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WolfKing
Oct 6, 2010, 11:12 PM
I mean, it's kinda weird...I've had sex with both men and women, and I love sex with both men and women, and I'm attracted to both of them...I think...part of me is like, yeah, of course you're bi, but the other part of me thinks I just really really like sex, which makes sense cause I'm deviant in a bunch of other ways...I know that it just fuels the whole stereotype of "bisexual people are just fiends for sex"...but I am! I would never want to date or have a long term relationship with another guy, and I'm not nearly as attracted to them as I am to girls...sometimes I just need a cock, and sometimes I just fuck a guy cause I haven't been able to get a girl for a while and, frankly, they're easier...any thoughts?

mikey3000
Oct 6, 2010, 11:20 PM
I don't think you're bisexual, homosexual, heterosexual or pansexual. I think you're just sexual. Enjoy it while it lasts !!!

Cheers!

jem_is_bi
Oct 7, 2010, 12:49 AM
You may be right about yourself. As time goes on much of that sexual energy will have faded as you get to 50 and 60+. So, maybe it will take a lot more time to figure it out for sure.
I have not had such doubts about my sexuallity. I have always known that I was bisexual. Especially when I really crave sex, I sway more toward gay.

indycpl4men
Oct 7, 2010, 1:18 AM
Its just a label to let others know where you stand. For me if love pussy and like cock your bi-curious and if love both the same your a bisexual. If you can't see yourself with a female at all your gay. If you can't see yourself with a with a male you are straight. Don't think it to death just have fun. :bipride:

WolfKing
Oct 7, 2010, 2:20 AM
lol ive done wayyy too much to be considered "curious" :-P

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Oct 7, 2010, 2:42 AM
lol If you have been with men and women both, then its safe to assume you are Bisexual.
Quit over thinking it, just enjoy it. :}
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Focker
Oct 7, 2010, 2:20 PM
Don't think it to death just have fun.

Yeah I must agree with this person. Don't over think yourself. You sound so much like me....very sexual. Just enjoy who you are, and the ones you are with. Don't even worry about putting a label on it. Just do what feels natural to you and enjoy your life.