straddle my chest and pin me to the bed with his cock makes me crazy hot. I love telling my wife that the dildo in her pussy is a real cock and I'm going to lick her pussy where his cock goes into her really turns her on. Sexy talk adds another dimension to sex.

[dm330]

I love talking about anything sexually, a very imaginative and descriptive conversation about sex and what I like to do and what the person I'm conversing with enjoys. The convo usually leads to arousal and that's when the fun and the good dirty talk begins.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I Adore mentally stimulating peopel..men or women. I can drop this voice into a deep sultry mode, and still retain my accent..lol Its all about touching the mind, and tickleing the pleasure center of the brain. Stroking it, so to speak. Some folks Like light humiliation, some like full out forceful domination. Since becoming a Sensual Mistress, I have doscovered what buttons to push, what word phrases can trigger a sexual and sensual responce in people, and I greatly enjoy doing it.
I called one lady from here once and had her so hot and bothered just by lowering my voice and talking sensuous, not so much sexual, that I had her reaching for the toy drawer in a matter of 5 minutes..lolAs in "Do you like that, Sweet Baby? Like the feeling of Mommy's tongue circling that sensitive little nub..making it stand for me, making it want more and more stimulation and sensation? Tell me..." said in a hushed whisper, it can cause intense arousal in a heartbeat...lol


Sometimes it isnt what you say but How you say it..how you stimulate that ID, and touch key points in the mind of the person youre wishing to arouse. Just the right owrds, just the right inflextion of The Voice. I've always said, "Stimulate the mind and the body shall follow" and it's true..:}

Bad Cat

[simplexity]

When I used to have phone sex some of the girls would tell me I should write it down and make a book lol. But a book can't moan and talk back (to inspire me). I used to have this weird fetish where I'd tell people I was smaller than I was, so they would do the whole humiliation thing. Sometimes it worked sometimes it didn't. I am a decent size, but in ways I was always insecure. Probably due to the lack of activity and feedback at the time. But I always loved it when they would make fun of me in that regard. Also with the few I told that I'm bi, we'd work that into the scenario. Only one ex knew that I cross dressed (she is someone I lived with for about two years. big mistake but that's not really important for this post lol) and sometimes we'd have sex with me wearing lingerie I originally bought for her, and sometimes we'd use toys but it was hot when she would comment on how I was a cocksucker etc. As for calling women a slut or a whore or even a bitch, I just can't bring myself to do that. I am definitely a nasty boy by nature but I am also a gentleman. How can I call someone a bad name like that when they are nice enough to sleep with me lol? I guess though it's because of my upbringing. It's just those words though, I can still be naughty and forceful and call her names. Just not THOSE names lol.

[Waylon]

Dated a girl in college that had to be told she was a great cocksucker. Loved to have me guide her head and she needed to hear it several times during the blowjob. She was always asking me if she could suck my cock and asked if she was doing it correctly (even though she knew she was). She would brag to friends about how much she loved to suck and always asked me to tell them how good she was. It was a turnon for us all.

[robin ta laye]

Absofuckinglutely dirty talk by and for my playmate or better yet playmates, is fundamental to a hot getting hotter goodtime, and i love the dirty degrading stuff like "you little cocksucking slut, yes take this dick" "you whore, your good for a fuck" "yes baby you just love big dick dont you uh huh you cumslut whore drink me" or whatever, i've heard nastier and deserve it I am a slut and want a guy to acknowledge thats precisely what I am and that its what he wants and expects, and trust me I equally as dirty right back....

[ohbimale]

I have to admit that verbal stimulation is a big turn on. I like it when the person I am with, usually another man, tells me ho good I am. It is especially hot when he tells me how good it feels when I am sucking his cock and what a good cock sucker I am.

[FunE1]

Absolutely love dirty talk during sex... and I do mean dirty, the nastier, the raunchier, the better. I find it a real turn on, especially if I'm in a very sub mind space.

[indenver_indenver]

Here are a few emails sent to me by my partner before visiting to have me suck his cock. By time he gets here we are both crazy hot and the oral sex I give hiim is torrid!

I miss the velvety smoothness ofyour mouth, the way you wiggle your tongue as you bring me to the edge, the wayyou take me all the way down your throat, and the way you take my thrusts whenI pin you down. It is all good, very good and I know you want it. And this: I can't wait to have youattending to my cock again, I get stiff just thinking about having you devouringmy organ deep in your throat. I know you want to enjoy the sweet taste of myload as I shoot into your mouth. I should have a nice thick load stored up foryou. Andthis: My cock knows its influence over you and it wants to enjoyyour throat up close and personal. There have been many times that it wouldhave enjoyed injecting its creamy load down your throat. It would be fun tohave your wife watch you work me up to an animal frenzy and then watch us bothenjoy my cum ministration down your throat. That would be hot! As it is, I justwant to pin you down again and have you deep throat me like we did last time.